Intombi ekhulayo kwintsapho iphethwe njengobuncwane. Phantse bonke abazali bazama ukuba ngabahlakaniphili abahle, bakhethe isipho esihle kunazo zonke kwintombazana yabo ngosuku ajika ngayo iminyaka eli-10 ubudala. Ukubukela umncinci omncinci kunye nokuthetha naye, unokumenza ube nolonwabo ngakumbi, ukuqiqa ngomnqweno wakhe onqwenelayo, ukufumanisa oko akuthandayo kunye noko akuthandayo.
Sisiphi isipho onokuyinika intombi yakho iminyaka eyi-10?
- Ukushicilelwa kwangoku.
- Iimpahla zengubo.
- Izinto zokuhamba kunye nemisebenzi yangaphandle.
- Izinto ezinokuphuhlisa ukucinga kwengqondo kunye neetalente.
Ukunikezelwa kwejubane lobomi bwanamhlanje, simele siqaphele ukuba inqaku elincinci lihlawulwa kakhulu kubantwana babo, ukutshintsha ukunakekelwa kwabo kumahlombe abantu abangabazi. Ungalungiselela iholide enhle kumntwana wakho, mema abahlobo bakho uze ulandele ikhekhe lokuzalwa. Kodwa kunomdla ngakumbi ukumbonisa ngombono oya ku khunjulwa ubomi bakhe bonke. Oku kunokukhwela ihashe, iklasi yeklasi ekuphekeni okanye ekufotheni, iseshoni yokudibanisa okanye umfanekiso wesithombe. Kungcono ukunika ithuba lokukhetha umsebenzi womntwana.
Ekubeni kubalulekile ukuba intombazana ingaboni mbi kunabo abahlala naye, makhe azalise ikhabethe yakhe ngento ekhethiweyo ayayiyikhetha yona.
Ibhasikidi , iikratshi ezinqabileyo okanye into enjalo isipho esipheleleyo kwintombi engahlali ngexesha lokuzalwa kwakhe xa ephendukela kwi-10. Abantwana abaninzi bathanda ukudlala izakhiwo, apho bashiya amandla abo angabikho.
Ukuba ulahlekelwa yintoni, ukuba uyinikele intombazana yakho iminyaka eyi-10, uthenge ithoyiphu leyo engayi kuyenza kuyo okanye ukupenda, apho aya kubeka khona imifanekiso yakho. Njengomntwana, uya kuvuya nomnxeba wefowuni, i-console ye-game, ithebhulethi okanye umyili. Yaye ukuba intombi yakho ingumlingo wesilwane, umangaliswe ngetekethi, kuyimfuneko ukuba enze izinto ezithandwayo.