Izipho zabatshattshana abasemtshadweni

Umtshato uyinto ebonwabileyo ebomini babantu abathandekayo abathandekayo, ehamba kunye nesidlo somdla, ukudansa, ukuzonwabisa. Akukho mbhiyozo ayikwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kokunika izipho kubatshatileyo abasandula kutshata.

Emva kokufumana isimemo somtshato, ngamnye umvakalisi uqala ukukhangela isipho. Ukukhetha izipho kubantu abasandul 'ukutshata emshadweni akusona umsebenzi olula. Emva koko, ndifuna isipho sibe yintsusa, imfuneko kwaye, ngokubalulekileyo, ukuba uyayithanda umfazi nomyeni. Emtshatweni umkhuba wokunika izipho ezinkulu, ezikhulu. Iindwendwe zanamhlanje zikhetha ukongeza iintshabini ezintsha. Nangona kunjalo, kuyisiko lokuncedisa isipho semali kunye nesikhumbuzo, into yokuqala, iintyatyambo okanye into eyenziwa ngezandla. Ngezantsi uluhlu lwezinto ezidumileyo kunye nezifunayo ezisemgangathweni kwizipho ezisandul 'ukutshata emshadweni:

Ukuze isipho sikhuphe isithwathwa sangempela semvakalelo efanelekileyo, kufuneka senziwe ngokufanelekileyo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka ukhethe isilwanyana esifanelekileyo, imbongo, okanye ukhumbule imeko enomdla kumntu osandul 'ukutshata. Izipho ezimnandi kubantu abasanda kutshata emtshatweni kufuneka zivezwe esidlangalaleni, zibangele ukuhleka phakathi kweendwendwe kunye nokuvuyisa wonke umntu. Kuyaziwa ukuba emtshatweni, kungekuphela nje abasanda kutshata banokufumana izipho. Kukho isithethe ngokuya kuthi ngexesha lokubhiyozelwa kwabatshabatshintshi benziwa ngezipho ezincinane kwiindwendwe zabo. Izipho ezidume kakhulu kwiindwendwe ezivela kwabasanda kutshata:

Emazweni aseNtshona, izipho kwiindwendwe ezivela kubasandul 'ukutshata zivame ukufakwa kwitafile phambi kwezivakashi zonke nangaphambi kokuba umthendeleko uqale. Kwizithethe zethu akukho migaqo ecacileyo - abasanda kutshata banokukholisa iindwendwe zabo ngezipho nangaliphi na ixesha lokubhiyozela. Isipho ithuba elihle lokubonisa isimo sakho sengqondo kumntu. Yaye ukuba isipho somtshato siyakhunjulwa ixesha elide, kufuneka sikhethwe kwaye sinikezwe ngothando olukhulu.