Ngokuqhelekileyo umbuzo uwukuthi, ikati ihluke njani kwikati, abantu abaninzi banamathele kwaye bamomotheka. Kwaye kuphela abo baceba ukufumana intaka, becinga ngokucokisekileyo.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, kubonakala ngathi akukho nto ilula kunokuba kuqinisekiswe isondo ngesilwanyana, kuba sisilwanyana esifanayo, kwaye iimpawu zesondo zokuqala kufuneka zichazwe ngokucacileyo. Nangona kunjalo, akukho ndlela le nto inokuhlukanisa ubulili bentunu. Kwinqaku lethu, siza kuxela ngokubanzi, njani le nto ingayigqitywa yimpawu zangaphandle zepilesi?
Indlela yokwahlula ikati ephuma kwikati ngempawu zesondo eziphambili?
Ngaphandle kokupholisa, okokuqala kufuneka uhlolisise i-genitalia yesilwanyana. Ukuba uthaya umsila, inkonkwe yenkwenkwe, uya kubona ukuba ukuvula okuvulekileyo kunye neloli zesini kubumba ikoloni, amachaphaza amabini afanayo kumgama ongaphezu kweyentimitha ukusuka komnye. Xa inketha ifinyelela kwiinyanga ezi-3, lo mgama uhlala ngamathambo. Ngokumalunga neekati, i-anus kunye nelayini lomchamo lenza uphawu lokumemeza.
Indlela yokuchonga ikati evela kwikati ngempawu zangaphandle?
Uninzi lwama-kotatnikov akholelwa ukuba ukuze ukhethe kwiikati ezimbini iinkwenkwe okanye intombazana, kwanele ngokwazi ukuhlula ngokubhaliweyo kwamehlo kunye ne-muzzle. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba amava kunye nezilwanyana ezincinci? Masiqwalasele oku. Amakati kunye ne-muzzle, kunye neempumlo, ububanzi buninzi, kunye nokuba banomzimba onamandla kunye nemigqa enamandla.
I-Pussies ngokuchaseneyo, ininzi encinane, kwaye inomdla. Umbhobho udibene kunye, kwaye umbala uqobo. Oku kubangelwa ukuba i-X i-chromosomes ixanduva lombala omnyama nobomvu weenwele, ukuba kukho ezimbini, kwaye oku kwenzeka kuphela kwiikati okanye kwiikati ezineziphene zomzimba, ngoko umbala uya kuba obomvu nomnyama. Ngoko ke, sinokugqiba ukuba kuphela iikati ezinokuthi zenze i-tricolor.
Indlela yokwahlula ikati evela kwikati ngokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kwayo?
Ukuba isilwanyana siye safikelela kwiminyaka engama-7-9, unokuthi unqume ngesondo lesilwanyana ngokwemvelo. Njengomthetho, kude kube yile ngongoma, kwakunzima ukufikelela kwizigqibo, kuba umfana omncinci ongeyena uqhubeka edlala, eqhuba okanye elele. Kodwa apha simele siqwalasele ukuba uhlobo lwesilwanyana ludla ngokuxhomekeka kwiimpawu zohlobo lweentaka. Ngokomzekelo, iintlobo ezithile zithandana nobudlova kunye nobunzima, ngelixa abanye banobungane kwaye banomdla. Ngoko ke, akubona wonke umntu owaziyo ukujonga ikati ephuma kwikati. Ngokwezibalo, ikati eqhelekileyo iyathula kwaye ihlaziye, ngokungafani nekati. Ngokuqinisekileyo ubhekisela ekuthinjweni ezandleni zakhe, ezinqabileyo okanye ezixinzelelekileyo, kuba uqobo ngokwemveli ulungeleleneyo ngokwemvelo.
Uninzi lweekati zikholelwa ukuba ziyi-master master, ngoko ke, ukubonisa nokukhusela ummandla wabo, baqala ukuyifaka. Ngoko ke, endlwini apho ikati ihlala khona, ihlala ihlala isitshixo esithile. Indlela yokwahlula ikati ephuma kwikati, sazicingela. Ngoku makhe sithethe ngeziganeko zokuziphatha kweekati. Inkalo yabo eyahlukileyo yinto yokuzimela, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uvelele ibinzana: "Ikati iyahamba ngokwayo", kunjalo. Abanini baninzi bahlala bekhalaza ngokungazinzi, kunye nokubonakaliswa kokuzimela kwamantombazana amnandi. Abayithandi kakhulu i-caresses kunye ne-tenderness, ngoko ke abahlala becela izandla zabo, kodwa bahlale kuzo, kunokuba bahloniphe. Naphezu kohlobo lwazo, iikati zihlambulukile. Banokuziqhawula ngeeyure ukuze bahlambuluke kangangoko kunokwenzeka, baqheleke kwi-tray kwaye bakhethe indawo yokulala efanelekileyo.
Njengoko ubona, ikati inokuthi ibonakale kwikati kungekhona kuphela kwiimpawu zesondo eziphambili, kodwa nangokwemvelo, ukuziphatha kunye nombala weengubo.