Abantu abaninzi abakholelwa ekuchazeni kwamaphupha, abanye ngokuchaseneyo, landela zonke iingcebiso zeencwadi zephupha. Kulo mbandela, kubalulekile ukufumana igolide ithetha, kuba, njengoko bethetha, "ngubani obonwe ngaphambili".
Kutheni imisipha?
Ukubona inkohlakalo ihamba ngokukhawuleza yinto ebonisa ukuba ngobomi bokwenene nonke nisenza ngokukhawuleza, nantoni na ingasetyenziswa ngabantu abanokungafuni kakuhle. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba uhlale kwisheke ukwenzela ukuba ungahlali kude. Enye inkohlakalo ingabonakalisa ukuqala kwexesha elinzima, ngeli xesha kungcono ukuba ungenzi nto nantoni nje. Isixa esikhulu se-mucus kwintonga ephupheni si lumkisa ukuba kungekudala uza kunikwa ityala eliya kunceda, kodwa lingekho mthethweni. Kule meko, nguwe kuphela oya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Ukubona inkohlakalo ephupheni oye wawela ngengozi kuyisilumkiso sokuba ulindele umsebenzi kunye nabantu abangathandekiyo. Imisebenzi enjalo ayiyi kuvuyisa kuwe okanye kubo. Iphupha apho inkohlakalo ifihle khona kwi-sink ibonisa ukuba ukuziphatha kwakho ngokwenene akufanelekanga. Ukuba udla iminenke ephupheni, ngoko i- subconscious ikuxelela ukuba lixesha lokutshintsha imeko kwaye ukhulule kancane. Iphupha, apho ikhonkco ezincinci zivela khona, likuxwayisa ukuba iingxaki ezincinci zingabangela iingxaki ezinzulu, ngoko ungavumeli izinto zihambe ngokwazo.
Kutheni umfazi ephupha malunga nenkopho?
Kule meko, iphupha libonisa ukuphucuka okukhulu kwiimeko eziphathekayo, kunye nokunyuka kwengqalelo kwabanye. Kwintombazana encinane, iphupha lithembisa utshintsho lobomi bomntu kunye nomtshato .
Kutheni uphupha inkukhu enkulu?
Inqanaba enkulu ibonisa ukuba ubomi bokwenene umntu ochaphazelayo uya kubonakala ngubani onokusombulula zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo.