Ubuncinane kanye ngexesha lobomi bomntu ngamnye, ingcamango yokudlala umntu ngaphandle kwimo yendawo ihanjelwe. Ukulahla kwakho kuhlaziyeke kakhulu amahlaya awayehlukeneyo: ukusuka kwintlekele engena kwi-real stage.
1. Zama ukudlala umdlalo. Ucela abanye abantu imibuzo ngale ndlela: "Bangaphi abayi-1 + 1?" 2 + 2? 4 + 4? ". Emva koko bacele ukuba bawuthethe umhlaza. Phantse njalo abantu bayabiza iidroti.
2. Xa uxabana nomxabano nomntu, zama ukuhlala uxolo. Okungenani, inqanaba lakho lonwabo kufuneka libe liphantsi kunelo lichasi lakho. Le meko ibenzela abantu ukuba bathethe izinto ezingenakunceda ukuba wena usebenzise nazo.
3. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana imvume evela kumntu, oko kwanele ukugubungela intloko yakho ngexesha xa ucela umbuzo owufunayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo baya kuvuma nawe okanye banike imvume.
4. Wonke umntu uyazibonakalisa ukubonisa ukuba abantu ababini baphakamisa isandla baze bagxume entendeni yomnye umntu, besithi ngeli xesha: "Nika ezintlanu!". Ngokuqinisekileyo, bonke ubuncinane abaye baphoswa. Ngexesha elizayo unako ukuhlala uzolile uqobo lwakho, ngexesha lomkhonti likhangele ilanga lomhlobo. Ndikholelwe, awukwazi ukuphoswa.
5. Uninzi lwabantu lujongene nemeko xa kukho intloko nayiphi na ingoma ephoqelekayo ephazamisayo kwimicimbi ihlale iphosakele. Ukukhawuleza ukukrazula, vele ugqityiwe ekupheleni kwentloko yale ngoma. Into enjalo ihambelana nomoya othiwa yi-Zeigarnik, equlethwe kukuba into engapheliyo imemori yomntu ikhumbula kangcono kunokuba igqityiwe.
6. Iqhinga elihle lokuthetha nabantwana. Abazali bahlala bejamelana nokungathobeli abantwana. Ukuba ufuna umntwana enze into okanye adle, zama uzakhele ingxoxo ngale ndlela: "Dlling, sisela ubisi!". Umntwana wenqaba. Emva koko umbuze umbuzo: "Kuphi indebe - eluhlaza okomvu okanye obomvu - ungathanda ukuyiphuza?". Uya kukhetha umbala aze atye ubisi. Elementary.
7. Ngexesha lothethwano, zama ukuthula. Kukho ukucinga ukuba abantu abayithandi ukuthula okukhulu kunye nokuthula, ngoko baya kwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukulungisa. Yiba nomonde.
8. Ukuba ufuna umnxibelelwano wakho ukuba akholelwe ebuxoki bakho, zama ukukhankanya inkcazelo encinane malunga nawe. Ngokomzekelo, endaweni yokuthi, "Hayi, ndingekho endlwini kaYakobi. Ndandihlala noRandy onke amaxesha. " Zama ukuthi: "Hayi, andingenabo noYakobi ngelo xesha. Ndiye ndavala indlu yangasese, kwaye ndicinga ukuba abazali bakhe abafuni ukundibona kwakhona endlwini yabo. Ngoko ndibe neRandy. "
9. Kwinkampani enkulu, unokwenza uvavanyo oluncinci. Xelela i-anecdote. Umntu wokuqala ojonga kuyo ukubona indlela asabela ngayo kukufutshane nawe.
10. Mhlekise umntu. Buza umntu ukuba akhangele amehlo akho kwaye ungawahambisi. Emva koko ubuze ukuba umhlobo wakho wadla iintsuku ezi-3 ezedlulileyo. Ngokwezibalo, abaninzi abantu abakwazi ukuphendula, kuba kunzima ukukhumbula ulwazi ngaphandle kokuhambisa amehlo.
11. Ukuba uthetha nge-whisper kunye nomnxibelelwano, kuyaqinisekiswa ukuba uya kuphendula nawe.
12. Xa uzama ukufumana into, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuninzi, ukhangele ukusuka kwesokudla ukuya kwesobunxele endaweni yokujonga ukusuka kwesobunxele ukuya kwesokudla. Ngenxa yoko, awukwazi ukukhawuleza ukufumanisa into elahlekileyo, kuba umbono wakho ukhankanywe kuphela kwicala elinye kunye nolunye ucandelo. Zama ukutshintsha ukuhamba kwamehlo akho.
13. Ukuba ufuna umntu ukuba akholwe kwibali elingenakulinganiswa, phinda uphinde ngokuphindwe kathathu, ungeze ibali ngalinye ngeenkcukacha. Ngokomzekelo, tshela: "Ngaba uyayikhumbula imeko esikolweni xa utitshala wethu angena emotweni wathisha wezeMathematika kwindawo yokupaka!" Inokwenzeka ukuba, ngokokuqala ngqa akukho mntu uya kukukholelwa, kodwa ukuba okwesibini neyesithathu ungeze iinkcukacha, ngokuqinisekileyo umntu uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba ibali lakho liyinyaniso.
14. Xhaphaza abahlobo bakho ngokusebenzisa indlela elandelayo. Buza umntu ukuba athethe igama oyipelayo. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntu ephendula, khawuleza ubuze umbuzo: "Wenzani xa ubona ukukhanya okuluhlaza?". Uya kumangaliswa impendulo engalunganga.
15. Ukuze ufikelele kwindawo yomntu kuwe, kunele ukuvumela lo mntu ukuba akunike inceba.
16. Imfihlelo encinci yokuzuza. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umdlali wakho udlala kakuhle kwaye uqala ukuyeka isikhundla sakho, mbuze umbuzo: "Udlala njani kakuhle?". Emva kwalo mbuzo, umdlalo uzakutshintsha ubugqwetha, kuba umchasi wakho uya kuqala ukucinga ngombuzo wakho.
17. Ukuze udlale inkohliso kumntu ozama ukubala into ethile, ufuna nje ukubiza isethi yamanani esikhundleni seenombolo ezikhethiweyo ezikhethiweyo. Ingqondo yabo iya kutshabalalisa ngokukhawuleza.
18. Beka amava kwelinye ilungu lentsapho yakho, uqinisekise ukuba akukho namnye onokukwazi ukubona ubisi bokunqatha okungafaniyo ukutyalela. Yenza oku okulandelayo: ubophe "isohlo" liso, uze unike ubisi uzame. Ikomityi yokugcina yobisi ithathe indawo yerayisi ye-orange. Umzimba womntu ulungiselela ukufumana iimveliso zobisi, ngoko-ke umbane ongenalindelekanga uya kubangela ukuhlanza. Qinisekisa ukugcina ibhakethi nawe ukuba unquma ukwenza loo mvavanyo.
19. Ukuba ufuna ukulahla into ngexesha uhamba, oko kunele ukunika umhlobo wakho le nto, ngokufanayo ukuthetha naye. Ngexesha leengxoxo umntu uthatha ngokuzenzekelayo yonke into anikwe yona ngaphandle kokucinga ngantoni na.
20. Imfihlelo yokuphumelela umdlalo odumileyo: "Ilitye, isisi, iphepha." Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubala, cela umbuzo wakho kumntu onxibelelana naye. Emva koko qhubeka ubale ngokungathi akukho nto eyenzekayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntu uya kukhetha i-scissors, esebenzayo uhlobo lokukhusela kwakhe.
21. Ngokomphando, umntu unako ukulawula abantu ngoncedo lwamehlo. Abantu bahlala bejonga kwindlela abafuna ukuya ngayo, ngoko ke, baya kuqala bahlole imbono yakho ukuze bafumane apho uya khona. Ukwamkela okunjalo kuthetha ukuba unokuphazamisa umntu ukuba ukhangele kwindlela apho ukudibana kukwenzeka khona.
22. Neyona nto ihlekisayo, kodwa ihlekisayo. Sondela kwindawo yokutyela ukuya kumntu uze umcele ukuba avalwe amehlo akhe aze azame ukufanekisa umdlalo wamakhadi. Nangona umntu exakekile, ungadla konke ukutya uze ubaleke ngokungabonakaliyo.