Inani elikhulu labantu basebenzisa umlingo ukuqonda imicimbi yothando. Unokwenza i-amulet, wenze umkhosi, kodwa kukulungele ukudibana nomoya wothando ngqo. Musa ukudibana nemibutho engabonakaliyo ngenxa yokuzonwabisa, ngaphandle koko ingabangela iingxaki ezahlukeneyo.
Indlela yokukhupha umoya wothando - inombolo yokukhetha 1
Unako ukuchitha isibonelelo ngoncedo lwebhodi yaseWinja , ibhodi yokuthetha okanye ibhodi ye-Witch. Ukuba azinjalo, ngoko unokwenza ufana nomfanekiso ocacileyo. Sebenzisa isithethe kunoma yiphina indawo ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala. Ukongeza kwibhodi, kufuneka ube nesithombe somthandayo, isitya samanzi kunye nekhandlela. Ngaphambi kokubiza ngosuku lomoya wothando, sitshintshe iipaleni, cima ukukhanya kwaye ifowuni, ngokubanzi, akufanele kubekho nto ephazamisayo. Ukubamba ikhandlela elisezantsi ezandleni zakho, zithi la magama:
"Yiza kum (igama lakho) umoya wothando uze ufumane uvuyo.
Ndiphilise kwaye undivuyise ngothando.
Phendula, ungathuli, unike iingcebiso, uncede. "
Ungakwazi ukubiza umoya ngoncedo lomlingo bobabini kwedwa kunye kwimeko yabantu abasondeleyo. Ukuba umoya unxibelelwano, unokuba kubanda okanye kukho ukuhamba komoya opholileyo. Ukuze ufumane impendulo echanekileyo, nokuba umoya ufikile, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ibhodi yokomoya. Ukuba i-saucer ibonise impendulo "Ewe", ngoko unokubuza imibuzo enomdla. Bese uthetha udibanise kwaye umbulele umoya, apho imeko leyo ingaqwalaselwa.
Indlela yokubiza omoya ngothando ngokuchanekileyo - inombolo yesibini 2
Susa eklasini zonke izinto ezibomvu kwaye ungagqoki iimpahla eziqaqambileyo. Ukutsala ingqalelo yomntu oyithandayo, kufuneka ube nesithotshana esithathwe kutshanje. Ephakathi kwegumbi, faka itafile ehlanganiswe ngetyhula yempuphu emhlophe, faka ifoto kwindawo yayo, kwaye ngaphantsi kwesitya kunye namanzi acacileyo. Kulo, faka ingxobo yeenwele kunye nokulahla kwegazi. Thatha ikhandlela elimnyama kwaye, wenze i-circular motions, whisper igama lothandekayo. Ngexesha lokoqobo, cingela ukuba usondele. Ngaphambi kokubiza umoya womncedi othandweni, susa ikhandlela ngokusondeleyo kwisithombe uze uthi la magama:
"Ndibiza wena, uMoya wothando, uze kum, ungabi. Ndiyivuyisa kum, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama). Umphefumlo wam othandweni wedwa wamphilisa. Ndiza kubuyisa umthetho. Mpendulo. Musa ukuthula! "
Ukwazi indlela yokuvusa ngokufanelekileyo umoya wothando, unokutsala ingqalelo yomntu oyithandayo, kwaye uvuselele ubudlelwane obukhoyo.