Ngamanye amaxesha ephupheni umntu ubona amabali anzima kakhulu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, izinto ezincinci. Kunzima ukutolika imibono kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kodwa incwadi yephupha iya kunceda ukuyicombulula le ngxaki kwaye uyayiqonda into efanelekileyo yelinen yelinen kunye nokuba uthathe eli bali njengesixwayiso ngengozi.
Ubhedu obucocekileyo bubukeka njani?
Umbono onjalo ngumqondiso wokuthi yonke into ihlelwe kwintsapho okanye ubomi bomntu bomntu bomntu siqu , oku kulungile, njengoko uthembisa ukungabikho kwempi kunye nokuxabana nomlingane. Kodwa inyaniso yokuba amaphupha ngokuguqula ilinen yembhedlele ayinakubizwa ngokuba ngumqondiso olungileyo, inyaniso kukuba abantu abasele bebudlelwane okanye umtshato, icebo elinjalo lithetha ngesifiso esinqumlekileyo sokutshintsha iqabane okanye ukunganeliseki ngobomi obusondeleyo. Ukuthenga i-snow-white set in dream, ngendlela, ixoxa ngayo. Ukuba isalathiso esinjalo sibonakala kwintombazana engatshatanga, ngoko ke inokuthembela ekubeni uya kuqala ukutshatana naye, yinto yokulala emhlophe okanye amaphupha akhe okuthenga.
Ngendlela, uFrud uthe ngokungaqhelekanga ukuba ukufunyanwa kwiphupha lezinto zonke ezixhunyiwe engqondweni yomntu ngesondo, oko kukuthi, i-pillowcases, amaphepha kunye neendwangu zokukhwabanisa, uthetha ngomnqweno wovavanyo kwiindawo ezithandana naye, ngokokuba iinjongo ezintsha zokulala, ngokutsho kwengqondo, ichaneke ngokukodwa.
Kutheni sineembhedlele ezingcolileyo?
Kodwa lo mbono ubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba kufuneka ulindele ingxaki ekusebenzisaneni nomlingane. Kungenzeka ukuba, kusasa elizayo kuza kuqala ukuxabana nokuxabana. Ukuba ikiti isasaza, ngoko akufanelekanga ukulinda ukuxolelana ngokukhawuleza, ukuhlambalaza kunye nokungaqondi kakuhle kuya kubangela ingxabano eqhelekileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi, ukuphela kobudlelwane.
Kubantu abangatshatanga, eli phupha liqikelela ukuba kwikamva elisondeleyo abayi kukwazi ukufumana ibini.