Ukudandatheka - isifo esibangelisayo, kwaye kaninzi asihluphekanga kuphela isigulane ngokwakhe, kodwa kunye nabantu abasondeleyo. Kodwa ngenxa yenhliziyo yothando, akukho miqobo, kwaye ukunyamekela nokunyamekela kwiimeko ezinjalo ziba yimpembelelo yonyango!
Yiyo kanye eyona njineli yaseLos Angeles, uTim Murphy, yabonisa. Umfazi wakhe othandekayo uye wajamelana nokudandatheka, kungekudala, kunye nokuhamba kwakhe ekhaya eSan Francisco, uTim ufumene indlela emangalisayo yokwenza umfazi wakhe amomotheka kwakhona aze abone ihlabathi elikujikelezayo ngemibala yemvula! Uvele nje ebhala kwisibuko kwigumbi lokulala 15 isizathu sokuba uyamthanda u-Molly kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, njengesigulane kwiklinikhi akuyi kubonwa!
"Andiyi kugxeka ukuba ukugula kwengqondo kunokunyangwa ngamagama amahle kwisibuko," isabelo seTim Murphy. "Enyanisweni, ukunyamekela, ukuthanda, ukuvelana nemithi kuyimfuneko ukulwa nokudandatheka. Kodwa ... ngezinye izihlandlo ezingabalulekanga, izenzo okanye amagama anokunika umphumo ongcono! "
Khangela, mhlawumbi esinye sezihlobo zakho ezi zizathu ezili-15 zinceda ukuncumo?
15 izizathu zokuba ndiyamthanda umfazi wam:
- Ungumhlobo wam omhle.
- Akaze enze nantoni na okanye aguqule umsebenzi kum.
- Usoloko eninika ithuba lokuba ndikwazi ukujongana neeprojekthi zindoda.
- Undenza ndihlekise yonke imihla.
- Uhle kakhulu.
- Undithabatha ngokusichukumisa njengokuba ndim.
- Ungomntu onomusa ondiwaziyo.
- Unesandi esihle kakhulu.
- Wayeya kuhamba kunye neklabhu yomgca.
- Wasinda kuloo ntlekele, kodwa akazange alahlekelwe ukholo kunye nethemba.
- Undixhasa ekukhetheni umsebenzi, kwaye unyathelo elilandelelanayo lilandela mna, xa ndikhutshwa yinto entsha.
- Yena ngokwakhe akaqapheli ukuba uyandithuthuzela kwimpumelelo engakumbi kuye.
- Uyenze umsebenzi omangalisayo ukuqhubela phambili umsebenzi wakhe.
- Uyakwazi ukukhala ngezinyembezi xa ebona isilwanyana esincinane.
- Kwaye nangethuba lokuhleka, unako ukukrazula)