Izibonakaliso kunye neentsingiselo zabo ziye zafika kwiintsuku zethu ukusuka kumyalelo omdala ovela kwi-grand-mother, ukuba zilondolozile olu lwazi kwaye ludlulisela kwisizukulwana kwisizukulwana, mhlawumbi baqaphela ukuba banako ukunika iingqinisiso nokubonisa ikusasa. Akunangqiqo ukuba iimpawu zeKrisimesi zenza umdla obaluleke kakhulu, kuba ubusuku buyimfihlelo kwaye buyimfihlakalo, butyhila imfihlelo kwaye bufezekisa iminqweno.
Ngelishwa, akuzona zonke izithethe, iisithethe kunye nemiqondiso yeeholide zeKrisimesi zenzeke kwaye zithatyathwe ingcambu namhlanje, kodwa ezinye zazo ziyakhunjulwa.
Izibonakaliso zamantombazana angatshatanga kwiKrisimesi
- Ukuba, ngeveki yeKrismesi, intombazana ilahlekelwe ngenye inwele yeenwele zakhe, kungekudala uza kufumana umyeni.
- Xa usendleleni eya kwiqela leKrisimesi odibana naloo mntu angaziwayo, kulo nyaka unyanisekileyo uya kudibana.
- Ukuba ikati ekuseni izama ukuphosa ngaphaya komnyango wendlu - iya kuba yindoda kwaye ibe ngumnini mhle.
- Kwakhona, intombazana engakatshatanga ingakwazi ukutshitshisa ize ithathe udoti ngomhla weKrisimesi, ngoko uyayicima.
- Amantombazana nabasetyhini bafanele bagqoke kwiimpahla ezifanelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba inkwenkwezi yokuqala yeKrisimesi ibonakale esibhakabhakeni, ngaphandle koko abayi kukwazi ulwalamano olutsha kunyaka omtsha.
- Amantombazana enqwenela ukwazi ukuba uthando lwabo olutsha ulindile, unokumisela ngamathambo eapulo ayidlayo, kufuneka babaleke kwaye ukuba
inani liphindwe kabini, ngoko impendulo ifanelekileyo, ukuba kukho iingaphantsi kweesithandathu, kodwa inani lihlala lihlangene -bini oza kudibana nayo kwikamva elikufuphi.
Kutheni amantombazana abanako ukuqiqa ngeKrisimesi?
Kukholelwa ukuba ukubamba inkolelo yokuhlambalaza ngobusuku beKrismesi kwintombazana kubangelwa ukuba uya kuba nomngcipheko wokulahlekelwa yothando lwakhe kwaye akayi kukwazi ukubona kunye nokuziva ukuba ngubani onguyo. Kodwa, nangona ezi zi lumkiso, ininzi intombazana iqikelela ngaloo busuku kwaye icinge ngetyala ngeli xesha elichanileyo.