Impawu ezininzi zinxulumene nobomi bethu nezinto, esiyisebenzisa rhoqo imihla. Enye yezinto ezinjalo ngumxu - umncedisi othembekileyo kunye nesixhobo esinamandla - ngexesha elinye. Yingakho abantu babefuna ukwazi ukuba bafumana isela - uphawu oluhle okanye olubi? Kuvela ukuba kukho ezimbini iindlela, oko kukuthi, kwezinye iimeko zilungile, kodwa kwezinye izinto zibi.
Okubi kakubi malunga nomsi
- Ukuba ufumana isitya esiqhekezayo, oku kunokukhokelela ekuhlukaneni nomntu omthandayo.
- Umthi obukhali ofumanekayo unokuba yi-harbinger yelahleko ezayo, iingxabano kunye nokuhlukana .
Ngethuba elifanayo, kukho ukhetho olufanelekileyo lokuxazulula iingxaki ezinokwenzeka: ukuba isitshixo asifumananga kakuhle, uphawu luxelela into enokuyenza: kungcono ukuba ungayiphakamisi nonke, ungayithatha esandleni. Enyanisweni, kutheni, ukwazi ngokukhawuleza malunga neengxaki ezinokwenzeka, udlala ngexesha elizayo! Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kwenzeka ngenxa yesizathu esithile sokusebenzisa igazi kwixesha elizayo ngaphandle koyiko lokuzilimaza, kubalulekile ukwenza isithethe sokuhlanjululwa kwayo, kuba awaziwa ukuba ngubani lo mkhwa owawusekuqaleni kwaye apho umnikazi wasebenzisa khona.
Ungasusa njani umonakalo kwiqhekeza?
Ummese, ukuba ufuna ukushiya kuwe, unokukhululeka ekungabikho komsebenzi kunye nolwazi olufunyenwe kumnini wangaphambili, ngeendlela ezimbini:
- sinokuzibandakanya xa sifunda umthandazo othi "uBawo wethu" okanye "Ukuhlanjululwa kwayo yonke into," kwaye, ukuba akukho nto inokukhathaza, yikho konke;
- Ukuhlanjululwa nokususwa kwezinto ezimbi kungenziwa ngamanzi asentwasahlobo okanye amanzi asebenzayo, okumele kube yinto, ngelixa ufunda enye yemithandazo.
Emva koko, ungaqala ukuyisebenzisa, ukuhlawula, nangona kunjalo, ingqalelo indlela 'ehamba ngayo'.
Ukufumana ummango ehlathini kukubi, njengokuba, ngokuthe ngqo, kunye naluphi na oluhambelana nale nto. Akubalulekanga kakhulu apho ufumene khona, kubaluleke kakhulu omnye - obengaphambili kuye, kwaye akukho nto ingabalulekanga-kutheni uyithatha kwaye uyiphathe ekhaya. Kunzima ukucinga ukuba awunayo imimese ekhaya. Akukho nanye imiqondiso ehambelana nomthi ofunyenweyo, ayithathwa njengento elungileyo, ngoko umqondiso , ukufumana umsi kwisitrato, awuthwali nantoni na.