Abaninzi abafazi abakhulelweyo, ngokukodwa abo bathanda umtsalane, bafuna ukubopha i-dowry yengane ezayo. Ukuqala ixesha lokuthanda kwabo, abafazi abaninzi banokufumana iinkcukacha malunga nokuthintela ukukhwela ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ngaba ndiyakwazi ukudibana ngexesha lokukhulelwa? Ukwazi ngexesha lokukhulelwa akuvumelekanga. Ukusuka kwimbono yezokwelapha, akukho nkcazo kulo mdlalo wokuba umfazi okhulelweyo.
Kutheni abafazi abakhulelweyo bengenakukwazi ukudibanisa?
Kukho inkolelo yokuba abafazi abakhulelweyo abanako ukudibanisa. Ukuba udibene ngexesha lokukhulelwa, umntwana ekuzalweni angayigungqa intambo okanye kuya kuba neqhina kumkhonto . Le nkolelo ayinxulumene neengxaki zonyango ezinikezelweyo kunye nenkolelo-ze. Kusuka kwinjongo yesayensi, akukho bungqina bokuba kunjalo. Inkolelo yokuba akunakwenzeka ukudibanisa abafazi abakhulelweyo kusekelwe kwinto yokuba kwiintsuku ze-olden badibanisa kwigumbi elincinci lomoya, behleli ixesha elide kwisimo esingenakulungeleka.
Ngaba Ndinako Abafazi Abakhulelweyo?
Unako ukudibanisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunye neenaliti zokudibanisa okanye i-crochet. I-crocheting inomdla kwaye inomdla. Le hobby iqinisekisa umama olindelekileyo. Ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga ngengqondo, ukukhangela izinto ukuze umntwana alungiselele ukuba ngumama, kuba ubonisa ukukhathazeka kokuqala kwintsana.
Ndiyakwazi ukudibanisa neenaliti?
Ukwazi abafazi abakhulelweyo abaneenaliti ezinamaqhina ngenye yemisebenzi eqhelekileyo ngeli xesha lobomi. Ukufumana iinaliti zabafazi abakhulelweyo akuchaswanga. Ukufumana ukuthwala ngokubamba, umama ozayo unokulungiselela ilungiselelo lezinto ezininzi eziyimfuneko, ezifana neengubo, iingubo, iisokisi, iinkunzi kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Ukwazi ngokuqhelekileyo usebenzisa izixhobo zemvelo, eziza kwenza umntwana ozayo azive ekhululekile. Ungasebenzisa intsimbi eyenziwe ngoboya, ikotoni, ilinen. Ingane ikhula ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kungcono ukubopha izinto kuye ngobukhulu obukhulu.
Ukwazi imithetho yokukhulelwa
Ewe, unako ukudibanisa abafazi abakhulelweyo, naphezu kwazo zonke iinkolelo. Kodwa, xa unomdla omkhulu kulo msebenzi uncedo, khumbula ukuba kufuneka udibanise:
- kukhanya kakuhle;
- kwindawo efanelekileyo yomoya;
- kuyimfuneko ukuba ungahlali kwisimo esingakhululekile, ukuguqula;
- ngaphantsi kweenyawo, unokubeka umsila, uwakhulise, ukuze igazi lingadli xa lihleli kwindawo enye.
Enye indlela yokuzonwabisa ngokuhamba ngomoya otsha. Ukwazi ukude ukhathala okokuqala. Musa ukuthatha ukubopha njengomsebenzi onyanzelekile omele ukwenziwa. Yaziwa ngokuzonwabisa kwakho nangomntwana wakho.