Umhla wokuzalwa uyiholide enkulu, kwaye xa usengumfana, uvula i-17, ubomi buphela - buqala nje ukufumana ukukhawuleza kwaye ufumane imibala eqaqambileyo le holide iba yinto ebaluleke ngakumbi. Kwaye umbuzo oyintloko ndiyiphi isipho endifuna ukuyifumana ngaloo mini.
Kukho nawuphi na, ukukhethwa kwesipho kumfana okanye intombazana, kokubili ukukhumbula iminyaka eyi-17, kwaye nangayiphi na enye imini kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno yokuzikhethela, iimfuno zabantu, kunye nemibandela yobuntu bakhe. Izinketho eziqhelekileyo azikwazi ukwenza oku, ingakumbi ukuba ufuna ukubonisa lesi sipho entliziyweni kunye nokusetyenziswa ngendlela engqiqweni, kwaye kungabi nje ukuhlawula umvuzo. Masizame kunye ukuze siphendule umbuzo, yintoni enokumnika umntu iminyaka eyi-17?
Izipho zokuqala kumntu oneminyaka eli-17
Umnikelo wenkwenkwe kwiminyaka eyi-17 ingaba neempawu ezivuthiweyo kunye neenjongo ezintle. Umzekelo, unokunikela nge-e-ncwadi. Unomdla kakhulu ekufundeni eyunivesithi kunye nexesha elihle elikhululekile. Nangona kunjalo, akuyena wonke umntu othanda ukufunda.
Ngosuku lokuzalwa lomfana oneminyaka eyi-17 ubudala, unika ibhola - ulungelelaniso. Ibhola ezele ngamanzi, ngaphakathi apho kukho ikhebhu kunye nezibikezelo. Kufuneka ucinge ngombuzo, gubha ibhola, uze ufunde isiprofeto. Ukuba umhlobo wakho unomdla ongenamkhawulo kunye nomoya ococekileyo, uya kufisa esi sipho. Sekunjalo njengenguqulo yokuqala yesipho, ukuba unako ukunika umfana iminyaka eyi-17 - uyisihlalo-sikhwama ibhola. Mhlawumbi, inkwenkwe yokuzalwa iyayithanda ibhola, kwaye esi sipho siza kuba yinto ebalulekileyo yokubukela imidlalo yamaqela ozithandayo.
Abaninzi abaselula banokuzilibazisa ezahlukeneyo. Kungaba, umzekelo, ukuthanda imodeli yomoya. Kungenzeka ukuba le ndoda yindiza enomtsalane kwiminyaka yakhe eyi-17 iya kuthanda isipho sesigaba seenqwelo, apho kuzakufuneka ukuba yakhelwe i-airliner yonke.
Xa ukhetha isipho, zama ukuqwalasela zonke iinguqu zobumnandi bomhla wokuzalwa komntu, kuba ukuba uqikelele umnqweno wakhe, lo mhla wokuzalwa awuyi kukulibaleka ngenxa yesizathu esinye esibalulekileyo.