Iintsana
Udokotela wezingane uya kukuchazela ukuba kutheni umntwana engabi niselo ngokukhawuleza njengoko kufanelekile, kwaye zeziphi izizathu zezi. Enye yeengxaki ingaba ubisi lwakho, ingakumbi xa emva kokuzalwa uthatha isigqibo sokunciphisa umzimba. Kwaye kunye nobubele, ubuvila bomntwana osondeza isifuba nezinye ezininzi izizathu.
Kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuba ukhathazeke ukuba umntwana akakhuli kwaye akafumani ubunzima emva kokuzalwa okanye emva kweenyanga ezizayo. Ngaphantsi kwetafile ebonisa iiparitha zezinga lokukhula kunye nokuzuza ubunzima kubantwana ukuya kunyaka.
Ukuba awukhupheli izizathu ezikhankanywe kwangaphambili, kwaye umntwana akayidli kakuhle, utyhefu, mhlawumbi ngeqondo eliphantsi, ngoko ngaphandle kokubonisana nodokotela wezingane ongenakuyenza. Oku kuya kuphelisa isibalo sezifo ezichaphazela ukukhula nokunyaniseka komntwana, kodwa unyango lwaso lufanele luqale ngokuqala kobuntwaneni.
Abantwana ukusuka kwinye ukuya kweyesithandathu
Ukuba umntwana akanako ubunzima emva konyaka, kunokukho izizathu ezininzi:
- Ingane ekhutheleyo. Njengoko uyazi, abantwana abadala baya kuba, ubunzima obuncinci abayifumanayo. Khangela izinto ezincinci kwiimvuthu zakho, ukuba uhambahamba, usebenza, ulungele kakuhle kwaye uyazi yonke into yokuba umntwana wakhe kufuneka akwenze, ngoko akukho nto ibangela ukuxhalabisa.
- Izifo. Esinye isizathu sokuthi umntwana akanako ukunyuka, ingaba zonke iintlobo zezifo: inkqubo ye-endocrine, isicathulo sesisu, ifa, njl. Kule meko, ugqirha kuphela uya kunceda, sele amisele uchungechunge lweemvavanyo kwaye ahlolisise umntwana.
- Ukungabi nesidlo. Kwenzeka ukuba abantwana banqabileyo ukutya kwaye banondla kakhulu. Eyona ndlela ikhethekileyo ngumdlalo. Khawucinge ngebali, umzekelo, malunga neenqwelo-moya kunye negalaji, apho bahamba khona. Kwaye uzama, ubuncinane ngethuba lokuqala, ukunyusa umntwana, oko akuthandayo. Kwaye, ngenxa yesondlo esihle, khuthaza, umzekelo, i-candy.
Ezisixhenxe okanye ngaphezulu
Ukongeza kwizifo ezinzulu kunye nokungabikho kokutya, kunokubakho izizathu zengqondo.
- Ukuxinezeleka. Abantwana beli minyaka, njengabantu abadala, banokuziva benganeliseki ngokwengqondo. Ingaba sisikolo okanye umphumo kwiintlanganiso kunye neontanga zabo kwisitalato. Kukho nawuphi na, kufuneka ufumanise isizathu, ukuze ungabonakalisi imeko. Ukuba oku awukwazi ukwenza ngokwakho, tyelela isazi sengqondo.
- Uthando lo kuqala. Oku akufanele kululibale. Mhlawumbi isizathu sokuba intombazana enqatshelwe ekudleni kukuthi ufuna ukugqithisa ngakumbi kwaye afane nale nkwenkwana. Chaza ukuba ukutya ngenxa yokulondoloza impilo yakhe kuya kusadingeka ukuba kube nokutya okunempilo kuphela.
Ngoko ke, wenzeni ukuba umntwana wakho akanako ukuthatha ubunzima kuxhomekeke kwixesha lomntwana kunye nendlela aziphatha ngayo. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe, kungcono ukudibana nodokotela, kwaye ukuba le nto igxininisekile, zama ukuphelisa isizathu.