Kuyathakazelisa ukuba iimpawu zesizwe zomlingani womyeni zichaphazela njani amandla omtshato, ngaba kufanelekile ukuba sicinge apho umntu wazalwa khona ngaphambi kokuba avume kwisiphakamiso somtshato?
Sinokukwazi njani oku ngaphambili? Kubonakala ukuba isikebhe sempilo esiphumeleleyo, ebomini bentsapho, sivame ukuphulwa ngenxa yokungabi nazi iimpawu zesizwe zohlobo lwabesilisa ngabafazi. Ukutshata umfokazi, intombazana evela kwindawo yeSoviet ikholelwa ukuba ityitikiti yelucky yintlekele. Kodwa emva koko kulandela ukuziva kudangeleka, kuba indoda ayifani nanjengomthetheli wenkosikazi. Ngoko, ngubani ovela phesheya nakumazwe aseYurophu efanelekileyo kakhulu indima yomyeni?
Intombazana eye yagqiba ukudibanisa ubomi kunye nezihlobo zentsapho kunye nomhlali kwelinye ilizwe kuya kufuneka iqwalasele ukuba akusiyo isiko ukuphonsa imali ngaphandle kwelinye ilizwe, nokuba uzuze intliziyo yobuhle beSlav. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu unokunikela ngombono, ngenxa yokuba akafuni ukubetha umtshakazi onokuba ngumxhasi, uthululele indlela yakhe ngezimbali ze roses kunye neendandatho zegolide. Ngaba isimo sengqondo somfazi siya kutshintsha?
1. Amerika - ungubani, Mnu X?
Kwangexesha elide kwakukholelwa ukuba umtshato kunye neMelika yiyona nkampani enenzuzo kakhulu. Ukushiya ulwandle, le ntombazana yayinesiqiniseko sokuthi ikusasa lakhe lingenasiphelo, phambili - ubomi obuzaliswe ngenhlalakahle. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko umfanekiso uphelele. Okokuqala, kunzima ukusho ukuba yeyiphi impawu zesizwe zomntu okhethiweyo kuya kubonakala emva komtshato. I-America yimihlaba eyahlukeneyo, apho izigebengu ezivela eYurophu zibhekiselele kwiinkulungwane, kwaye abameli beentsapho ezincinci baye bahamba nethemba lokuthatha ithuba labo. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye zeempawu zobunjani kunye neendlu zezizukulwana zenziwa malunga nawo onke amadoda aseMerika.
Ukukhangela umfazi wakhe kwelinye ilizwe, i-American izama ukufumana umfazi oza kuba yinto ephambili yokuthuthuzela ekhaya. Kuli lizwe, ubufazi besiphumile kungekudala, kwaye kwidolophu yephondo le ntokazi inzima ukwenza umsebenzi. Umsebenzi wayo kukulawula uqoqosho, ufundise abantwana kunye nokuxhasa igunya lomyeni kuyo yonke into.
Musa ukulindela, ukutshata nomyinge waseMelika, ukuba ngenxa yintanda yakhe, uya kulungela inkunkuma enkulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umgaqo-mboleko - ngokuba iMelika imvelo, kodwa ayiyi kuphazamisa imbali yakhe yemboleko, imfucuza ngemali. Ubungakanani bokuthenga izindlu ezikhululekile kwindawo ehloniphekileyo kwaye imoto ebiza kakhulu ibalwa. Intombazana evela kwi-CIS inokutshitshisa indlela abantu baseMerika abanokukhathalela ngayo idola, bekhangelele indawo yonke ithuba lokugcina ambalwa amenti.
Nantsi inkolelo yokubonga rhoqo abantwana bakho, ukunyanzelisa, kodwa ukuphazamisa ulawulo lobomi ngokwakho. Umntwana okhulayo akayi kukhishwa endlwini ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufikelele kwixesha elininzi, kodwa abayi kuphazamisa ekufuneni kwabo. Umntu oqhelekileyo odibanisa abantu baseSlavic nabemi baseMerika, akunjalo? Nangona kunjalo, ngokungafani nathi, abaseMelika abafuni ukuvula imiphefumlo yabo ngisho nakubantu abachithwa ngokwenene. Ukumba ngemichilo yemiphefumlo ecashileyo yimiba yeengcali zengqondo, kungekhona kwiintsapho. Ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukulibala malunga neentlanganiso kunye nabahlobo nezikhalazo malunga nobomi obungapheliyo.
2. IsiFrentshi - isisa, isantya, ubugcisa?
IFransi lizwe lokudweba, inkondlo, imfashini. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yoko, ukucinga ngamadoda aseFrentshi, abafazi beCIS bamele i-chevalier enobucayi, banjiswe ngesitimela se-romance, becula indoda kwindinyana. Enyanisweni, amaFrentshi kwiindawo ezinokuzixhamla ngokuthe ngcembe angabonakala engenangqiqo, efuna ukuzonwabisa kwaye engabakhathazi ngokuxanduva lwabo.
Enyanisweni, nangona ilanga kusasa umFrentshi uya kufumana isizathu sokuhleka, kuba ubomi ngokwabo sisisigxina sovuyo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba umntu ohlala kufuphi nawe uhluke ngobukhulu. Kuba umFrentshi, umbono wabanye ubaluleke kakhulu. Ubuhlungu kakhulu ukunyamezela iimeko eziza kukukhanyisa. Ukongezelela, umkhonzi onokuthi usebenzise iMuses ngokwembono yabangaphandle angummangaliso. Akayi kuxolelana kunye nomtshato, uya kuzama "ukukrazula" zonke izinto eziphathekayo azibekile kwaye ixesha elide liza kusebenza ngokuzimisela kwiimbilini zomntu owayengumfazi.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaba kufanelekile ukucinga ngomtshato xa unothando lwangempela? Akukho mntu, njengomfokazi ongumFrentshi, onokubukeka ehloniphekile kuMongameli entliziyweni yakhe, vumela ukuhamba ngamazwi angenangqondo, ubambelele kwi-elbow xa ushiya iteksi. UmFrentshi akayi kumgxeka umfazi ngenxa yokuba engakwazi ukupheka okanye ukuhlambulula indlu, akuyi kuba nzima ukuba ahambe kuzo zonke iikona zekhaya ene-vacuum cleaner okanye achithe usuku nosana. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuba ibhinqa laseFransi liphuhliswe kakuhle kwaye, kumema intombazana kwi-cafe, loo mntu uyaqiniseka ukuba uya kuhlawula isidlo sakhe sakusihlwa.
3. IsiJamani - ukunyaniseka, kwandiswe ngokukhuthaza
Iintlanga ezahlukeneyo - enye ingqondo. Mhlawumbi, lawa madoda angama-European. AmaJamani akwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo kunye nentando yesininzi, kwaye oku kubandakanywa. Baya kuhlala bethetha ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba abahlali bayonwabile kwaye baya kunikwa ukuba bafumane isisombululo kwingxaki ephuthumayo. Ummi ohloniphekileyo waseJamani uyaqiniseka ukuba umfazi wakhe kufuneka asebenze. Kodwa akuyimfuneko ukuyeka i-stash, ngenxa yokuba imali yadalwa ukuze iyisebenzise. Kwaye injongo ephambili yale nto kukudala imeko engcono kwintsapho kunye nokuhamba. Ngoko ke, phantse yonke intsapho yaseJamani iphuma ngeveki kumazwe angomakhelwane - ukuba ujwayelane nobuhle babo, fumane i-vivacity.
4. Induduzo yasekhaya yaseAustria kunye nezindleko zentsapho
Ama-Austrian namaJamani aqhelekanga ahluke kwiimpawu zelizwe. Banobubele kunye nokuzola, ngaphambili bahlala bethuthuzela ekhaya. Ukuba le ntombazana inqume ukudibanisa ubomi bayo kunye neAustria, mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka ikwazi ukuqonda ukuphuphuma kweentaba ngokukhawuleza, kuba kweli lizwe kuphela iintsana ezingenako ukuma zikhwele ezintabeni. Enye into encinci - eAustria bayaqiniseka ukuba ngamnye wabemi bayo banezimpande ezinobungqina kwaye bayaziqhenya ngembali ende yentsapho yabo.
4. I-Swiss - stability kunye nentembelo
Ukuhlonishwa kunye nokuchaphazelekayo yiSwitzerland. Bahle kakhulu kubafuduki, kodwa abayithandi utshintsho oluzenzekelayo. Ngoko ke, ukutshata umfokazi akukhawulezi. Iminyaka idlulayo ngaphambi kokuba iSwitzerland ithathe isigqibo sokuba ithathe isinyathelo esinjalo.
5. I-Italiyane-inzondo yomntwana omkhulu
Ukuba ebomini akukho mvakalelo ekhuselekileyo, mhlawumbi i-fairy prince yakho ihlala eTestina eshushu. Akukho mntu owaziyo ukubonisa isimo sakhe sangaphakathi ngamandla. Ubomi obudibeneyo buya kuzaliswa ngumona kwaye ngeke kubonakale bethandeka. Nangona ubuqaqawuli bezinto ezithandekayo, amaTaliyane ayahlukaniswa ngokuqhubekayo - umfazi kubo uyisidalwa esingcwele, esamkelekileyo ukuvuma iingoma. Ndikholelwe, indoda yaseNtaliyane iyakwazi ukwenza oku, kuba ukususela ekuzalweni kunomdla obalaseleyo kunye nobuchule.
Indoda enjalo ingakwazi ukucula ii-serenades phakathi kobusuku phakathi kwebhokisi langasese okanye ukuqhayisa i-scandal ngokubetha kweenkonzo. Ngoko kunzima ukufihla kumelwane okwenzekayo kwintsapho. Amadoda athanda abantwana kwaye awaphatha ngokugqithiseleyo - lo ngumtshato ongathandabuzekiyo kunye nommeli wase-Italy. Nangona kunjalo, iPharadesi ayikho emhlabeni, kukho i-spoon encinci ye-tar emgqeni ngamnye wobusi.
Ukuba umfazi ungcwele, ngoko unina unalo nawuphi na isiTaliyane, ubuncinane iMadonna. Sekudala umntu omdala waseNtaliyane akayekanga ukuba ngumntwana, uyamhlonela umfazi owamnika ubomi, kwaye uyayilandela ngokucacileyo zonke iingcebiso zakhe. Ukuba ungena kumbambano kunye noninazala, uya kulahleka. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uqaphele ngokunyameko inyathelo ngalinye, rhoqo ubonisa indlela enenhlanhla ngayo ukuhlangabezana nendoda enhle, kwaye ugxininise isidima sikanina.
Ngendlela, nangona unomdla wesimo, ukuzisa isiTaliyane ethempelini akulula. Imithetho yomtshato kweli lizwe kunokuba idideke, kwaye inkqubo yokuqhawula isenokuhlala iminyaka. Ngako oko, umyinge waseNtaliyane uhamba ngokukhawuleza, xa eqonda ukuba lo mfazi ufanelekile indima yeqabane.
6. I-Scandinav - indoda enobumba omkhulu!
Ukufunda iimeko ezintle zabantu abahlala phesheya, umntu akanakunceda ukuza kwisigqibo sokuba akukho nto. Musa ukusilela kwizigqibo. Ngaba uphupha ngokulingana, ukuqonda, inhlonipho? Nika ingqalelo kubameli bamazwe aseScandinavia.
Kulapha ukuba imithetho yokulingana yabasetyhini ifakwe phantse ekufezekeni. Mhlawumbi umntu uya kucinga ukuba abantu baseScandinavi banesimo sobuthakathaka kakhulu, baqhele ukujonga emlonyeni wesigxina esona sikhulu, esilawuleka kalula. Yonke into ilula kakhulu - amadoda aseScandinavian abona ukuba umfazi ulingana, uphulaphule uluvo lwakhe kwaye ungaboni njengento ehlazo ukubandakanya "kwimicimbi yabasetyhini". Umlingane onjalo, ukuba umsebenzi womfazi uphumelele kakhulu, unokuthatha ikhefu ngokukhawuleza ukuba anakekele umntwana, kwaye azinikezele ubomi bakhe ekukhuliseni umntwana.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba indoda yaseScandinavia ithembekile. Njengomthetho, abanomdla kumamakazi angaphandle. Ngaba ucinga ukuba oku kubangelwa ngumlingiswa onobuhlungu? Ngokuchasene noko, abo babenelungelo lokutshata noDane, iSweden okanye i-Finn, phawula ukuba amadoda abo anekhwele ngokwaneleyo, enomdla kwaye ehle kakhulu ebhedini.
Ngendlela, abaphandi baseOxford babeka umsebenzi-ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani umntu wobuzwe obhetele ngokufanelekileyo kwendima yomyeni. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba i-Ideal indoda yaseSweden ekulungele nawuphi na umzuzu ukuxhasa umlingane, ukumnceda ekhaya kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana, kwaye akaqondi ukuba intombi zakhe zizinto zokuzingela ngesondo.