Njengoko ikhula, umntwana uthatha ibhokhwe, i-spoon kunye neguggi. Kwiminyaka emi-2-3, iimvumba zifuna ukufunda nokugqoka, ngenxa yokuba ngeli xesha uya e-kindergarten. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntwana akafuni ukugqoka?
Kutheni umntwana engafuni ukugqoka?
Ngokutsho kweengqondo zengqondo, iimpahla zenza iinyembezi zezinyembezi kwaye zikhwaza ngenxa yesizathu esilula esenza ukuba abe neentlungu kunye nokuphazamiseka. Emva koko, ubophelela ukuhamba kwakhe kwaye ngaloo ndlela unqanda inkululeko. Ngexesha lokugqoka, umntwana kufuneka aphakamise aze aphule iingalo kunye nemilenze yakhe, ahlale ixesha elide endaweni enye kunokudlala kunye nemidlalo yamathandayo.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba agqoke?
Okokuqala, xa umntwana ebonisa umdla ekugqokeni, abazali abanalo mfuneko yokukhupha iqhinga. Okwesibini, xa uthengela iimpahla zomntwana ozithandayo, zishiye izinto ezinzima. Okwesithathu, xa iimvumba zikunzima ukugqoka into, musa ukukhawuleza ukumnceda. Umntwana uya kuba mnandi xa ejongene nobunzima bodwa. Kwaye ke ungagcini! Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba agqoke ngokukhawuleza, uya kunceda kunye neendidi zamathoyizi ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi: iilesi, i-labyrinths. Vumela umntwana adle iidonki, iibhere zeebhere, imvundla. Mnike uqeqesho ukuze unqakraze amaqhosha, iinyoka kunye neengxabano kwizinto ezindala.
Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukugqoka yena ngokwakhe, faka udibaniso kunye nempono. Tshela intsana ukuba isicatshuthi sisigqoko se-superhero, ibhulukhwe yengubo yelinen yimijondolo, kwaye imilenze yakhe iyimoto.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba agqoke izicathulo?
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Ukongezelela, xa umntwana egqoke, akakho nawuphi na umntu onokubangela ukucasula ukunyuka kwakhe. Kungcono ukusebenzisa iingcebiso ezininzi, amahlaya, iindlela zokuphazamisa!