Njengoko uyazi, ixesha leshumi elivisayo linzima kunaloo mbono wobudlelwano bobudlelwane. Umfana osele sele efuna ukuzimela, kwaye abazali abakwazi ukumnika inkululeko epheleleyo yesenzo. Enye yeengongoma eziphikisanayo inokuba yeso sihlandlo esimangalisayo, njengomcimbi wokuzalwa komntwana osemtsha.
Abazali bavame bakholelwa ukuba yindawo ephela apho ugugu lokuzalwa komntwana osemtsha. Apha, abantwana baya kuba phantsi kolawulo, ubuninzi bezotywala luya kugcinwa ngokukhawuleza (okanye luya kubakho ngokupheleleyo, konke kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yokuzalwa), kwaye ekhaya uya kugubha usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana ongenayo imali, engenakuthiwa ngezinye iindlela. Kodwa, ukukuxelela inyaniso, akubona bonke abantwana abafana nemibhiyozo enjalo. Ngoko ke, sicebisa ukuba uqwalasele ezinye iindlela, apho ubhiyozela umhla wokuzalwa komntwana osemtsha.
Ngoko, sinika indawo ezininzi apho unokuchitha ixesha lokuzalwa kwentombazana:
- Kwemvelo. Ukuba ixesha livumela, ngoko unako ukuya ehlathini i-shish kebabs, echibi, ipikiniki. Yonke into incike kwiingcinga zakho kunye nemvelo. Ngokwenza njalo, ungakhohlwa ukuba abantwana kufuneka babe ngabantu abadala. Oku akuthethi ukuba uya kufuna ukumema abangane bakho abantwana nabazali babo. Kodwa awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kobukho bakho. Ingqalelo ngokukodwa ukhuseleko ngexesha lokuzalwa kwechibi.
- Unokubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa kwi-cafe. Oku kukho kuxhomekeke kumandla akho eemali, kwaye kufuneka udibanise umgca ococekileyo - ungamhlaziyi umntwana ngaphambi kokuba abahlobo bakho babe netafile encinane kakhulu, kodwa ungalonakalisi uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali.
- Kwakhona nakwiidolophu ezininzi kukho imibutho ekhethekileyo enika indawo yokubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa komntwana okanye umntwana osemva kunye nenkqubo yokuzonwabisa. Njengomthetho, iiholide ezinjalo azincinci, kodwa ziyakhunjulwa ngenxa yobomi.
- Ukuba usenza isigqibo sokuba wenze iholide, kodwa ungayazi indlela yokuququzelela umhla wokuzalwa komntwana, ngoko ke sikunikezela ukuba uzifundele ngezinye zeendlela.
Kuvuyisa gqitha ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwentsha?
- Akuyimfuneko ukumema abantu abaninzi kumthendeleko. Oku kusebenza kubomama, oogogo, oomkhulu kunye nezinye izalamane. Ngokuqinisekileyo, iindwendwe ezibalulekileyo, kodwa ngokukodwa kungekhona kumntwana, kodwa kuwe. Kwaye umntwana onjalo osemtsha akayi kuba mnandi kakhulu. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukwenza iiholide ezimbini: enye yabantu abadala, enye enye yabantwana.
- Cinga ngemibono enomdla wokuzalwa komntwana osetsheni. Umzekelo, ukuzonwabisa ngokuzonwabisa kunye namabhaso. Uze ukhethe okukhethayo kwiiklasi ezihambahambayo, kwaye ungabi netafile. Abantwana abakwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide endaweni enye, kwaye kungcono ukuhambisa amandla abo kwisitishi esinokuthula. Ngaphandle koko, emva komthendeleko omde, baya kuthwala indlu yakho. Unako ukumema abathuthuli ekhaya ukuba abantwana banomdla kulolu hlobo lwemidlalo, kwaye babeka ukubanjwa kweholide kubo. Qiniseka ukuba zonke iindwendwe zifana nale ngcamango.
- Cinga ngenyameko kwimenyu yomhla wokuzalwa komntwana. Akufanele kube yiitya zokutya, kodwa izitya ezikhangayo. Ngomhla wokuzalwa kwentombazana, iindwendwe azidli, kodwa zizonwabe. Ngako oko, ukuba izihlandlo ezinjalo, i-pizza, i-rolls, kunye neigwele akunakusetyenziswa. Kodwa i-jellied kunye ne-herring phantsi kwengubo yoboya ihamba kwitafile yabantu abadala. Ukususela kwiziphuzo unokubeka phezu kwetafile i-sweet soda amanzi, iisero, i-champagne yabantwana. Yaye ungayikhohlwa malunga nesitya esibalulekileyo kunanoma yimaphi ama-birthday - ikhekhe! Unokuzibhaka, okanye ungalula ikhekhe kwivenkile yeefestile. Amaqebengwana asetsheni ngohlobo lweemoto, idonopli, abalinganiswa bezithombe ezizithandayo baya kwenza.
Kwaye okokugqibela. Akunandaba nokuba uthatha isigqibo sokubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa kwentombazana, into ephambili kukuba uyayifaka ingqalelo yomnqweno womntu wokuzalwa.