Kuza kube namhlanje, siyazi inani elikhulu leempawu ezisemakhaya ezihlala zifanelekileyo iminyaka engaphezu kwe-12. Kukholelwa ukuba isandla somntu sinokumisela isimo sawo kunye nokuphela kwayo. Kukho imiqondiso ichaza oko kuza kwenzeka xa usika isithupha okanye enye iminwe. Khumbula ukuba iinkolelo azikho isigwebo, kwaye wonke umntu unquma ukukholelwa kwiimilinganiselo zabo okanye kungekhona.
Gxininisa umnwe wakho
Ixabiso leenkolelo zixhomekeke kububanzi bokunqunyulwa kunye nomnwe othile. Ukutolika kwesandla sokunene (ekupheleni kwekhohlo):
- Isibonda. Kungekudala, kuya kufuneka sibancede abantu abasondeleyo, okuya kubangela ukuba izicwangciso zethu ziqhubele kwisicwangciso sesibini.
- Inkomfa yomunwe. Iingxaki zemali zilindeleke, kwaye iingxabano kunye noogqirha kunye nabasemagunyeni banokwenzeka.
- Umnwe ophakathi. Musa ukuphazamisa ebomini babanye ukuba abaceli uncedo, kuba oku kuya kubangela ukungqubana.
- Unomnwe ngomnwe. Kubalulekile ukulindela iingxaki emsebenzini kwaye kungcono ukwenza imizamo yokuthintela ukuba kwenzeke.
- Umnwe omncinci. Yeka ukuba nomona kwabanye, njengoko oku kuya kubangela iingxaki ezininzi.
Ngoku ukuchazwa kwesibonakaliso sesandla sasekhohlo (kubabashi abazimele) -kunene):
- Ukuba kwakufuneka unqande isithupha sesandla sasekhohlo ngendlela engacacileyo, ngoko ngoko umgaqo wezicwangciso ezicwangcisiweyo azenziwanga, kodwa kuya kufuneka wenze isigqibo esibalulekileyo esichaphazela ubomi ngokubanzi.
- Ukunqumla umnxeba wesandla sasekhohlo ngokubhekiselele kwinqanaba lokujonga, kuyiluleko ukuba kungcono ukuziphulaphula kwaye ungayithobeli ingqalelo yabanye abantu.
- Ukuba umlenze ophakathi unobungozi, ngoko kufuneka ulindele ukuxabana okukhulu, ngoko uzama ukuzigcina ungekho kwaye ungathethi kakhulu.
- Ukuchazwa kwesibonakaliso ukuba kufuneka uthinte umunwe ngakwesokunxele sakho: qaphela, kuba umntu ufuna ukucaphuka okanye ukufaka endaweni ethile yezoshishino.
- Isilonda kumnwe omncinci sibonisa ukuba kungcono ukunqanda umona, kuba akuyi kubakho inzuzo kuyo.