Ukuba ngumntwana kuyimvakalelo emangalisayo kwaye emangalisayo. Nsuku zonke iintsapho zethu zibona izinto ezintsha zehlabathi elijikelezile, ngokumangalisa kwaye ngokungafaniyo ndifuna ukwabelana ngam ibono yam kunye nosapho. Yaye indlela efanelekileyo yokubonisa iimvakalelo zakho ngumzobo. Ngethuba ukwenza ukudweba, inkomo ayifundanga nje ukuhlukanisa izinto, imibala kunye neefom, kodwa iphinda ikhulise umsebenzi wakhe wokucinga. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa umntwana ukuba aphathe amapende, ipensela kunye namanqaku ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuncedisa kulo mbandela ufundela izifundo ezilula.
Ngendlela efanelekileyo ukufundisa umntwana ukuba atye?
Kubantwana, ubuchule obunjengomdwebo ngowona thuba elikhulu lokuphuhliswa kokulungelelanisa, izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi, izakhono zokufunda, kunye nentetho kunye nokucinga. Ukuba uchazela umntwana malunga neyure kunye nesiqingatha iminyaka indlela yokudibanisa imibala, yintoni imibala ephethe uhlobo olugcinwe, kwaye yiyiphi into ethembekileyo, kwaye kwixesha elizayo umntwana uya kukwazi ukubonakalisa ezi mpawu kuluntu ngokugqibeleleyo. Ukuba ubonile ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla kwizobugcisa, ngoko lixesha lokucinga malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntwana omncinane ukuba athathe. Kwaye okokuqala, khumbula ezimbalwa iindlela ezilula:
- Ukuba inkwenkwe yakho sele isenza imidwebo yokuqala kwiphepha lephepha, zijonge kwakhona kwaye uzame ukwahlula phakathi kweendlela ezixakekileyo ezifana nezinto zehlabathi langempela. Ngokomzekelo, uyabona ukuba umntwana ubamba isangqa. Mxelele: "Yeka ilanga elihle ufumanayo." Ukuba ubona imigca e-jerky, xelela umntwana ukuba ingca, njl Ngamazwana anjalo uya kumnceda ukuba alungise ezindleleni zakhe zokubonisa izinto zehlabathi zangempela.
- Ekuqaleni, kuya kuba nzima kunene umntwana ukuba athathe amanani amakhulu, ngenxa yokuba izakhono zezithuthi azange zenziwe ngokwaneleyo. Kule nto unokunceda umbala kunye nemigca yokujika. Bonisa umntanakho indlela yokudweba umgca usebenzisa ipenethi yokuphuhlisa. Kubalulekile ukuba enze oku ngaphandle kokuthatha umakishi kwiphepha.
- Emva kokufunda iifom ezinkulu, ungaqala ukudweba iinkcukacha ezincinci. Apha ungabandakanya amehlo, ipenki, amaqhosha, i-brow, njl njl. Into ephambili yenkwenkwe eyayiqonda indlela yokudlulisela iphepha kwizinto ezidibana nazo ebomini.
Ukudibanisa iiklasi kwaye uqhubeke nokuphuhliswa kwefantasy, ungazama ezi zilandelayo zifundo ezithandekayo zokubonisa abantwana:
- Ukudweba ngesiponji. Uzakufuna upende (i-gouache efanelekileyo), iphepha le-Whatman usayizi wephepha A3 kunye neepongi ezimbalwa. Gcoba isiponji kwipuphu uze ucinezele ngokukhawuleza kuyo, ukuze umswakama ungagcini umshicileli kwiphepha. Ingcamango yakho into enhle njengokuba isiponji sinokungenamkhawulo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uqhube isiponti kwisiqulatho, unako ukufumana intsapho yonkatha.
- Ipeyinti ekhanyayo. Ngenxa yale nkqubo uza kuyidinga i-mascara, iphepha lephepha elinomxholo kunye netyhubhu. Yenza amaconsi ambalwa esidumbu esiphepheni kwaye uphuphe kuyo ukuze upende luhlakazeke kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo. Emva koko imigca ingagqitywa ngomdlalo okanye i-toothpick. Ndiyabulela kule ndlela umntwana uya kufunda ukudweba imithi kunye neentlobo. Into eyona nto kukuba akazukulimala, edlala kunye neentambo kunye nemidlalo.
- Ukutshiza ngepeyinti. Ngalolu cwangciso, unokwenza imvelaphi enkulu kwimidwebo yakho. Gubungula ibrashi elukhuni kwi-bristle ibe yipende, uze uyifefe kwisithombe esele sagqityiweyo nesomisiwe. Umzekelo wale nkqubo ungabakho ukuhamba kwasebusika. Ukuba upende kumfanekiso wepeyinti emhlophe, uya kufumana iiflekhi zangempela zeqhwa. Kwaye ukuba uthe wavelisa iziqhamo okanye indawo yasekwindla, ufefe ngokugqibeleleyo uzalise umfanekiso.
- Ukudweba ngeminwe. Apha uya kufuna kwakhona isiponji. Faka isicelo esincinane kwipende kuyo kwaye umema umntwana ukuba adibanise umnwe kuwo. Emva kokufaka umnwe kwiphepha lephepha, uya kufumana i-oval encinane. Ngalolu cwangciso, unako ukuthabatha amancinci amancinci e-pink, kunye nempilo enkulu. Into ephambili kukuba udwebe zonke iinkcukacha ezincinci ngepeni.
Kwimibuzo yendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukudweba, zonke iindlela zifanelekileyo kwaye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali kwamukelwa kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, zama ukugcina eminye imithetho ebalulekileyo:
- ungalokothi uqedele kwaye ulungise ubugcisa bomntwana wakho. Oku akusayi kumcasula nje kuphela, kodwa kunokuhlakulela ukungathandabuzeki kuye;
- Musa ukugxekisa into eyenziwa yintsapho yakho. Oku kunokuphazamisa umnqweno wakhe wokubandakanya ubuchule;
- Musa ukucela umntwana ukuba athathe nayiphi na ikhonkrithi. Utyhila oko kuphefumlelwe;
- Musa ukufundisa ukudweba umfanekiso ofanayo. Inokubulala umfesane womntwana, kwaye uya kubona ihlabathi ngokuchithwa;
- soloko uyamhlonela ubugcisa bomntwana wakho. Khumbula ukuba nawaphi na amagama endumiso ngumvuzo omhle kuye.
Ukuba awukwazi ukunika umntwana ixesha elaneleyo, isisombululo esihle kakhulu kumbuzo wokuba ufundise umntwana ukuba atyebe angakwazi ukufunda kwisikolo sobugcisa. Ngaphantsi kolawulo lwabaqeqeshi, umntwana wakho uya kufunda izixhobo zobugcisa obuhle kwaye afunde ukujonga kwihlabathi ngobuchule. Ukongeza, iiklasi kwisikolo sobugcisa ziya kunika umntwana ithuba lokuhlakulela ingcamango, ingcamango, imbali kunye nobuchule.