Ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha amaqhinga abonwa ngabantu. Emva koko yinto yonke yesiganeko esichukumisayo neyinkimbinkimbi, umbono ongapheliyo ovela kuyo imemori kuphela, okanye ukucinga. Apha, umzekelo, ukuba yiyiphi intlaka kwikati ephuphayo, cela imibuzo ethile. Kuya kubonakala ngathi, ihlazo! Iifukane ziyizinambuzane ezimbi kakhulu: kwaye zibonakala zichasene, kwaye zinamathela igazi, kwaye ziluma kakhulu ngaphezu kobuyane. Imfesane yefleas ayifumanekanga nakwabantu abangaqhelekanga abafana neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zezinambuzane ezinokuthi: zikhona iintlobo ze-tarantulas ezahlukahlukeneyo, iindlala kunye nezinye izigulane. Ngokuqinisekileyo iphupha malunga neentlobo kwikati kunento engathandekiyo!
Yintoni ikati enefuthe?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukutolika ubuthongo malunga neentambo, njengakwezinye iimeko ezingamangalisa, isixa esikhulu. Bangakwazi ukubonisa izinto ezinqwenelekayo nezingafunekiyo: ukuhleka, imali , ukugula, iingxaki kunye nokunye okuninzi. Ngoko akumangalisi ukuba incwadi yephupha ayinikezeli impendulo engabonakaliyo kumbuzo wukuthi iiferephi zinayo kwikati. Kukho ezininzi ukutolika. Banezinto ezifanayo kuphela: amaphupha akhethekileyo, iphupha elinjalo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, alithembisi, nangona kungekho nto ingathandekiyo, ngenxa yokungathandeki kweentlobo ezihambelanayo, naye akahlali kakuhle.
Ngokomzekelo, kukho ukutolika okokuba ukuphupha iintambo kwikati kukuyimali, leyo, nangona kunjalo, ayiyi kuhamba ngokulula njengoko sifuna. Ngokomgaqo, oku kuya kuqondwa. Imali, ngokuqhelekileyo, ayifumaneki lula. Oku, kwindawo yokuqala. Okwesibini, abantu abaninzi banokuqiniseka ukuba ikati ngokwabo inenkathazo kunye neengxaki zombini kwiphupha kunye nenyaniso. Yaye ukuba iinkopho ziphupha ngemali, ke "zixhamla" kunye nekati - imali kunye neengxaki.
Enye ingcaciso (ngokucacileyo, ngokukodwa kubanikazi bekati) ithi ukulala malunga neentambo kwikati kukungakhange kuchithe imali kunye nokuchitha imali. Ewe, kunjalo, kufuneka uthenge imali yekethi kwiifere.
Kutheni uphupha ukubulala iifleas kwikati?
Ukuchukumisa intambo kwikati ephupheni ayilona iphupha elihle kakhulu kunokwenzeka. Ngokomzekelo, ngokwezinye iinguqulelo, kuthetha ukuba ulindele ukutshintsha kweembono malunga nabahlobo bakho. Kodwa incwadi yephupha ayithethi ukuba le ngcamango iya kutshintsha ingcono okanye yimbi. Kwakhona kukho ukutolika okulala ngeentambo ezichotshoziweyo kuthetha izinto ezintsha. Kwaye ngokucacileyo akucaci ukuba baya kuba yindawo engakanani. Kanti abanye bathi ukutshatyalaliswa kweentlanzi kwisilwanyana kuthetha ukuba umntu uya kuhlolwa (kwaye, mhlawumbi, ngempumelelo) athathwe kwimiba yabantu. Ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba uphendule ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba yiyiphi amaphupha okubeka ingcinezelo kwiifate kwikati.
Ukunika impendulo ethile kumbuzo weliphi iphupha lokubamba iintambo kwikati, iincwadi zokuphupha azikho. Kwiincwadi ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha, unokufumana okuhluke kakhulu, ngezinye izihlandlo eziphikisanayo. Abanye, umzekelo, ukuxela ngokuqinisekileyo iingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo eziphuphayo, "wababamba" ngeentambo. Ukutshatyalaliswa phakathi
Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iincwadi zokuphupha ezinokuzithemba okufanayo ukulala malunga nokubamba iintambo zithembisa ingeniso yemali. Kwaye kuninzi. Kubalulekile ukuchaza ngokubanzi iinkcukacha zephupha kwaye ukhumbule yonke into ekhoyo kuyo. Mhlawumbi oku kuya kunceda ukuqonda ukuchazwa kwaye unike impendulo ecacileyo. Ngokubanzi, njengoko kunokubonwa kuloluhlalutyo lokutola ubuthongo-ishishini elingenasiphelo, iziphumo ngokuphindaphindiweyo ziba zizinto ezingenangqiqo, kwaye zichasene. Kodwa, ke, ungabandakanyi ukubaluleka kakhulu kumaphupha, kuba kunjalo, okokuqala, umdlalo womntu ongenamdla , kunye nawaphi amaphupha aprofeta, akunakwenzeka ukufumana, de kubekho into eyenzekayo.