Njengobomi bokwenene, indandatho yesiliva ebonwa ngephupha inokuba neentsingiselo ezininzi, ngoko kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathiso xa utolika. Zama ukukhumbula indlela umhlobiso ubonakala ngayo, yintoni oyenzayo nayo, njl. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukudweba umzobo phakathi kweemeko ezenzeka ngokwenene kunye nolwazi olufunyenweyo.
Kutheni iphupha lesandi lesiliva?
Ininzi ngokuqhelekileyo lo mboniso ephupheni uhambelana nokunyaniseka nokunyaniseka. Kubantu abanobudlelwane, eli phupha libonisa ukuthembeka komlingani. Ukuba ubona indandatho yesilivere engcolileyo ephupheni, kuyafaneleka ukuba uhlale uqaphile, kuba iintshaba zijikeleza izibilini kwaye zilungiselela izicupho. Ukufumana umhlobiso njengesipho esivela kumntu uyisimboli sokufumana umbulelo kumntu onamandla. Ukuba isalathiso senziwa ngumfazi, ulinde iintsapho ze-scandals. Ingcongolo yesiliva emlonyeni wakhe yenyuka - lo luphawu olungileyo oluthembisa ukuzaliseka komnqweno onqwenelekayo, iphupha lomntu, kunye neyeshishini elitsha eliphumelelayo. Ukuba umhlobiso wawusesandleni somnye umntu, ngoko, ngokwenene, uya kulahla ithuba elihle lokuphucula ubomi bakho. Yonke ityala liya kululeka ngokugqithiseleyo.
Fumana indandatho yesilivere ephupheni i-omen yobudlelwane obutsha. Kungekudala, kwindawo esondeleyo, abantu baya kubonakala kunye nabo oza kuba ngabahlobo, okanye uya kufumana uthando olutsha. Ukuze uphuphe isandi sesilivere, ungabala njengentsapho enobuqilima kunye nococekileyo. Umbono ebusuku, obonisa inani elikhulu leemigqabho, kubonisa ukuba kwimeko engqongileyo kukho abantu abangabalwa ngexesha elincinane. Ukuba uphupha ngeyindandatho esilimbile isilivere, ngoko ebomini kukho iintshaba ezithe zenza umonakalo omkhulu. Iphupha lentsimbi yesilivere ngamatye anqabileyo ibonakalisa intlalontle kunye nenhlalakahle.