Umhla wokuzalwa ngowona nto inqwenelekayo, ngenxa yexesha elide elindelwe, ezinye, iholide elibuhlungu. Kodwa nangayiphi na imeko, yile mini kuphela onke amagama afudumeleyo anikezelwe kuwe. Ukubhiyozela esi siganeko samkelwe phantse kuwo onke amasiko kunye nesiko ngamakhulu eminyaka. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ezininzi iimpawu ezihambelana nokubhiyozelwa komhla wokuzalwa, kwaye omnye wabo uthi ukuba ubhiyozela umhla weshumi elinesithathu, ungazibiza wena kunye nentsapho yakho embi.
Kutheni ungabhiyozeli iminyaka engama-13?
Abantu abanenkolelo bakholelwa ukuba lo mhla awukwazi ukugubha, kuba ukuba ootata bethu babesaba le nombolo, kuthetha ukuba kukho izizathu. Ewe, abachasayo ngokuchaseneyo, kholelwa ukuba kulo mfanekiso akukho nto iyimfihlelo. Mhlawumbi, akusayi kuze kuphele iingxabano malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka yini ukubhiyozela iminyaka engama-13 okanye kungenjalo.
Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezinokusixelela ukuba kutheni ungayi kubhiyozela iminyaka engama-13:
- Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, inani le-13 (ilishumi elinambini) lithathwa njengesimboli sezinto ezimbi, ukutsala imimoya emibi, ethumela abantu iingxaki ezinkulu, ingozi neengxaki.
- Inkolelo eninzi ithi umphefumlo womntu ngomhla weshumi elinesithathu uzalwa unobuthakathaka kwaye unobungozi kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba nayiphi iqalekiso kunye neminqweno ngaloo mini yaba ziintsholongwane kwaye yazaliseka.
- Abanye abaphengululi bakholelwa ukuba ngomhla we-13 ezona ziganeko ezithembekileyo zeBhayibhile zenzeka, xa uKayin wabulala umninawa wakhe uAbheli, kwaye xa bebethelela uYesu.
Zonke ezi zizathu zivela kwinqanaba leenkolelo, kodwa ingcaciso engqiqweni, kutheni ungayi kubhiyozela iminyaka engama-13, ayikho. Ngoko ke, ukuba awuyikholelwa inkolelo, unokuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba agubhide iminyaka engama-13, nje ungaqokeleli iinkampani ezinkulu ezinomsindo, ubukele umyalelo phakathi kwabantwana kwaye, kunjalo, ungavumeli utywala. Emva koko umthendeleko uya kudlula ngokuthula nangokuthokoza.