Ababhangqwana Khangela - enye yeendlela ezintsha zokufashisa, ezithetha "iingubo ezifanayo kwizibini ezithandanayo." Yenzelwe ngokukhethekileyo abo bafuna ukubonisa uthando lwabo bonke abantu kwihlabathi. Ukuba unoyolo kunye kunye nokufuna ukwabelana ngale nto ngehlabathi, kodwa awazi ukuba ungayenza njani, bhanqa iingubo zabathandwayo yinto oyifunayo.
Ziziphi iimpahla ezibini zothando?
Izambatho ezibiniweyo ezimbini zizinto ezimbini ezihlukeneyo okanye iiseti ezenziwe kwimbumba efanayo, efana nesitayela kwaye zenziwe kwisikimu esifanayo sombala. Ngokomzekelo, unokuba ngumbhinqo kuye kwaye mfutshane, kodwa umbala omnye okanye umzekelo ofanayo. Okanye nje ngeesibini zee-T-shirts kunye neziprintshi ezithile (ezifanayo okanye ezikumxholo ofanayo). Iingubo ezinjalo, ngokusemthethweni, zihluke kwiinqununu (oko kukuthi, ityunjwe ngokulandelanayo kumanani abesilisa nabesifazane ), kodwa kungabalulekanga, ukuba ibonakala ihambelana. Kwiingubo ezifanayo, nayiphi na ibini ibheka isicatshulwa, ichanekile kwaye ibonakale.
Ukongeza kwimpahla yesitalato, abavelisi banikezela ngamabhabhane ama-pajamas afanayo, apho ungabheka iifilimu kunye okanye ufunde iincwadi, uhleli ngokukhululekile kwiqhedi eduze komnye nomnye.
Izambatho zabathandekayo ziyadibanisa!
Xa abantu ababini bathanda, bafuna ukusondelana ngokusemandleni komnye nomnye. Izambatho zabathandi ababini kuphela ekuboneni kuqala zibonakala nje ziingubo, kodwa akunjalo. Iyakusondeza kunye, kukunceda ube yinye, iqela. Ukujonga oku, hlela nje ngezitrato kwiimpahla ezifanayo kanye kanye. Ukujonge kuwe, abantu baya kukumomotheka ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kukunike umxhelo wabo, oya kuthi, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kukuvuyisa. Kwaye uvuyo oluqhelekileyo, okwenene, luyakusondeza. Uza kubona, uya kuba nokuvuma ngakumbi.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunika iimpahla ezifanayo kubathandi?
Izambatho ezibini zothando ziya kuba isipho esilungileyo sokubambisana, umtshato okanye isigubho. Unokuzithemba ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ngabahlobo bakho abaqala ukutsandana ngokutsha - bayaqiniseka ukuba baya kukubulela ngeli thuba ukubonisa uthando lwabo.
Iingubo ezinjalo zingenakwenziwa kuphela kubahlobo, kodwa nakwabathandekayo babo. Nika isiqingatha sakho esithandekayo kwisiganeko sokubambisa isambatho sesibini, kunye nomthandayo uya kuqonda indlela othanda ngayo kwaye ukulungele ukuhamba iminyaka emininzi.
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