Kukho iimeko xa abathandi banyanzelekile ukuba bathathe ixesha. Umntu omthandayo akayilibali ngokukhethiweyo wakhe, nokuba ephupheni, unokuqhuba isithethe esilula. Kubalulekile ukuba ungaxeleli nabani malunga nokusebenzisa umlingo, njengoko awuyi kusebenza.
Uqheliselo lwenyanga ukuphupha umntu
Isithethe esilula sifanele senziwe ngenyanga. Thatha iphepha lephepha elimnyama uze ubhale kulo luqhinga:
"UDeva-inyanga, ndinike igama lam intanda (igama). Makhe undibone ephupheni, undikhumbule undilahle. Ngokukhawuleza xa uzothuka, uya kundinika iindaba. Deva-Luna, unike iphupha elimnandi elivuyayo kwaye elikhanyayo ngam, kwaye ndiya kukubulela, mbulela kakhulu. "
Ngaphambi kokulala, yima ewindini evulekileyo, jonga iNyanga kwaye ufunde isakhiwo ngokuphindwe kathathu. Emva koko umbuzo iphepha kwaye uliphose ngefestile. Ngokukhawuleza emva kokuya kulala.
Uqheliselo kwisibuko ukuphupha umntu
Thatha isibuko esincinane uze ubhale kuso igama lomntu omthandayo. Unokwenza oku nge-lipstick, ipeniti ye-tip-felt okanye ipensela yamehlo. Ukujonga kwisibuko, funda icebo:
"Ebusweni obukhanyayo, ndibonakalisa, Ngephupha endithandwayo mna. (Igama) ukulala nokuphumla, Ndibone kwiphupha. Amen. "
Kubalulekile ngeli xesha ukuzisa isibuko ebusweni, ukuze kubonakalise ukuphefumla. Emva koko, faka isibuko sibheke phezulu phantsi komlotha. Esi siko singasetyenziselwa iintsuku eziliqela ngokulandelana.
Cwangcisa iphupha ngesithombe ukuphupha umntu
Ukuze umkhosi kubalulekile ukulungiselela isithombe esitsha sithandwa, kunye neema-khandlela ezili-13. Beka umfanekiso kwitheyibhile, kunye nendawo elandelayo ikhandlela kwaye ukhanyise. Ukujonga umfanekiso, funda le njongo:
"Ndiza kulala kuwe ngokukhawuleza kobusuku, ngokukhawuleza ukuvala amehlo akho okhathele. Ndiya kwamkelwa, ndiza kuthandwa, ndibonise ephupheni lam kuwe inhle kakhulu. Ngeke ukwazi ukuvusa, ukukhupha i-infestation, ndiza kuphupha ubusuku bonke ngokudideka. Uza kufumana amaphupha, kwaye uya kuhlutha kwiingqungquthela, kwaye ndiza kuziphawula ngentliziyo yam. Yiba njalo. Amen. "
Rite ukuchitha iintsuku ezili-13 ngomqolo, ngoko wenza.
Iqhinga lokuphupha umntu omthandayo ngephupha lokukhupha
Ufuna loo mntu ukuba akhumbule iphupha ixesha elide, bese usebenzisa le masiko, ekulungiselela umfanekiso wesithandwa, ikhandlela lecawa, iphepha lephepha elitsha. Ukuqalisa umkhosi kufuneka ube kwinyanga epheleleyo phakathi kobusuku. Beka umfanekiso phambi kwakho, kwaye ke ikhandlela emva kwalo. Dissolve izinwele zakho uze ususe zonke iingubo zakho.
"Ndixoka, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lakho) ethandaza, ewela ngapha. Andiyi kulala kuze kube sekuseni, andiyi kuvala amehlo enu ku-utrechka. Ndiya kuba lusizi kwaye ndibuhlungu ngenxa yam, inceku kaThixo (igama). Wena, ukunyamezela kwam, uye kumntu onqabileyo, yenza amazwi omthandayo, uhlasele ebuthongweni bam nasebuseni obucacileyo. Mnike omnye umnqweno: ungandichukumisa njani umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), indlela yokuthanda nokutshatyalaza imihla ngemihla, ubusuku bonke, ngomzuzu. "
Emva koko funda icebo, usethe umlilo kwiphepha eliphuma kwibhandlela uze utshise, ngelixa utshaya ngesithombe somsi. Yenza i-ash ashshabalalise emoyeni ngefestile. Thatha umfanekiso phantsi komlambo uze ulale, kwaye ushiye ikhandlela elitshise ngokupheleleyo. Akukhuthazwa ukuphinda isithethe ngokuqhelekileyo.