Isikhumbuzo sokuqala sokuzalwa komntwana liholide kakhulu. Ingane ayayiqondi ukubaluleka kwaloo mini, kodwa kubazali bakhe kunye nabathandekayo bayakuqonda ukuba umntwana wabo ukhulile kakhulu! Ngoko ke, ukuba uyamenywa ukuba ugubhile unyaka, phatha ukhetho olukhethekileyo. Makhe sibone oko bakunika inkwenkwe ngomnyaka.
Isipho somntwana wengane eneminyaka elilodwa
Sonke siyazi ukuba abantwana bahlukile, kwaye bahlakulela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa ngokukodwa ngomnyaka abafana kunye namantombazana abakwazi ukuhamba, banemisebenzi eyintandokazi kunye namathoyizi . Ngoko isipho somfana oneminyaka elilodwa sinokuba nophuhliso, luncedo okanye lukhunjulwe nje.
Uninzi oomama kunye noodade namhlanje bakholelwa ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukunika abantwana amathoyizi ezemfundo. Umzekelo, umbhoxo okhethekileyo wombala unokunyamekela i-crumb yakho ixesha elide. Kulo nyaka, umntwana akahambelani ngokuzithemba, ngoko-ke amathoyizi ancedo aya kuba nezihlalo zamasondo ezinamavili kunye neengcingo zamatye okanye iintambo ngendlela yefowuni, indlovu, inja okanye umatshini wokubhala.
Yintoni enokuyinika unomntwana ongeyayazi ukuhamba? Uncedo kwaye unomdla uya kuba yimizatho efana neekerubini ezinkulu ezikhanyayo, iimbonki okanye izitena, apho umntwana oncedayo ngabazali, uya kufunda "ukwakha iidolophu". Isipho esihle kumntwana oneminyaka elilodwa kuya kuba yipowusta ezwakalayo ekhompyutheni eyenza umntwana ngokuchanekileyo aqonde izandi ezahlukeneyo.
Iincwadi ezinobomi ezinobomi zinceda umntwana wakho afunde ngehlabathi elikujikelezile. Bavela ebusheni baya kufaka uthando lomntwana kule ncwadi.
Unako ukunika inkwenkwe yomculo ithoyiphu yonyaka, kodwa kufuneka ukhethe ingoma kuyo eya kukhuthaza ukuphuhliswa komntwana, kwaye ayiyikuyikrakra intsana okanye icasule abazali bayo.
Njengesipho esiwusizo, ungathenga amathoyizi enkwenkwe eneminyaka elilodwa ubudala yokuhlamba
Isipho sokuqala nesingasolekiyo somntwana oneminyaka emininzi iya kuba yindawo enkulu enokuzibhinqa ngayo umntwana okanye intaba yabantwana enomdla kakhulu ukuhambisa umntwana wakho. Kwaye edibini elomileyo kunye neebhola umntwana wakho "uya kuhamba" iminyaka embalwa.
Xa ukhetha isipho, musa ukulibala ukuba kufuneka lenziwe ngezinto eziphezulu. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuzalwa kokuqala kwendoda encinci ayikho nje iholide yakhe, kodwa kunye nesiganeko esinomdla kunina, ngoko ungakhohlwa ukumncoma ngeentyatyambo.