Amantombazana amaninzi, xa kuziwa ekuthandeni, bathambekele ekusebenziseni imilingo emhlophe. Kukho uluvo lokuba umlingo omnyama uyingozi, kodwa umhlophe awukho. Enyanisweni, ukungenayo imithwalo epheleleyo yolwazi namava, ukusebenzisa nanoma yimuphi umlingo kwiincwadi kuyingozi, njani ukunqumla isithintelo kwi-encyclopedia yezokwelapha. Nangona kunjalo, ukhetho luhlala luhlala lulowo nalowo kuthi.
Ukuthanda uMhlophe uMhlophe
Njengomthetho, imilingo emhlophe isetyenziswa kakuhle: ukubuyisela umyeni , ukuvuselela iimvakalelo zangaphambili, njl. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umlingo omhlophe ubizwa ngokuba ngumvelo - kuba uhamba ngobuchule, ubuyisela amandla kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, awukwazi ukulimaza nabani na. Ukutshintsha umlingo omhlophe othandekayo kuya kunceda kuphela ukuba unemvakalelo - ngokubhekiselele kwimeko yendalo, imilingo emhlophe ayinamandla, inokomeleza kuphela into.
Ukusebenza kwemilingo emhlophe kuquka ukusetyenziswa kweemfesane, ukuxhamla, ukuxhamla, ukuqhinga, ukukhusela kwimikhosi embi. Nangona kunjalo, le nto idinga ulwazi olunzulu olwaneleyo ukuba lukwazi ukwenza ngokufanelekileyo ukwenza zonke izilingo zemilingo kwaye ufumane umphumo ofunwayo.
Musa ukulibala ngemithetho elula eya kunceda izenzo zakho zemilingo ziphumelele ngakumbi:
- Ngomlingo omhlophe, ukuphambuka kwentando kubhengezwa ngentshontsho, kodwa ngokucacileyo.
- Ngaphambi kokuba ufunde isalathisi, kukufanele ufunde umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu".
- Ngomlingo omhlophe, ukupasa ngothando kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuqinisa iintliziyo, kwaye awukwazi ukunqumla umntu ongakuthandiyo. Ukuze uholele umntu womnye umntu, kukho inguqu emnyama.
Umlingo omhlophe awuxeleli indlela yokubuyisela umntu omthandayo othe wayethanda omnye umfazi, uthatha inqobo, isiphumo esihle.
Umlingo omhlophe ngothando
Kukho iqela leqhinga lothando oluya kukhusela iimvakalelo ezivela kwiso elibi kwaye liqinise. Nazi ezimbalwa zazo:
- Ukuphikelela amabhandlela amabini ecawa kunye nesiqwenga, uthi: "Njengoko ezi zikhandlela ze-alliance zihlangene, ngokunjalo thina kunye nawe siya kubuya." Emva koko ubabeke umlilo phambi kwe icon kwaye uthi: "Andiyikukhanyisa ikhandlela, kodwa ndikhanyisa intliziyo nomphefumlo womkhonzi kaThixo, (igama lomntu othandekayo), kum, umkhonzi kaThixo, (igama lam), ngonaphakade." Phinda phinda kwakhona ngokuphindwe kasithoba.
- Uluhlu lokufumana uthando oluqinileyo kumntu, lume ulwimi lwakho uze uthi: "Ndiyaluma, inceku (igama lomfana osemfana) ndiyazibiza." Kwaye (ndilahlekelwe igama lomfana osemncinane), andizange ndiyazi ngokulangazelela kokuphumla, kungabi ngukukhanya kokukhanya okanye kumnyama ebusuku. Konke ukucinga ngam, njengoko ndithe, kuya kuba njalo, egameni likaYise, noNyana, noMoya oyiNgcwele. "Amen."
Sebenzisa ezi ziqhinga kuphela ngeenjongo ezilungileyo kunye nentliziyo ecocekileyo!