Ukuze ufumane ngokuchanekileyo ngendlela enokwenzeka ngayo ukutshintsha umfanekiso wesifazane, apho uqala khona nokuba kutheni umnqweno onjalo uvele, makhe siqale sicinge ngokubaluleka kwalo mqondo, oko sithetha ntoni ngegama lomfanekiso. Emva koko, eli gama ngokwayo linentsingiselo emininzi, oku kubandakanya isitala sokugqoka , ukubonakala, ingqondo yangaphakathi "I", ubudlelwane nabantu abasondeleyo nabathandekayo, impumelelo yomsebenzi. Kwaye zonke ezi zixhobo zidibanisene, kwaye bonke bahlanganisa umfanekiso omnye, obizwa ngokuba ngumfanekiso.
Ngokuphathelele izizathu zokuba kutheni kwinqanaba elithile kunomnqweno ongenakunqwenelekayo wokutshintsha into ethile, ngoko ke ukhetho lunokuba lukhulu. Ukususela ekuphakanyisweni kwebhanti kwinqanaba lomsebenzi kunye nesidingo sokuhlangabezana nesimo esitsha kwiingxaki ezinzulu ezingenelisekanga ngokubanzi ngobomi babo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, ukuba uthe wagqiba ngokucacileyo ukutshintsha umfanekiso, ungakulibali "ukubeka umkhombe kumoya wenguqu".
Ndifuna ukutshintsha umfanekiso: indlela yokwenza ngayo intombazana kunye nalapho uqala khona?
Kukho umqondo onengqiqo ukuba umbuzo wokutshintsha umfanekiso usetyenziswa ngamantombazana amantombazana afuna ukuzenza, umsebenzi omhle, isiqingatha sesibini okanye afuna ukuphucula nokuphucula. Eyona ndlela eya kwinjongo, kulula ukuba uqale ngokubonakala. Iziphakamiso ezimbalwa eziya kukunceda ukwenza oku kukhawuleza nangentlungu:
- Masiqale ngomzimba - umgaqo wegolide "emzimbeni ophilileyo - ngengqondo ephilileyo", ukwenza imidlalo akuyi kulungisa kuphela inani lakho, kodwa neengcinga zakho.
- Emva koko, masiye kwi-hairdresser, apha into ephambili ayikulibala malunga neempawu zakho. Ngoko ukuba ayizange iphendule ukuba i-hairstyle entsha isiphumelele ngokupheleleyo kumbuzo kuwe, kungcono ukubuyela kwizakhono eziza kukhetha ukunqunyulwa kweenwele kunye nombala weenwele ezixhaphazela kakhulu isidima.
- Akunangqiqo ukutyelela i-beautician, ibala eliphilileyo kunye nelinen ecocekileyo ecocekileyo-isibambiso sobuhle kunye nokubonakala okungenakwenzeka.
- Inyaniso yokuba ukwakheka kunako ukuguqula umfazi ongaphaya kwamkelekileyo uyaziwa kuwo wonke umntu - ngoko kutheni ungazami ukuthetha nale mbuzo ngemibala emitsha kunye neembono.
- Ngoku malunga neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - iimpahla, iimfashini, ukhethwe ngokufanelekileyo, iimpahla zenza iimangaliso. Okokuqala, ukhetha izambatho ezintsha, ungakhokelwa nje ngomfanekiso ocinga, kodwa ngomzimba.
Kukho iziphakamiso ezininzi kule nkalo, kwaye kuya kuba kufanelekile ukufuna uncedo kumcebisi oza kuncedisa ukudala umfanekiso wakho omtsha kwisitya esivuthiweyo kunye nazo zonke izongezelelo eziyimfuneko (izicathulo, iingxowa, izixhobo, ubucwebe, kunye neqhumiso).
Ukutshintsha umfanekiso wakho, ungalibali into ebaluleke kakhulu - ihlabathi langaphakathi. Iimpawu zobuntu, ukuziphatha, ukucinga kwakho kunye nabanye bonke oku kunye nokubonakala kwangaphandle kuya kuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwaye kuqulethe utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakho.