Umntwana ufuna ntoni uvuyo?

Kuphela nje ephupha ngokubonakala komntwana kwintsapho, abazali abanokuthi baprofethe umntwana wabo ikusasa elihle kunye nethemba elihle. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu ocinga ngento umntwana afuna ngayo ulonwabo kunye nendlela yokumkhusela kwiinkathazo kunye neempazamo. Okokuqala, abazali abancinci kufuneka banikele ingqalelo kwimpilo yentsana yabo, kuba ngaphandle kwakhe umgca akayi kubakho ubumnandi obuhle kwaye bodwa. Umntwana onqwenelayo unamathuba amaninzi kuloo nto, kuba umama noTata baqala ukunyamekela kuye kwaye impilo yakhe isoloko kwisigaba sokucwangcisa: bafumana iimviwo ezahlukahlukeneyo, benqabe ukusebenzisa utywala kunye ne-cigarettes. Ekhutshwe ngothando, ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela, owesifazane okhulelweyo uhambisa izi mvakalelo zomlingo kunye nosana, ozalwa evuya kwaye ezele ukukhanukela ubomi.

Ixesha lohambo lweentsapho

Kodwa kukho enye inkxalabo malunga nempilo, nangona impendulo yombuzo "indlela yokukhulisa umntwana onoyolo?" Ngaba aluxhomekeke ngqo kwizinga lemali engenayo, isimo sezenhlalakahle, imeko zentsapho. Okokuqala, inkwenkwe idinga ukunakwa kunye nokuqhagamshelana rhoqo nabazali bakhe. Khawukhumbule, yiyiphi ixesha lakho elonwabileyo lobuncinci lixhunyiwe! Ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuhamba ngokubambisana kunye nemidlalo, umkhankaso kwiseksi nakwimidlalo, iidlo zokutya zentsapho kunye nemikhosi evuyayo, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubusuku bomzali bobusuku. Beka eceleni kwithuba elithile umsebenzi, imisebenzi yasekhaya - baya kulinda, kwaye bazinikezele umntwana wakho - uya kubona ukuba ukuzonwabisa akuyi kuba luncedo kuphela, kodwa kubambisana.

Imoya yasekhaya

Enye yeengcebiso indlela yokwenza umntwana onoyolo kukudala inceba, umoya onobungane kwintsapho. Vumela intsana, naphezu kweengxaki kwiqela lezingane kunye neengxaki zobomi, uzive ekhaya ethandwayo kwaye ekhuselekile, apha kufuneka afumane uxolo, ukuqiniswa nokuqonda. Fundisa umntwana ukuba axolele, kwaye wena ubonise ukunyamezela: ukugxeka kunye nokuxabana kwinto yakho akuyi kuzisa into enhle, umntwana wakho kufuneka athembele kubazali bakhe, ngaphandle koko uyamsongela ukungabikho kobudlelwane bokwenene kwimpilo yabantu abadala.

Izifundo ezibalulekileyo

Ukongezelela ekuthandweni nasekunyamekeleni, zethu iintsana nazo zifuna izikhokelo zabazali. Yabelana ngamava akho kunye nomncinci wakho, umfundise uxanduva, ukukwazi ukujamelana nobunzima bokuphila, uchaze "okulungileyo nokubi." Emva kokuba umntwana wakho evakalelwa ubuncinci abancinane, uya kuba nethemba lokuzithemba nokuzixabisa. Ndikholelwe, ngokunyamekela abantwana ekujongeni ubomi obungasilungelelwanga kwaye abangakwazi ukujamelana neengxaki ezingathandekiyo.

Beka onke amava akho, uthando olungenammandla kwintsana yakho, makunakekele ingqalelo yakho kunye nenkathalo yakho, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziqhenya ngexesha elizayo esithi wayenomntwana ovuyayo.