Ukuzalwa komntwana ngamnye umzali kuyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini. Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomama, nonina novuyo kwintlanganiso ekulindelwe ixesha elide naye. Emva kwexesha elithile, abaninzi abazali abasandul 'ukugqiba banquma ukubhaptiza umntwana wabo. Kodwa, umvuzo wobhaptizo awubalulekile kuphela kumama noyise. Esi siganeko kubalulekile ukuba ootata-ntombi, oza kuthi ngeli xesha liza kubakho umntwana, kuba kwixesha elizayo baya kuthathwa njengabazali bobabini bomntwana.
Izambatho zikaThixo
Abafazi bonke bayazi ukuba kuyimfuneko ukugqoka isiphambano se-christening. Ukuba uthe wamenywa ukuba unguThixo, kufuneka ufunde kwangaphambili indlela oothixo abafanele ukuba bagqoke ngayo. Ngezansi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda ukufanisa lo mcimbi.
- Izambatho zikaThixo unina akufanele zivuselele. Ingaba ngumkhonto omde kunye ne-blouse kunye nemikhono eminyeneyo kunye ne-cut cut, okanye ingubo, kunye nobude obufanelekileyo.
- Ekubeni ukukhishwa komntwana kwenzeka ecaweni, isiphambano asifanele sigqoke ngeebhulukhwe okanye iidons.
- Abanye bakholelwa ukuba iimpahla kufuneka zibe lula. Unako, nokuba kunjalo, nokuba yinto emnyama, into eyona nto kukuba ayikukhanya kakhulu kwaye iyashukumisa.
- Inhloko yodadekazi kufuneka ifakwe ingqumbo okanye ibhola, njengokuba umfazi engavunyelwe ukungena kwicawa engenakho intloko.
- Ukongeza kwengubo kuyakufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba akukufanelekanga ukubeka ukukhangela kunye nokukhawulela umlomo ngalolu suku, kuba ngethuba lokukhonza u-unina uya kumanga umnqamlezo. Kwakhona, ngexesha lokubhaptizwa, umntwana uya kuba sezandleni zikaThixo, ngoko kungcono ukunqaba iiphunga, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana angabangeli ukuphendula.
Njengoko ubona, iingubo ze-christening christening zilula kwaye zithandekile. Ndiyicinga ukuba yonke ibhinqa kwisigqobo sambatho iya kuba neempahla ezifunekayo zokubhaptizwa, kwaye ukuba akunjalo, ukumfumana akuyi kuba yinto enkulu.
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