Ukuphuhliswa komntwana kunxulumene nokuwa kunye nokulimala, kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntwana wehlile aze aphethe intloko yakhe, kungekhona wonke umzali owaziyo. Umthetho wokuqala ngowokuhlala uzolile kunye negazi elibandayo (nangona kungelula) ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo imeko yomntwana kwaye uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo. Okokuqala, zama ukuqonda apho umntwana ewa khona, yintoni efikile kuyo, nokuba yintoni eyiyo.
Kwimeko apho umntwana ewela aze aphule intloko okanye impumlo, kodwa akukho nto iguquka kwisimo sakhe (ayilahlekanga, iphendule imibuzo), ngaphandle kokubunjwa kwe "cones" okanye ukutyumza, sinokuqinisekisa ukuba ukuxutywa kwezicubu ezithambileyo zentloko, apho kungekho ngcebiso kumgqirha , kunokwenzeka ukuba ayifuni.
Ndifuna nini ukuba ndibone udokotela ngokukhawuleza?
Ngamanye amaxesha umama ucinga ukuba xa umntwana ewela aze aphule ibunzi lakhe, akunjalo kunobungozi kunokuba awele kwaye ahlasele intloko. Enyanisweni, akubalulekanga kakhulu indawo leyo umntwana ayenayo, izenzo ezongezelelweyo zixhomekeke kumlinganiselo wefuthe. Ukuba umntwana uwela intloko kuqala, ukuxhwaleka kobuchopho kunye negazi kuyingozi ethile.
Ingqungquthela inokumiselwa ngolu hlobo lweempawu: ukulahleka kwengqondo, ukuhlanza, i-pallor. Umntwana uleleke kwaye unengqondo, wenqaba ukutya kunye nokukhalaza ngentloko kunye nesandi ezindlebeni.
Ngomngcipheko wengqondo, umntwana ulahlekelwa ingqalelo ixesha elide (ngaphezu kweyure). Ngophahla lwekhayi, ukuqonda kunye nenhliziyo intliziyo iphazamisekile. Igazi liyakwazi ukugeleza ukusuka empumleni okanye kwindlebe, imivalo phantsi kwamehlo.
Ukubonakala kweempawu ezilandelayo kudinga ukunakekelwa kwangoko kunyango:
- ukulahlekelwa okanye ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo;
- iingxaki zokuthetha;
- utshintsho ku ziphatha;
- ukulala okungaqhelekanga;
- ungadluli ikhefu enye;
- zixhala;
- ngaphezulu kokuhlaselwa okulodwa kokuhlanza;
- ukungcola okanye ukungalingani, okuqhubekayo ngaphezu kweyure enye emva kokulimala;
- ezahlukeneyo ngobukhulu bezingane;
- ukuphuma kumphunga okanye kwiindlebe;
- ukuphuma egazini kwimizuzu engaphezu kwe-15.
Yintoni endiyenzayo xa umntwa wam ewela?
- Ukuba umntwana uwile ekuphakameni, kodwa akukho monakalo obonakalayo kumathambo, uyagqithisela ithayile ehlanjululwe ngamanzi abandayo okanye iziqwenga zabantu ezifakwe ngengubo kufuneka zisetyenziswe kwisayithi elichaphazelayo. Oku kuya kunceda ukususa ukuvuvukala, ukumisa ukuphuma kwegazi nokunciphisa intlungu.
- Nika uxolo lomntwana, kodwa ungamvumeli ukuba alale ngaphakathi kweyure emva kokuwa-oku kuya kukunceda uhlole imeko yakhe ngokufanelekileyo.
- Ukuba umntwana uwile kwaye ulahlekelwe ingqondo, ngaphambi kokuba eze i-ambulensi, uyibeke ecaleni ukuze uhlanza apheli. Ukuguqula umntwana kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu (i-trunk nentloko kufuneka ibe kwi-axis efanayo), ukuba kukho ithuba lokulimala emgodini.
Ngaba kuyingozi ukuwa usana olutsha?
Kunzima ukufumana umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa ongeke awele kwibhedi okanye isepha okungenani kanye ngonyaka wokuqala wobomi. Ndiyabulela kwisakhiwo skull, kunye nobukho befenanel kunye nokukhupha umkhuhlane, okunciphisa umonakalo ngokwemvelo, kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuwa akubandakanyi nemiphumo emibi. Emva kokuwa, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuphumla okuphezulu emini kwaye uqaphele kakuhle indlela yokuziphatha komntwana. Amama ayesaba ngokukodwa ukulimala kwangaphakathi, kodwa ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana akutshintshi emva kokuwa, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ukulimala kancinci.
Ukuthintela ukuwa
- Abazali mabaqikelele kwangaphambili ukubonakala kwezakhono ezintsha zentengiso kubantwana abancinci. (nokuba umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala angashenxisa imilenze ukusuka kwicala lomkhumbi okanye umcebisi, ukuba ungathethi umntwana oneminyaka engama-50 ubudala ofunda ukukhwela kunye nokunyuka emilenzeni).
- Ukushiya igumbi, ungashiyi umntwana kuyo nayiphi na intaba - kungcono ukubeka phantsi.
- Njalo qhasela umntwana wakho kwi-stroller.
- Musa ukushiya umntwana engenakulindelwa kwi "jumpers" kunye "nabahambahambayo."