Jonga umntu njengesipho - iimpawu

Kunzima ukukhetha isipho kumntu wakho. Emva kokubonakalisa ezininzi kwiindlela zonke ezinokwenzeka, abanye abasetyhini banquma ukunika iiyure zabo ezizithandayo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokwemiqondiso emininzi, iwashi elinikezelwa kumntu othandekayo ayiyi kuzisa into enhle. Kukholelwa ukuba emva kwenkcazo enjalo, loo mbini ngokuqinisekileyo iya kulwa. Ukongeza, igama iwashi ngesiTshayina lifana nelizwi lokungcwaba. Kwakuyintetho efanayo efanayo yamagama amabini ahluke ngokupheleleyo awakhulela esinye isibonakaliso esibi: ukubonisa njengesipho umlindo ukufa. Masizame ukufumanisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ngokwenene ukuthobela iingcinga ezinjalo kwaye ubandakanye ukubaluleka okubalulekileyo kubo.

Jonga njengesipho kumntu - iimpawu

Imbono yokuba indoda nayiphi na imeko ayifanele ilinikwe umlindo ivela kwiinkulungwane ezidlulileyo. Iimpawu kunye nezinkolelo ezinxulumene nale ndlela zivela kunye nokuvela kweemodeli zokuqala zokubukela. Abantu abaninzi abazange baqonde indlela onokuyilinganisa ngayo ixesha, kuba ayilona impahla. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, yonke into abantu abangazange bayayiqonda, yabangela ukwesaba. Ngenxa yoko, iingxaki kunye neentlungu zaqala ukudibaniswa newashi.

Ngoko, sinolwazi lokuba ukunika umlindo kumntu luphawu, ukuhlukana okuthembisayo. Kwakhona, abaninzi abantu bacinga ukuba ukutshata isibini esitshatileyo kuthetha ukutshabalalisa intsapho yabo ngenxa yokuphazamiseka nokuxabana, okuya kubangela ukuqhawula umtshato.

Awukwazi ukunikela umlindi ngenye ingcinga embi, ngokuya kwesiphi isipho esiza kubala ixesha elibekwe kulo mhlaba kumntu.

Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunika umlindo kumyeni wam - uphawu

Akunakwenzeka ukuba indoda ingavumi ukwamukela kumfazi wayo indlela enokuyenza yokugcina ixesha. Ukufikelela okunjalo kuya kugxininisa kwaye kugcwalise umfanekiso womntu, xelela abanye ngeemeko eziphathekayo kunye nesimo somnini wayo. Abo bakholelwa kwiimpawu ezimbi ezihambelana newashi, kodwa bafuna ukuzibonisa njengentetho kubathandekayo babo, cebisa ukwenza oku kulandelayo: cela umyeni ngenkokhelo engumqondiso wesipho. Ngaloo ndlela, intlawulelo iya kwenziwa kwaye zonke izenzo zedemokhrasi ziya kulahlekelwa ngamandla. Abo babasebenzisa le ngcebiso, bachitha yonke into ekhokisayo enxulumene neenkolelo ezimbi.

Kodwa uyakholelwa konke oku? Abanye abathinteli ukubaluleka kwiimpawu ezinjalo, abanye bazame ukuvavanya isiphephelo nokuba banganiki umlindi kumntu. Nangona kunjalo, ngokweengxelo, ezininzi iintsapho apho umfazi wanika umyeni wakhe umlindo, ahlala kunye kunye novuyo.