Nangona umntwana esesesitulo sabakhubazekile, abazali bakhe abanako ukulinda umntwana wabo ukuba eme emilenzeni aze asebenze. Nangona umntwana engathethi, uMama noTata bafuna ukuba akhulume ngokukhawuleza kwaye athethe malunga nazo zonke izinto ezithandanayo, malunga noko uhlala esithule.
Ngumlenze njengoko kubonakala ngathi, ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana eqala ukuqonda indawo kunye neenkathazo zakhe ezinamahloni, umama uyaqonda ukuba kwakulula ngomntwana olele esitrateni ... Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana eqala ukuthetha ngaphandle kokuyeka, abazali bayaqonda ukuba ngoku baya kuthetha phambi komntwana nzima kakhulu. Ekubeni umntwana 'akawuthandi' onke amagama kunye namazwi omntu omdala, kodwa uzama ukubeka izimvo kwisiganeko esincinane.
Ngoko ukuba umntwana wakho ulele, akukho nto yokukhathazeka ngayo. Ukuba uthetha naye ngokufanelekileyo, funda iincwadi kuye, uhlakulele izakhono zamancinci ezincinci, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, xa umntwana esenza isigqibo sokuthetha, mhlawumbi unokukwazi ukusho ngakumbi oontanga bakhe abathe bathetha ngaphambili.
Umntwana uqala nini ukuthetha kakuhle?
Ukuphendula lo mbuzo, okokuqala kukho konke kubalulekile ukuqonda into "entle" ukuthetha? Abanye abazali bacinga ukuba oku kwenzekayo xa umntwana eqala ukuthetha aga, abanye - xa eqala ukuthetha iibllabha, okwesithathu - xa umntwana eqala ukuthetha nonina, kwaye abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba kuphela xa eqala ukuthetha ngamagama.
Kukholelwa ukuba ukunyuka okuqinileyo kuphuhliso lolwimi kwenziwa ngumntwana kwisiqingatha sesibini sonyaka wesibini wobomi. Ngelo xesha kufuneka aqale ukusebenzisa amagama angama-100. Nangona kunjalo, ngokwenza oko kuvela ukuba umntwana wale minyaka ungathetha ngamagama angama-10 kuphela, kodwa eneminyaka emithathu, uthetha "ngokukhululekile" usebenzisa izenzi ezinzima kunye nokutshintshwa kwezibizo kunye namatyala.
Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho yabantwana abathile kwenziwa ngokuthe ngcembe (ukusuka elula kuya kwiinkimbinkimbi), abanye - ngokukhawuleza. Ukuze uqikelele uhlobo luni lomntwana wakho umntwana, kukulungele ukubuza oogogo nomntana womntwana indlela ukukhululwa kwentetho yabantwana babo kuhamba ngayo. Ekubeni amaxesha amaninzi iimpawu zokuphuhlisa intetho zifa. Yaye ukuba uyise womntwana eqala ukuthetha emva kwexesha, enomlinganiselo ophezulu, umntwana ngokwakhe uya kuthetha ngokukhawuleza.
Unokukunceda njani umntwana ukuba aqale ukuthetha?
Unokunceda njani umntwana ukuba athethe ngokukhawuleza?
- Umthetho omnye. Phendula umntwana. Ngokukhawuleza xa eqala ukuhlambalaza, elele emotweni yakhe, athathe umdla wakhe, ucule "kunye naye" ingoma, xelela le ndinyana ngokuphendula.
- Umthetho omibini. Ingxelo kwizinto ezenzekayo kwimihla ngemihla. Sitshele phi, kukuphi na indlu yakho, kwaye kutheni, kutheni ubaba wakho ehamba, kutheni ubumnyama ebusuku kwaye kukhanya emini ... Intetho eninzi umntwana uya kuyiva emini, ngokukhawuleza uya kufuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingxoxo ngokwakhe.
- Umthetho wesithathu. Ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezincinci zezithuthi. Amageyimu ngamanzi, iphepha, iipuzzle, iifowuni zikaMontori, abaqulunqi, i-lego - zonke ezi zixhobo ezincedisayo kakhulu zokuphuhliswa kwengcamango yomntwana, kodwa nenkulumo yakhe.
- Emine. Xa uthetha nomntwana, zama ukuthetha, uthetha ngokuthe ngqo ngokuthe ngqo kwinto eqhelekileyo, nangona kubonakala kungavumelekanga kuwe.
- Umthetho wesihlanu. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuzalisekisa iimfuno zomntwana, zichazwe "ngaphandle kwamagama." Ukuba uyazi ukuba umntwana usuyakwazi ukucela umdlalo ozithandayo, ulinde ade acele, kwaye akafuneki uphawu.
- Umthetho wesithandathu. Musa ukucaphukisa uze ungabi nomsindo kumntwana. Kubalulekile ukomeleza impumelelo yomntwana, kwaye kungabonakali ukungahambi kakuhle. Gcina iimvakalelo zakho phantsi kolawulo, kwaye ke awuyi kuba nexesha lokubukela emva, njengoko incinci iya kuxela imibongo yeChukovsky ngaphandle kweengcebiso ukusuka kwicala lakho.