I-Dowry enikwe umntwana
Ukuba ujika kwimbali, uya kufumana into ekhangayo: into yokuba abesetyhini bacophe udoti lwabo xa bekhulelwe, kunye nemimiselo yakutshanje. Kwaye malunga naziphi na iimpawu, ezithi umntwana unxibelele entanyeni okanye uza kuzalwe ngeminwe edibeneyo, ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo wenza izandla zobugcisa, akukho mntu wakuva. Kodwa kwimbono yezokwelapha, impendulo kumbuzo wokuba kunokwenzeka yini ukukhanda ibhinqa elikhulelwe ngomnqamlezo, ukuthunga kunye nokudibanisa ingcaciso. Inyaniso kukuba ngokufumana ixesha elide kwisimo esinye, iinkqubo eziqhubekayo kwizitho zeplavic ziyakwenzeka, eziya kubachaphazela kakubi impilo yowesifazane okhulelweyo nomntwana.
Ukukhahlela iminqamlezo
Njengoko uyazi, umnqamlezo unempahla ekhuselekileyo kakhulu. Ukulungelelanisa i-dowry yebhokhwe kunye nokufakela iipateni phezu kwayo ngomnqamlezo, ubeka ulindile kakhulu kwiso elibi kunye neengcinga ezimbi zabanye. Ngoko ke kuyisidenge ukucinga ukuba awukwazi ukumbamba umfazi okhulelwe ngomnqamlezo.
Ukubetheka ngeembalo
Ukukhanda ubuhla bekhulelwe kuyafumaneka kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu uya kukwazi ukulucelomngeni. Lo msebenzi unomlutha kakhulu kwaye ufuna ukuba ibhinqa libe nempembelelo epheleleyo yemvakalelo. Ngeli thuba, oomama abanomso banegunya elinamandla kakhulu, kwaye izinto ezihlotshisiwe ziphethe umthwalo wamandla amakhulu.
Ngokwahlukileyo, ndifuna ukugqithisa into yokuba kunokwenzeka ukufaka iimpawu kwiimali ezikhulelweyo, kunye nalapho uqala khona. Ngokwemigaqo emiselweyo, icawa ivumela ukuqala umsebenzi kwiimpawu kuphela emva kokuba i-masteress ibusiswe. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yezizathu ezingaqondakaliyo, icawa inokunqanda oku, kodwa ayixhomekeke kwisimo salo mfazi.
Iimpawu ezimiswe kwaye zizingcwaliswe ngumfazi okhulelweyo unezakhiwo ezinamandla kakhulu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba banako ukuphilisa kwizifo ezahlukahlukeneyo kwaye bafezekise iminqweno yabo.