Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu oya kuthi ukubanga kuyingxenye ebalulekileyo yomdlalo wesondo. Bangakwazi ukuvakalisa iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zemizwa yethu. Kwaye ziyamnandi.
Iyintoni intsingiselo yokubanga kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo?
- INtloko . Ewe, endaweni yokubanga, ngokwenene, amava omntu achazwa. Ngoko, umzekelo, kukholelwa ukuba ukuvuna entloko akuthethi ukuthakazela, kodwa kulandelwa. Ngokukodwa oku kuthetha ngokubanga ebunzini okanye phezulu kwentloko. Ukuba ngumbuzo wokumanga komntu, intsingiselo inokwenzeka - iyanyamekela, isisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo akukho nto ichaza ngesondo apha. Nangona kunjalo, ukufumana uthando olunjalo luyavuya kakhulu, kuba uqinisekisa ukuba umntu uyamkhathalela inxalenye yakhe.
- Buyela . Ukuqwalasela iimpawu zokubamba kwiindawo ezahlukahlukeneyo zomzimba, unokubona ukuba ukubamba ayinayo intloko ephethe intetho yesini. Oku kunokuthiwa ngokumangalela emva, intsingiselo yintando, umnqweno, uvuyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ubomvu emzimbeni womzimba - uhlala unengqondo encinane. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukholelwa ukuba umqolo emva komgudu uyindawo engummangaliso. Ukuqhawula kule ndawo kuya kubangela ukuba umnqweno wokuba ube kunye nentanda yakho.
- Iilomo . Okumangalisayo kukuba, ukumanga emlonyeni kuthetha ukuthandana -konke oko.
- Amehlo . Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba xa umntu ewanga umfazi onamehlo avulekileyo, kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukuyilawula, unokutshilwa ngaphandle kokungathembeki okanye umona, ngakumbi xa ekhupha. Ukuba uvala amehlo akhe, ubonisa ukuzithemba, ububele, umnqweno wokuba kunye. Ukunyamezela kuthetha ukuvusa amehlo. I-caress ibonisa ukuba kukho umdla kumlingane wakho.
Ngokubhekisele ethempelini, intsingiselo ayibonakali. Akungabazeki ukuba naye uthetha ukunyamekela nokunyamekela. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ukumanga okunjalo kubonwa njengezesondo ngaphezu kwebunzi.
Ewe, unokubanga umlomo wakho ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu ngexesha elifanayo kunye nokubamba kancane umlomo wakhe, kuthetha ukuba ufuna ukulawula loo mbhangqwana. Kuthetha ukunyamekela, umnqweno wokuba nothando, kodwa kunye nokungaqiniseki.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kufuneka uwanga njengoko ufuna. Iingcali zenzululwazi sele zivumile ukuba ukuvusa kuphulukisa umzimba kwaye kwandisa ubomi. Kwaye ukwazi ixabiso labo, unokukwazi ukubona ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo ezithandwa ngumlingane.
