Cinezela kunye nokukhulelwa - ezi ngcamango ziya kubonakala zininzi ukuba zizodwa. Ngokukodwa, ukuba usendleleni eya ekukhulelweni okuthandayo unqobile ezininzi iingxaki kunye nobunzima. Apha uloyiko lwenkqantosi engenakwenzayo, kungekhona ukuba umshicileli uguqulwe .
Kodwa ekubeni umbuzo uvela malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka ukupompoza umshicileli kubafazi abakhulelweyo, ngoko ke, mhlawumbi, kukho amabhinqa ahlala ebonakala naphezu kwayo yonke into. Oku kuyinyaniso kumantombazana emidlalo, ngaphambi kokukhulelwa, rhoqo enza iimidlalo aze agubungele inkcazelo.
Cinezela ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwinqanaba lokuqala, oko kukuthi, ulele emhlane wakhe kunye nokuhamba okubukhali, akukhuselekanga nakwiimbaleki. Ukuzivocavoca okunjalo kubandakanya umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa ngumntwana ngenxa yengcinezelo kwisibeleko kwaye ubize ukutshatyalaliswa kwawo. Oko kukuthi, ukuba usebenza ngokusemthethweni kwixesha eliqhelekileyo, ulele emhlane wakho kwaye uphakamisa umzimba ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nokukhululeka okukhulu, oku kuya kubangela ukusasazeka kwengcinezelo kwisisu esiswini kwisisu.
Kakade ke, ukuba iimfudu zogcino ziqeqeshiwe, ziya kukhusela isibeleko ukusuka kwiimpawu ezifanayo, kuba zakha uhlobo lwe-corset. Kwaye kungcono ukuba ungabandakanyeki kuloo msebenzi, kodwa kunokuba ukhethe iinkqubo ezizodwa zokuzilolonga ezilungiselelwe ngokukodwa abafazi abakhulelweyo.
Yaye uthetha ntoni ngalabo abaphela ngexesha lokukhulelwa bathetha ukuqala uqeqesho. Kule meko, izihlunu zogcino, sele zikwazi ukululaza ngexesha lokukhulelwa ezikhulayo ngeempahla kunye nemida, akunakuze zilungele imithwalo enzima. Oku kungenza ithoni yesibindi , okungukuthi , ukukhupha ingxabano yayo. Kwaye into enje, njengokuba uyazi, ayiyikuzisa into enhle ngokwayo.
Ngaba ndifuna ukuguqula umshicileli ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Ngokufanelekileyo, kwinqanaba lokucwangcisa lomntwana, lo mfazi kufuneka azinyamekele, ulungiselele imisipha yamaphephandaba, ukuze axhaswe ngesisu, athinte ukunweba kwimizimba kunye nesikhumba. Kodwa oku akusoloko kwenzeka. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uqale, qhagamshelana nomzimba wakho wezilwanyana.
Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kukucebisa isethi ekhethekileyo yokuzilolonga kunye nezinye iindawo zomzimba zabasetyhini abakhulelweyo. Kungcono, ukuba uya kwiikhosi ezizodwa kubafazi abakhulelweyo. Kulapho uza kuba phantsi kolawulo lomqeqeshi. Yaye kunye nokuzilolonga ezenziwa apho, zenzelwe ukuqwalasela ukusetyenziswa kwazo zonke iimisipha eziyimfuneko ekukhuleni nasekuzalweni.
Ngethuba loqeqesho, kufuneka uhlolisise imeko yakho yempilo, kwaye xa kukho naziphi iziganeko ezingaxakekiyo, nokuba kukuphefumula, intlungu, ukukhathala, kufuneka umeke ngokukhawuleza umsebenzi uze uzenzele ukuphumla. Khumbula ukuba ngoku into ebaluleke kakhulu akuyikuphucula isibalo, kodwa ukunyamekela imeko yentsana kunye neemeko ezilungileyo zeemisipha kunye nemigqaliselo yokuzalwa kwangomso.