Ukuze uchaze ngokucacileyo iphupha, akudingeki ukuba ube nekhono elingaphezu kwamandla angaphezulu, kunele ukuqwalasela imigaqo ethile. Okokuqala, kufuneka uzame ukukhumbula kangangoko iinkcukacha zengcambu. Okwesibini, sifanele senze umzobo phakathi kokutolika okufunyenweyo kunye neziganeko zobomi bokwenene.
Kutheni uphupha ukuhlambalaza kwisitya?
Iphupha, apho kwakumfuneko ukuhlamba phantsi kwamanzi angcolileyo, ilumkisa malunga neentlebo eziza kubangela ukubonakala kweengxaki ezininzi. Ukuba, ngexesha lokuhlamba, amanzi abe, afudumele, ke kubanda, ngoko, ngokukhawuleza ukwenza ukhetho olunzima. Umbono ebusuku, apho umntu ehlamba iimpahla, uqikelele ukuvela kweengxaki zempilo. Ndalindele ukuhlamba kwisitya kunye nomntu othandekayo - oku kukuphawu oluhle olubonisa ukuphuculwa kobudlelwane . Ukuhlamba nomfokazi ephupheni kuthetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kufuneka utshintshe indawo yakho yomsebenzi. Ukuba uhlamba, ngokukhawuleza amanzi aphuma - oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba kwixesha elizayo kuya kubakho ingxaki enkulu kwaye kuya kubakho ukuhlangabezana nayo kuphela ngoncedo lwabanye abantu. Iphupha apho umntu avula amanzi atshisayo, kunye namanzi abilayo athululelwa kwiphepheni, ibonisa ukudumala kubantu abasondeleyo.
Kutheni na umfazi ephupha ngokumisa?
Intombazana enjalo iphupha ithembisa utshintsho ebomini bakhe. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba ukuba amanzi afudumele, ngoko utshintsho luya kwenzeka ukuba lube bhetele, kwaye ukuba kubanda, ngoko ke. Ukuba isitya sasingekho amanzi, kodwa igazi - isilumkiso malunga nokungcatshwa okwenziwe ngumntu othandekayo, okuya kukukhokelela ekudakaleni. Umfazi otshatileyo waphupha ukuba kufuneka ahlambe esityazini phantsi kwamanzi abandayo, oku kuthetha ukuba ukuxabana nomyeni wakhe kungekudala kuya kwenzeka. Iphupha apho intombazana ihlamba kwisitya kwisitalato kuthetha ukuba intshaba ayiyi kukwazi ukuphazamisa idumela layo.