Unqume ukulungiswa kwii-nursery, kodwa ungagqibekanga ukuba yiyiphi iphepha lodonga? Okokuqala kufuneka ucinge ngendlela ekhuselekileyo ngayo kwimpilo. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela iminyaka yobudala bomntwana. Emva koko, ukuba umntwana usenokukhetha yonke into, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nabadala, mhlawumbi abayi kufuna ukuhlala kwigumbi elinjalo. Ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela ojamelana ngayo nomsebenzi, intle yomntwana, ingqondo yakhe kunye ne-psychotype iya kuphuhlisa.
Yiyiphi iphepha lodonga lokukhetha umntwana?
Yisiphi iphepha lodonga lokunamathisela kwigumbi lomntwana ongaphantsi kweminyaka emine, kuya kufuneka wenze isigqibo. Kodwa ke, qalisa kwizinto ezisisiseko zokukhetha umntwana. Kubalulekile ukubeka iigama ngokuchanekileyo - ukukhanya okucwangcisiweyo kunye nokudibanisa imibala yembala.
Yaye yintoni umbala wephepha lodonga owukhethayo kwi-nurseries, uthathe isigqibo kunye kunye nomntwana wakho. Emva kwayo yonke into, indoda encinane ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala iyifumana i-shades ethandekayo kwaye ibonisa ngokucacileyo oku. Ngoko umama onomdla uya kuhlala ekwazi ukuba umntwana wakhe ufuna ntoni. Umzekelo, imibala enamandla iya kuhambelana nokuphumla, kwaye kumntu omncinci ocolileyo kungcono ukhethe imibala ye-pastel.
Kwi-nursery yomntwana kunye nesizukulwana esikhulileyo siya kufumana iphepha lodonga iphepha. Kwakhona kwigumbi labantwana alikwabiwo, kodwa kufuneka ukuba yindalo. Kwaye, nangona ukukhanya okanye ukugqithiswa kweetoni, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ukuba igumbi lomntwana liphela ilizwe, indlu yakhe, apho kufuneka aziva egcwele ukhuseleko kunye nokuzithemba. Ngoko ke, kuthengela, ukuba i-pastel - emva koko izigqibo zombala ezigqithiseleyo, ziphendulela zibe yi-beige, ukuhamba komhlaba, ukwenzela ukuba ubukho benkxaso buve. Ukuhlobisa kakuhle kweendonga nge-apricot, umbala ophuzi obomvu, ubukeka buhle kakhulu obuninzi obuhlaza okanye obuluhlaza. Imibala eqaqambileyo kwigumbi lezingane akufanele ikhethwe, nangona kukho ukhetho lomntu omncinci, kwigumbi elinjalo umntwana uya kufumana nzima ukuphumla okanye ukugxila kwinto ethile.
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Umntwana wakhula kwaye ngoku uneminyaka emihlanu, ezintandathu okanye ezilishumi elinesibini? Apha unako ukugxilisa ingcamango yakho kwaye uvumele umntwana ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwinkqubo yokukhetha iphepha lodonga. Nanku, kunqweneleka ukusebenzisa iphepha lodonga labantwana bendalo, njengoko kwimeko yokuqala, ifanelekile kunye ne-vinyl.
Sinokumisela umlinganiselo wokukhetha ukulungiselela ukuthenga. Ukuba unamakhwenkwe yenkwenkwezi, khetha ukhetho lwephepha lodonga kunye nemifanekiso yeemoto, amaqhawe kunye nabalinganiswa beefoto zeCaterman, iBatman njalonjalo. Iinqwelo kunye nemidlalo iya kuhobisa iindonga zendawo yokuhlala yenkwenkwe.
Kumantombazana, imifanekiso yeentyatyambo, abafazi beentombi, iikati kunye nezinye izinto ezisemgangathweni kunye nabalinganiswa bokwenene baya kuhambelana nawe.
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Igumbi le-adolescents lifuna indlela ekhethekileyo kwaye ngaphandle komhlali walo akufanelekanga ukwenza nantoni na. Nangona iqalo lokuqala lingasebenza njengolwazi lwezinto zokuzonwabisa zomntwana wakho, umzali omhle uhlala eyazi oku. Emva koko musa ukulibala, ngeli xesha abahlobo bakho beza kutyelela umntwana wakho. Bafanele baqonde ngokupheleleyo "i-drive" ephumela ngexesha lokuhlala. Ngako oko, kwinkampani yamadoda iya kubonakala ilungile kwiindonga ngegraffiti, umxholo wolwandle kunye nokuhamba. Kwaye amantombazana aya kuthanda i-floristry ngezinto zezilwanyana, umzekelo, iintaka. Iifrescoes ezibonisa izixeko ziya kudala ulwalamano. Kunokwenzeka ukudibanisa iphepha lodonga kwi-nursery, okuza kuphucula ngakumbi umphumo wobuqu bomntu.
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Kodwa konke oku akubalulekanga, wonke umntu, enoba unkulu okanye engeneminyaka yobudala, unelungelo lakhe lokukhetha kunye nokukhetha, ngoko ungammangaleli imbono yakhe, kodwa ucebise kwaye ucebise, kodwa ungafuni okanye ufune. Hlonipha imibono yomnye nomnye.