Kubonakala ukuba imitshatweni yobulili obufanayo okanye ukutshata ngokwabo - akusikho iindaba. Namhlanje kukho iikrank ezikwazi ukufunga ngokulula ukuba zihlala "kuthando kunye nokunyaniseka, ukugula kunye nempilo" into engaphiliyo!
Kuze kube kutshanje, umtshato uthathwa njengobumbano ngokuzithandela kunye nokulinganayo kwindoda kunye nomfazi, okwakungenjongo yokudala intsapho kwaye yavelisa amalungelo kunye nemisebenzi. Kodwa namhlanje, kumazwe amaninzi, izibini ezitshatileyo zitshatile ngokomthetho. Oku kuphela asisayi kumangaliswa ...
Uyakhumbula ukuba intombazana yaseNtaliyane eyayingatshatanga isiqingatha ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-40, yatshata ...? Ngoko, kwaye le nto yayingeyonto eyoyikisayo, kuba sifumane abantu aba-10 abafungelayo ukuba bahlale benothando nothemba ngezinto ezingapheliyo!
1. Utshatile ukuvuyela ukuhamba
Ngo-2015, u-Linda Ducharm ohlala eFlorida wathatha inxaxheba kwimiboniso yeTV "Ukuxhomekeka Kwamangalisa", nangona efuna ukuba akanayo, kodwa ... Lo mfazi akagcini nje ngokuzidla ngokuzonwabisa - uyabathanda! Ngokukodwa kwisondo lokuhlaziywa kukaBruce, owamhlangabeza ngo-1982. Ngaphambi kokuba athethe isifungo somtshato phambi kwakhe, uLinda iminyaka engama-30 wabonisa ukuba wayekulungele ukuthanda nokuzukisa isakhiwo sensimbi esiphezulu sama-21 "kwisifo kunye nempilo". Kwaye akazange akhohlise - emva kwesithwathwa ngo-1986, ibhinqa lachitha imali engaphezu kwama-R10 000 ukuze ibuyele, kwaye oku akubalanga zonke izinto ezisetyenziselwe kunye kunye nezidlo zokukhanyisa ikhandlela. Ngendlela, uBruce - lo ngumyeni wesithathu "ongenamdla" kaLinda, ngaphambi kokuba atshate ngokusemthethweni isitimela kunye neenqwelo!
2. I-Robot kwi-Wives!
Emva koxinzelelo lweentsapho zakhe malunga nokungabikho komngxube wokubambisana ngomnwe ngomnyaka we-31, unjineli weengcali zobulumko uZheng Jiajia wanikezela kwaye wayesele ekulungele ukufumana umtshakazi, kodwa kwathiwa e-China namhlanje le ngxaki - abafazi abaneleyo amadoda. Enyanisweni, lo mfana akazange alulazise izandla, kodwa wazenza ngokwakhe i-robot egama lingu-Inging, waza wamtshata. Ngendlela, umcimbi womtshato wawunokuthobeka, kodwa umthonyama kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Kuza kube yimhla, ukuguqulwa okucwangcisiweyo kuyakwazi ukubona imifanekiso elula kwaye ivakalise amagama ambalwa. Umlingane onothando usebenza ukuze afunde ukuhamba!
3. Umtshakazi wokugcina
Awuyikucinga ukuba siyadenga - umtshato weBabilonia Ayvag onobudala obuneminyaka engama-107 ubudala, ukulungiselela ukubhujiswa, ngenxa yokucima indawo yokwakhiwa kwesakhiwo esitsha sezindlu ngokuqinisekileyo kubhaliswe eS Seattle ngo-2012 phambi kwamaNgqina angama-50! Ngaloo nto, intombazana yayifuna ukuqwalasela ingxaki, ibe yidumo kwihlabathi lonke!
4. Intsapho ene doll
Umfazi wokuqala weCheng Heath-Hsum-Tsai wagqiba ubomi bakhe ngokuzibulala. Kwintsikelelo enjalo intombazana eyayihamba ngayo, kuba intsapho yakhe yayingavumelani nomtshato wayo. Kwiminyaka embalwa kamva, u-Cheng watshata kwakhona, kodwa wayeqiniseka ukuba umfazi wokuqala akavuyiswa ngalokhu. Ukuze aqiniseke ngomoya wakhe, loo mfana wathatha waza watshata idoli likaBarbie, njengomntu we-Tsai apha eMhlabeni, kwaye isibini somlingane akayithandanga nhlobo. Umkhosi wesibini esingaqhelekanga wawugcinwe kwitempile yaseBuddhist, apho umdoli womlobokazi "weza" emkhondweni womtshato kunye nentsimbi yegolide. Isipho esiyinhloko seCheng kwakuyi-toy ebomvu iMercedes, leyo, emva kokutshiswa, kufuneka ibe kwihlabathi elingokomoya apho i-Tsai ihleli khona ngoku. Ngokuqhelekileyo, "unxulumano olungokomoya" lweChina aluqhelekanga, kwaye ngeli xesha abazali bomtshato ofileyo bavumile!
5. Umtshato kunye nelitye
Emva kokuphefumlelwe ngubudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi koPapa uJohn Paul II no-Anna-Theresa Tyminetsk, abahlala ephepheni kwaye bengakhange bahlwaywe ngumculi waseMondon u-Tracey Emin, wayecinga-yintoni eyingozi? Ngokubanzi, ngowama-2015, ibhinqa litshata ngokusemthethweni ilitye, ngaloo ndlela ibonisa ukuba izibophelelo zokomoya zibaluleke kakhulu. Namhlanje, isiqingatha sesibini esingavamile "ubomi" engadini yendlu yakhe eFransi, kwaye umbiza ngokuba ngumyeni wakhe wokugqibela ...
6. Isithembu nemithi
I-ecologist uRichard Torres akafumananga indlela engcono yokukhangela ingqalelo ekunciphiseni imithi nokulondoloza imo, indlela yokuqalisa ukutshata ngokusemthethweni. Awuyi kukholwa, kodwa umthi wokuqala uTorres wachaza "isifungo somtshato" sasePeru, okwesibini ukusuka eArgentina, yesithathu evela eColombia. Ngonyaka we-2016, i-ecologist yatshata nomthi we-cypress eMexico - enye yeyona endala kwaye idume kakhulu kwihlabathi, kwaye ekugqibeleni umtshato wakhe unomthi waseGuatemala!
7. "Ukugula kunye nempilo" ngebhuloho
Ibhuloho yeTyholi okanye iTywala ezantsi kweFransi, ukususela ngexesha lokwakhiwa kwayo ngekhulu le-14 latsho ngokubanzi, kodwa oko kuya kwenzeka ntoni ngo-2013, kwakungalindelekanga. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba wagqiba ukutshata noJodie Rose, oye wafunda iibhuloji zehlabathi ixesha elide, erekhoda izandi zokudumala ukudala umculo. Intombazana inethemba lokuba uyamthanda umyeni wakhe ongaphiliyo ukuba angazi kakuhle, kuba kungekudala nje xa emnceda ukuba ahlangane ngokupheleleyo nomhlaba!
8. Dlala ngaphambi komtshato.
Namhlanje kwiminyaka yobudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nemimiselo yemidlalo yinto enokwenzeka, akusiyo yonke into yokuba umntu ogqithisa umgca ongabonakaliyo aze aqale ukubona yonke into esondelene nentliziyo. Uqikelele, sithetha ntoni na? Ewe, ngaphambi komtshato wangempela kwi-tuxedo kunye neendwendwe, umfana ovela eJapan phantsi kwe-nickname "Sal 9000", ongakhange alahleke kuphela ubudlelwane bakhe kunye nomntu ogqirha u-Nene Anagasaki, wada wadlala umdlalo kunye no-Love Plus, waze wathenga iintombazana zeentombi ezingekhoyo, izipho kunye iinyanga ezintathu "ziholele" ngomhla!
9. Umtshato kunye ne-vampire yekhadibhodi
Xa, e-adolescence yakhe, u-Lauren Adkins wafundwa yi "vampire saga", waqonda ukuba sele u-Edward Cullen wayehlala entliziyweni yakhe ixesha elide. Eyona nto inokumangalisa ukuba intombazana yayiyi-screen ye-novel, kuba kumlingisi ophezulu, owenziwe ngumdlali we-Robert Pattinson, wayethandana ngokukhawuleza, ezindlebeni naphakade. Kodwa ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo amathuba omhlangano kunye nomtshato kunye nenkwenkwezi ebomini bokwenene, uLauren wayengekho nxakile, kodwa wafumana iphepha lePattinson ikhophi yobukhulu bomntu waza wamtshata. Ngendlela, umtshato wenziwa ngo-2014 kwintlanganiso yaseLas Vegas, ijikelezwe iindwendwe ezingama-50, ngokuqinisekileyo, isibini esitshatileyo esichitha eLos Angeles.
10. Isikhululo esithi "Uthando"
Nantoni na into oyithethayo, kunye nezikhululo zezithuthi - umlingo okhethekileyo. Kukho apho abantu badibana khona, bathetha ukuhlambalaza, kwaye, ngokubanzi, banamava kakhulu kunye neemvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo. Akukho nto intombazana egama layo linguCarol, owayeneminyaka eli-9 ubudala evakatyelela isitulo sesitimela esithi "Daidra" eSan Diego, isebe le "Santa Fe Depot", kwaye akakwazanga ukulibala. Ngaphezu koko, ngo-36, uCarol wagqiba ekubeni adibanise naye intlekele yakhe, ngokutshata ngokusemthethweni! Namhlanje uqinisekisa ukuba imihla ngemihla ikwabela imizuzu engama-45 ukuba ibe nomfazi ongavamile, kunye nokuziphatha ngengqondo ngesondo sakhe! Ewe, into yokuba uKarol uyazikhusela iindwendwe ukuba athethe nesikhululo sakhe, akhuphe kuye kwaye njalo njalo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba uhlaziswa yimvakalelo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba esaba ukuvalwa kwexesha elizayo xa ehambele le ndawo, eyenzileyo ku-Eric Eifel, umfazi ka-Eiffel iinqaba, emva kokubonakaliswa kobubele!