Namhlanje, akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana azalwe ngaphandle komtshato. Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuba kubakho iindlela ezimbini-ngokuzithandela kunye nokunyanzeliswa, kwenziwa enkundleni. Kule nqaku, siza kuthetha malunga nendlela yokuqaphela nokuqulunqa umtshato ngaphandle komtshato.
Ukwamkelwa komntu ongaphantsi komtshato
Abazali bahlala kwintsapho
Umtshato womtshato awuyothusa. Le neseli epheleleyo yoluntu, nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle "isitampu epasipoti." Oko kuphela xa umntwana ezalwa kuloo ntsapho, bobabini abazali baya kufuneka babhale inkcazo kwi-ofisi ye-registry ukuze baqinisekise ukuba bazali. Kodwa oku akunzima kwaye kungekudala. Ukukhethwa kwegama lomntwana ozelwe ngaphandle komtshato kuya kuxhomekeka kubazali bobabini - njengoko bathethayo, kuya kuba njalo.
Utata wenqaba ukuzithandela umntwana wakhe ngokuzithandela
Kule meko, unina okanye umntwana, ukuba uneminyaka yobudala, unelungelo lokufakela ibango enkundleni malunga nokuqatshelwa kobodwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kunye nesibango esinjalo, isitatimenti senziwa ukuba ifune ukuba uyise uhlawule i-alimony. Kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba ukwazi ukuba i-alimony iya kufunyanwa kwimeko apho inkundla yenza isigqibo esihle ngabo. Ubomi bokuqala bomntwana, uyise akayi kuhlawula nayiphi na into. Kufuneka kwakhona kukhunjulwe ukuba i-alimony iya kubalwa kuphela kumvuzo osemthethweni kabawo. Phonononga ngokupheleleyo le nyathelo ukwenzela ukuba ungabi kwiimeko apho kwikamva uza kunciphisa "utyeshe" ubawo wamalungelo omzali wokuba uhlawule ukuhlawula i-alimony.
Kwakhona kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukusekwa kobuntinini kuyinyanzeliso, awuyi kumphoqa le ndoda ukuba imthande umntwana wayo, kodwa ukongeza kwiingxaki zomntwana kwixesha elizayo - lula. Emva koko, ubaba unako ukulahleka, kwaye umntwana, umzekelo, ukuba ahambe kwamanye amazwe, kuya kufuneka amfune yena ukuze athathe imvume yokushiya. Ngoko ke, cingisisa ngemiphumo ekhoyo.
Umama, onokuhambisa le saziso, kuya kubakho ukuqokelela konke ubungqina obuya kunceda ekuqinisekiseni enkundleni ukuba ulungile. Ingaba ngabavakalisi, oogxa nabo, abaqhelana nabo - bonke abo bangatsho ukuba uhlala kunye kwaye kukhokelela "uqoqosho" olufanayo.
Ukuzalwa komntwana akuveli kumlingane, kodwa kuvela kwenye indoda
Ibukeka njengengcambu yeempawu zanamhlanje? Kodwa kwenzeka kubomi bethu kwaye oku. Ngokomthetho, ukuba umfazi uhlala emtshatweni obhalisiweyo, iqabane lakhe liya kubhaliswa ngokuzenzekelayo njengoyise womntwana. Kwimeko yokuqhawula umtshato kwisithuba seentsuku ezingama-300 emva koko, umntwana uya kubhalwa kunye nomlingane wangaphambili. Ukulungelelanisa onke amanqaku angentla "i" kuyimfuneko ukuqhuba inkqubo yocelomngeni. Ukwenza oku, kuyimfuneko ukufakela isicelo kunye neqabane kunye nomama, okanye oyinyaniso nonina, kunye ne-ofisi yokubhalisa.
Umnqweno kaYise wokuseka umtshato
Umama unqatshelwe amalungelo omzali okanye ahlonishwa njengomthetho ongekho mthethweni - kwimeko enjalo, ukwenzela ukuba aqiniseke ukuba umzali, ubaba unakho ukufaka ifom yebango enkundleni, ukuba ngaphambili wayesezama ukwenza oku ngeofisi ye-registry, kodwa wenqatshelwe kwiziko le-guardianship and trusteeship. Kukwafanelekile ukukhankanya ukuba akukodwa nje kwabazali, kodwa kunye nezinye izalamane zingayifaka ingxelo enjalo, kwaye njengokuba umntwana ngokwakhe ekuthethwe ngaye ngaphambili, ukuba uneminyaka yobudala.
Amalungelo kayise kumntwana ongekho mthethweni
Amalungelo obawo ngokuzithandela ayamkela ububele, okanye asekwe kwinkqubo yomgwebo ngokufanayo ngokufanayo nangomama, okanye kunoko:
- ukukhuliswa komntwana;
- ukhetho lweziko lemfundo;
- ukhuselo lobomi, impilo kunye nesidima.
Ukuba abazali abahlali ndawonye, ubawo unelungelo lokubona kwaye
Ukuba unqwenela, uyise ungaphila nomntwana. Kodwa kule meko, inkundla iya kufuneka ibonise ukuba ukuguqula indawo yokuhlala kuyo umntwana kuyimfuneko kwaye kunye noba kuyakuba ngcono, kuphephe, kukhululeke ngakumbi.
Ukuba namalungelo omntwana, ungayikhohlwa kwakhona ngemisebenzi enokuthi uyise ufanele ayenze. Ukunyamekela nokuphuhliswa - oku kuyingxenye encinci yezinto eziyimfuneko ukunika indoda encinane.