"Hlangana nezambatho" - yile ndlela u bulumko bulumko buhamba ngayo. Enyanisweni, ukubonakala komntu kubangela ukubonakala kwakhe kuqala-uphumelele okanye ulahlekile, unesizotha okanye unganakunqandwa, unontlalontle okanye uhoxiswe. Ukuze wenze ukucinga okulungileyo kuqala, kufuneka ube nomfanekiso wakho. Kodwa indlela yokudala umfanekiso wakho ukugxininisa isidima sakho sonke?
Amanyathelo okuqala
Yintoni eyokuqala? Mhlawumbi, lo mbuzo uxhalabisa abaninzi abafazi. Ngaphambi kokudala umfanekiso omtsha, kuqala kukho konke okufunekayo ukucacisa ulwalathiso lwayo. Ngaba le nto ibe ngumfanekiso wesinenekazi se shishini, okanye umfazi othakazelisayo wefashoni? Kwaye mhlawumbi uzikhethela isikhokelo somntu ngamnye.
Emva koko, jonga i-wardrobe yakho uze ucinge malunga neentsimbi zakho. Izinto kufuneka zikhethwe ngokufanelekileyo kwiimfuno ezithile, umzekelo, izikhwama zezoshishino zokufunda okanye ukufunda, ijee zokuhamba nokuphumla, ukugqoka i-party kunye neemeko ezingaphezulu. Khumbula ukuba okokuqala kufuneka usebenze kanzima emfanekisweni, kwaye uya kuqala ukusebenzela.
Intombazana idala njani umfanekiso wayo?
Amantombazana amancinci agcwele intshiseko kwaye ayikayika ukuzama, njengamaxesha aphindaphindiweyo. Ngaloo ndlela, bazama ukuzifumana, okanye kunoko, umfanekiso wabo. Ukudala umfanekiso kufuneka kuqala kuqala kuhambelana noluntu lwangaphakathi. Musa ukulandelelana ngokusesikweni imifashiselo yendlela yefestile - kwanele ukuba uqaphele izinto ezintsha ezinokufashisa ukuze ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi into ekufuneka isetyenziswe emfanekisweni wakho, kwaye ungubani. Qala ukudala umfanekiso omtsha unokuba luncedo lwezinto zokugqoka ezibonakalayo, ezikulo xesha elitsha lifanelekileyo. Ukugxininisa iifayile ezintsha ezikhanyayo ziza kuncedisa, zenze ukuba zizaliswe kwaye zenze umdla. Ukuba awugqoki iimfoloko, unako ukufaka isicelo esiphezulu ngephethini ecacileyo okanye iinkcukacha ezingaqhelekanga.
Umfazi udala njani umfanekiso wakhe?
Umfazi omdala, ukuguqula umfanekiso wakhe, unokufihla ubudala bakhe, okwenza kube lula kwizinto ezintle. Le yinqununu yeenwele, ukuzenzela kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, iimpahla. Konke kufanele kuhambelane kunye nomnye. Ekubeni abafazi abaninzi bebandakanyeka ekuphuhlisweni komsebenzi wabo, kucetyiswa ukuba kugcinwe isitayela sezoshishino esiya kuba yikhadi lakho lebhizinisi.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale usebenze ekudaleni umfanekiso wakho, khumbula ukuba kufanelekile, ungaxoshe abantu kude, kwaye ngoko uya kuba ngumbindi wonk 'ubani.
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