Ngokuqhelekileyo abasetyhini abaneminyaka engamashumi amane ubudala banomntwana omnye. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba isipheko sinika umfazi usengumntwana kwimeko ekhulileyo. Kwaye amaninzi amaninzi, abaphumeleleyo abanenhlanhla banqunywe xa behanjiswa emva kwe-40, kungakhathaliseki ukuba sele bekhona ingozi.
Kuyaziwa ukuba nabasetyhini abasempilweni abancinci bangaba nabantwana abanezifo ezahlukeneyo nezifo. Izibalo ziqinisekisa ukuba ukukhulelwa emva kweminyaka engama-40 kungabonakali nje ngokubeletha okunzima, kodwa kunye neengxaki ezibi zengane. Emva kokuzalwa emva kweminyaka engamashumi amane, umfazi unomngcipheko wokukhulelwa umntwana wakhe nge-Down's syndrome , kuba ngooomama, iintsana zifumana ukuphambuka kwemfuzo ye-12-14 ngamaxesha amaninzi kunomama omncinci. Kwakhona, umngcipheko wokuba nomntwana onokukhubazeka kwentliziyo ukwandisa amaxesha ama-5-6.
Emva kokuzalwa kokuqala
Kuza kubekho, kukho amaxesha amantombazana amaninzi kwilizwe eliza kuqala ukuzalwa emva kweminyaka engama-40. Lo mcimbi kwilizwe lethu akukho mntu uyamangalisa, kuba kwenzeka kaninzi. Ukuzalwa okubeleko kunobungozi babo. I-pluses zi:
- Isikhundla sezimali esizinzileyo somama;
- elona nqanaba eliphezulu lemfundo, elenza kube lula ukwenza izigqibo ezinengqiqo;
- ukunyamekela ukuncelisa, okubangele indlela yokuphila enempilo;
- ukunyamekela umntwana;
- ukungahambelani kumaqela kunye namaqela;
- Ingqiqo yokhuselo kunye nenqabiseko yenza ukuba umama okhulileyo aqiniseke ngekamva, ngokungafani nomama oselula.
Kodwa ukongeza kwizinto ezibonakalayo kwezi meko, kukho ubuninzi obuhle:
- iingxaki ngexesha lokuxhatshazwa: iingxaki zengcinezelo kunye ne-placenta, isifo sikashukela;
- ukuzalwa komntwana omncinci okanye ongaphambi kwexesha;
- ku khulelwa;
- ukuphakama okuphezulu.
Kubasetyhini emva kweminyaka engama-40, umngcipheko wezabasebenzi unyuke kakhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo kwiimeko ezinjalo, oogqirha banqamla kwiqendu le-quarantine. Nangona ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka ngaphandle kweengxaki, abafazi abaxhamlileyo basabonwa njengengozi enkulu.
Iziphumo zokuhanjiswa kwexesha elifutshane
Ininzi yabasetyhini bacinga ukuba akukaze kube mva ukuzala. Kodwa akubona bonke bayazi ukuba emva kweminyaka engama-40 umngcipheko wokubeleka ukwandisa amaxesha amaninzi. Kule minyaka abantu bavame ukuhlushwa zizifo ezahlukileyo. Kwaye sele sele ukhulelwe, ingozi yezifo ezinjalo zanda.
Ukongezelela, musa ukuzicingela kwaye uzicingele kuphela. Kufuneka ucinge ngekamva lomntwana wakho: xa umthabatha kwibanga lokuqala, kwaye wonke umntu uya kukuthabatha ugogo, nokuba ulungele ngokwengqondo le nto, nokuba ingaba umntwana wakho akayi kuhlaziswa nguwe. Okukhethiweyo, kunjalo, kungokwakho, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uhlehlise ukubeletha "kamva", cinga ngokucophelela ukuba oku kulungile.