Amandla amaninzi njengabantwana bethu, mhlawumbi asikho isidalwa esiphilayo kwihlabathi. Ukuqhubeka kwabo "pochemchki", ukuxhamla, ukunyathela ukunyanzeliswa ukuba baxhomeke kwinhloko yanoma yimuphi umama-kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo kubantwana abancinci. Emva koko, nayiphi na ingxabano inokusindisa ubuncinane ubunesiqingatha seyure kunye nomdlalo ozolileyo - ukhetha umyili, umzobo, ukhangela imifanekiso kwincwadi enomdla. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umgaqo ngamnye unemibandela yawo: ukuba umntwana wakho usebenza kakhulu kwaye uhlala uphumula, ngoko kufuneka ucinge malunga nokuxilongwa okunjalo njengobunzima bokungasebenzi kwengqondo.
Impawu kunye nezizathu ze-MMD
Ukuxilongwa kubangelwa yimingcipheko ekuziphatheni komntwana: ukunyanzelisa, ukuphazamiseka, ukulala nokukhathazeka kwesondlo, ukukhathala, inkani kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi - konke oku kufuneka kuphapheze abazali kwaye bakhonze njengesibongo sokubiza udokotela. Isizathu esibalulekileyo sokungasebenzi kwengqondo esincinci kubantwana kuthathwa njengelona lwakhiwo olungenakulungileyo kwinkqubo yesantya yomntwana kumazinga okuqala, ngokuqala kokukhulelwa komama. Iinkalo zentlalo (ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo, ukungquzulana kwintsapho, izinga eliphantsi lemfundo kunye nenkcubeko kubazali), inzala, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ithintela uphuhliso lwengqondo lomntwana.
Unyango lwe-MMD
Ukuba, emva kokubona iimvuthu, uqaphela impawu ezincinci ze-MMD, ngoko kufuneka ubonise umntwana kumgqirha, kuqala okokuqala kwi-neurologist kunye nezingane. Emva koko, unyango olufike ngexesha luza kuzisa iziphumo ezibalulekileyo kwixesha elingaphantsi. I-MMD yabantwana iyaphiliswa, ngelixa kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye ukudibaniswa kweendlela: ukunyakaza okusebenzayo, inkxaso yengqondo kunye nokufundisa kunye neyeza kuya kunceda ukukhokela ukuphuhliswa komntwana ngendlela efanelekileyo.
- Indlela yokunyakaza okusebenzayo ikuvumela ukuba ufundise ukuxhamla komntwana kunye nokulungelelanisa, nayiphi na imithwalo yemidlalo iya kufakwa apha, kodwa mhlawumbi ayikho isicwangciso sokukhuphisana.
- Ukuxhaswa kweengqondo kunye nokufundisa kubonisa ukukhutshwa komntwana ekubukeni kweTV, imidlalo yekhompyutha, indawo yezihlwele ezininzi zabantu kunye nenkampani enomsindo. Kubalulekile ukuseka urhulumente womhla wengane, ukuqhuba iiklasi zokuphucula imemori, ukuphuhlisa ingqalelo. Khumbula, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba simdumise rhoqo, sithethe ngetoni elithambileyo nelizolileyo, ukuphepha ukuthintela kunye nokuhlambalaza.
- Indlela yokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi isetyenziswe kwimeko apho ezimbini zangaphambili azizange zinike iziphumo ezifanelekileyo. Amachiza (i-psychostimulants, i-anti-depressants) imiselwe kuphela ngugqirha, esekelwe kwimpawu zomntu ngamnye.
Iimpawu zeMMD
Ngokugqithiseleyo, i-MMD kubantwana ibonakalisa iimpawu zayo ngaphambi kokufikelela kwiminyaka eli-7. Abazali bafanele baqale ukuvakala i-alamu ukuba iimpawu zesi sifo zixhalabele umntwana wazo rhoqo ngeenyanga ezintandathu, kwaye kungekhona kuphela ekhaya, kodwa nakwiqela. Iimpawu eziphambili, njengoko zikhankanywe ngasentla, zingumngcipheko womntwana, ukungabikho kwengqwalasela kunye nokunyanzelisa. Oku kukuphela kwezi zinyango:
- Umsebenzi wokuqhuba umqhubi: umntwana ugijima, ahla, ahlamba, enza iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo, engathwali mthwalo;
- Ukungabikho komnqweno womntwana wokudlala imidlalo yokuthula ethule;
- akunakwenzeka ukwenza lo msebenzi ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni: ukungabikho kwengqwalasela, iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo, ukuphazamiseka rhoqo kwizinto ezahlukeneyo zangaphandle;
- ukulahleka kwezinto eziqhelekileyo zezinto zokusebenza kwemisebenzi ethile esikolweni, ukulibala,
- Umntwana akaphulaphuli abantu abaphendukela kuye, udibana neengxoxo zabantu abadala, abantwana;
- iimpendulo imibuzo ngaphandle kokucinga, kaninzi ngaphandle kokuphulaphula ukuphela;
- kwimidlalo edibeneyo kunye noontanga abalindelanga ukujika kwayo, ayikho ngonya.
Ukuxilongwa kwe-MMD kumntwana, akunjalo, akukho nto isigqibo. Ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye nokufikeleleka ngexesha elifanelekileyo kwiingcali: i-neurologist, udokotela wezilwanyana, intetho yeengcali, isazi sengqondo - umntwana wakho uya kukwazi ukuqhubeka ngokuvisisana nokukhula umntu ophumelelayo. Uthando lwabazali, ukunakekelwa kunye nokunyamekela akuyi kunika isifo kunye nethuba lokutshabalalisa ubunako obufihlakeleyo kunye neendawo ezifihlakeleyo zemvumba.