Ubomi babo bonke abaphilayo bufana noko. Iintsana azikho. Bona, njengabantwana abancinci, baqala ukulungelelanisa kwindawo yabo emva kokuzalwa. Ukususela kwimpilo yabantu abadala baye bahlukana ngamaxesha amaninzi. Kwaye kuphela iimpawu zentlobo ethile okanye ukuphuhliswa komntu ngamnye kunokutshintsha umzobo, obonisa indlela inja ebhekwa ngayo ukuba iyinkukhu.
Zingaphi inyanga inja injengeyilwanyana?
Ixesha elinzima kakhulu lokulungelelaniswa komzimba omncinci uhlala malunga neeveki ezintathu ukusuka ngexesha lokuzalwa. Iingcamango eziphambili zintsana zijoliswe ekufumaneni ingono yomama, ukubonelela ngokutya. Nangona ixesha lusuku alunandaba naye. Ukuphefumula, i-cardiovascular, i-nervous kunye nezinye iinkqubo zisebenza ngokuhlukileyo, ngokuthe ngcembe zitshintsha isingqimba sabantu. Ngexesha lokubeletha, umntwana usongeza ubunzima, uvule amehlo akhe aze aqale ukuhamba.
Ukususela kwiiveki ezintathu ukuya kwezine, uhlobo lwahlula i-puppy ngexesha lenguqu. Ngokumalunga nokutya, unomdla kwisondlo esiqinileyo. Uzama ukuphuma kwidleke, ukuhlola imeko. Imbonakalo emitsha kunye nemithetho yehlabathi lezilwanyana zithintela umzimba omncinane, ushiye ukuba usengozini.
Isigaba sesithathu kukuhlalisana kwezilwanyana, ezihlala kwezinye iimeko, ukuya kwiintsuku ezingama-80. Ukungabikho komama kuthatyathelwe ingcamango eyamnceda ukuba aphile. Umsebenzi ukwandisa kwaye isingqimba sosuku sitshintshiwe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunyamekela inkwenkwe, ukudlala nayo. Kungcono ukuba iqabane lilinye intshontsho. Ukungabikho kokuhamba kunye nobuthixo kuthintela phambili uphuhliso.
Ngenyanga yesithathu okanye yesine kukho utshintsho lwamazinyo kunye nexesha lesantya liqala. Iipropati eziphambili zedwala, uphawu lwayo luyabonakala. Kuya kuba malunga neenyanga ezintandathu, kwaye siya kukwazi ukugcina imidlalo yokuqala yesondo. Kubalulekile kule nqanaba ukuba ungabalulekanga umntwana ukuba axoxe kunye noontanga. Iminyaka apho inja ithathwa njengotyiba igqiba iinyanga eziyisixhenxe zokuphuhliswa nokuzaliswa kwamazinyo.