Incwadi yephupha ngumtshato, yintoni iphupha eliphathelele kumtshato lithetha ntoni?

Umtshato uyisikhumbuzo esiyikhunjulwayo kwaye sinandipha. Ngamanye amaxesha unokuba khona kungekhona nje kuphela, kodwa nakwamaphupha, ufumana amaxesha amnandi okanye okokuqala. Njengoko incwadi yephupha ithi, umtshato uyisilumkiso esihle, esithembisa amaxesha amaninzi amnandi. Kodwa abanye baphatha amaphupha ahlukileyo, ukunyamekela iinkcukacha.

Kutheni uphupha umtshato?

Ukulungiselela isiganeko esinjalo siyingcipheko shishini. Ngamanye amaxesha kwimeko yesiganeko umyeni okanye umtshakazi uphelelwe ngamandla kangangokuba babona umcimbi ozayo ngamaphupha. Oku kunokuthetha ukuxhatshazwa kwemihlaba kunye nesifiso sokutshata ngokukhawuleza kunye kunye. Kodwa kukho ukutolika okuchanekileyo. Kwaye ukuba ndiyaphupha ngomtshato wam, oku kunokuthetha oku kulandelayo:

1. NgokukaMiller - umtshato emaphupheni ubonisa ukuphuma kwimeko ezayo kwiimeko ezinzima.
2. Ukuba wakwazi ukukhumbula umhla othe ngqo - ngumqondiso wexesha elizayo.
3. Ukuba iphupha lenzekile ngosuku oluphawulekayo, kuyisimo esihle. Kwintombazana engatshatanga, umbono onjalo unokuprofeta.
4. Ukugatywa kwentsikelelo evela kubazali kuya kuzaliseka.
5. Ubume bamaRoma babona amaphupha abo ngomtshato wabo umqondiso wokuqala kothando lokwenene.
6. Ugqoke ngeengubo ezimhlophe zokugqoka - ukufumana ilifa.
7. Umtoliki onobuchopho ochasayo uchaza eso siganeko njengesimboli yengxoxo, eya kuba nomntu osondeleyo, kodwa ayiyi kukhokelela kuyo nayiphi na isizathu.

Kutheni uphupha ngomtshato womnye?

Akukho mfuneko yokuba ngumtshakazi okanye umyeni kumaphupha akho. Ukuba umtshato wesiganeko ephupheni umyalezo omhle kwiimeko ezininzi. Ukutolika kuyahluka:

1. Ngokutsho kukaWang iphupha elinjalo - ukunceda izihlobo.
2. Ngokutsho kukaFrud - kwiindaba ezilungileyo, ezinxulumene ngqo nomphuphi.
3. Umntu olele uyazibona njengendwendwe eyamenywayo-esi sizithembiso sokwandisa ishishini, inhlanhla ekusebenzeni kwakhe kunye nezenzo.
4. Ukuba intombazana ibona emtshatweni womntu othandekayo kunye nomnye umfazi, kukho izinto ezingenamsebenzi, ezingenasiphelo ebomini bakhe eziza kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala.
5. Xa umbhiyozo uphupha bobabini bomtshato, kufuneka balinde ukongeza.
6. Ingxabano ephupheni ukutshata udade okanye umzalwana-kwi-career.
7. Kutheni uphupha umtshato wentombi? Kuluhlu lweengxabano ezincinci eziza kudlula ngokukhawuleza.
8. Xa intombazana ephupha ngomtshato womhlobo, apho uyingqina, ngokuchaseneyo, uphawu olubonakalisa ukuba utshintsho olukhulu kwi-front front.
9. Yaye ukuba ngaba abahlobo babonwa ngephupha sele belibalekile, oku kubonisa isidingo sokubuyisela uxhulumaniso olulahlekileyo.
10. Incwadi yaseTshayina iphupha isilumkisa ukuba ukubona umthendeleko ngamaphupha - ngelishwa, izifo, ukuxabana.

Umtshato wabazali uphupha ntoni?

Zonke iinguqulelo zamaphupha zidibanisa ukuba umtshato wezihlobo uyimpawu emnandi. Ngokukodwa ukuba abazali batshata. Ukubona uyise nomama bayavuya, bahlakaniphile, banamandla onke - ukuvisisana ubudlelwane , ukunxibelelana okulungileyo kunye nentlalo-ntle. Ukuba umtshato wabo ubonakala kwiphupha, libonisa ukuba:

• Ebusweni, kungekudala kuya kuba neenguqu ezinkulu;
• Ukuthetha nabazali kufuneka banikwe ixesha elide, babe nomusa, banakekele ngakumbi kwaye banxibelelane ngakumbi;
• Kuba uyise nonina, kuye kwafika ixesha elingenasiphako kwaye kuyafaneleka ukuba bavumele ukuba baphile ngokuzonwabisa kwabo.

Umtshato wentombi uyaphupha ntoni?

Ukuba ibhinqa okanye umntu ephupheni uyatshata intombi yabo ethandekayo, oku kusenokuthi:

• ukuphelisa iingxaki, imisebenzi yasekhaya;
• iziganeko ezivuyisayo kwixesha elizayo;
• iindaba ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi;
• ukuba kumtshakazi omtsha engaziwayo, ingubo eqaqambileyo - kufuneka umntu alungiselele utshintsho olubi;
• ukubona umtshato wendabuko, okhanyayo njengomqondiso olungileyo;
• mhlawumbi, iphupha elinjalo liya kuba ngumprofeti kwaye kungekudala intombazana iya kumshiya ekhaya.

Kutheni uphupha umtshato wonyana wakhe?

Ukuba ukholwa yintoni le ncwadi yephupha, umtshato womntwana kumaphupha awunayo i-harbinger ye nyaniso yokuba kulungile ukulinda ngokwenene. Kuyahluke, kwaye inkwenkwe ayiyi kuba neentsapho zakhe kungekudala. Kutheni abazali bephupha ngomtshato wonyana wakhe?

1. Oku kubonisa imeko efanelekileyo ebomini yeqhawe eliphuphayo nomzali wakhe. Ungesabi ukuqhubela phambili ukuhlangabezana nemingeni emitsha.
2. Ukuba isiganeko esiyimbambano ayibangeli uvuyo - luphawu lokuba le ndoda ikhulile kwaye ingazimelela.

Kutheni sifuna ukulungiselela umtshato?

Ngamanye amaxesha kuphupha kukho iingxaki ezintle okanye ezinzima ezinxulumene nomtshato ozayo. Iphupha elinjalo lithetha ngenguqu ebalulekileyo endleleni yokuphila, utshintsho oluvelisayo, kwaye kungekhona nje kuphela.

1. Ukuze uqonde ukuba yiyiphi iphupha lokulungiselela umtshato, umntu makajonge kulowo uphuphayo umtshakazi okanye umyeni. Ukuba umntu akayi kubangela imvakalelo enyanisweni, kuphela into engekho okanye ukungabi nandaba, ibonisa ukuphazamiseka ngokupheleleyo kobudlelwane nomntu.
2. Ukuba le mphupha ibonwa ngumfazi oseminyakeni - iingxaki zendlu yakhe zilindele.
3. Intombazana engatshatanga ibuthongo ingabonakalisa ukungcatshiswa komfana.
4. Ukulungiselela iholide, apho kukho itafile etyebileyo kunye nemibono - ukuphumelela kwishishini kunye nemicimbi.
5. Ukukhonza itafile ngaphambi kokuba umthendeleko uthembisa inzuzo engalindelekanga.

Kutheni uphupha isimemo somtshato?

I-omen efanelekileyo yenza isimemo kwimibhiyozo efunyenwe kwiphupha. Ukutolika kuyahluka, kodwa kuninzi kunomtsalane:

• umphuphi ulindele ukufumana okulungileyo;
• phambili utshintsho;
• Ubomi kuya kunceda ukuqonda abantu, ukwahlula abahlobo kwiinyanisekileyo kunye nabaphangi;
• umntu ovela kwindawo esondeleyo uya kubelana ngemfihlo, evulekile;
• ukumema abahlobo ngamaphupha kwimibhiyozo yabo - uphawu lolwazi oluhle kuluntu;
• Kodwa ukuba umfana othile wayenomtshato, apho igama lakhe abizwa khona, unokufumana i-summons kumkhosi.

Kutheni ujonge malunga nokuphuma umtshato?

Abo babe nethuba lokuhamba emtshatweni kwiphupha, bayazibuza ukuba ngaba umbono uya kuzaliseka ngokwenene? Kunoko, iphupha lithetha:

• isimemo kunoma yimuphi umthendeleko osuka kwizihlobo ezide okanye ngabahlobo;
• umntu obalulekileyo okanye udibana nomntu omtsha oza kuphazamisa ikusasa;
• ukuzonwabisa kunye nodaniso kwisiganeko somntu - isilumkiso sokuba umntu wesini esahlukileyo uceba izicwangciso ezimbi kumlophu;
• UMiller ukhona kulo mbhiyozo-uphawu oluhle, olubonisa ukuphuma kwangaphambili kwiingxaki.

Kutheni uphupha ngomtshato we-gypsy?

Ngamaphupha, i-gypsies inxulumene nokweba, ukukhohlisa nokusela, ngaphandle kokuba umphuphi ngokwakhe ilungu lalo lincinane. Ngokomxholo wephupha, umtshato we-gypsy uyisilumkiso esinzulu, kwaye ukugubha kwabo okumnandi kukungabikho kakuhle.

1. Ukuba khona kweso siganeko kuthethwa ngengozi enokuthi ibangele kwiindawo zokudibanisa kwabantu. Kucetyiswa ukuba ugweme iimarike, amaziko okuthenga, apho abantu banokuphanga khona.
2. Ukubona emphupheni umtshato kunye ne-boy gypsy-ukufumana izicwangciso ezinesibindi. Kodwa kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ungakhohliswa.
3. Ezinye iincwadi zephupha zibiza umthendeleko we-gypsy uphawu lofezekiso oluyimpumelelo yemicimbi yonke kunye neengxabano kunye nabaphiswano.

Umtshato waseArmenian uphupha ntoni?

Iphupha elinomdla njengomtshato kwi-style yaseArmenia, umcuphi akanakwenzeka ukuba angawunaki. Umthendeleko weBhayibhile kunye neengoma, ukudansa kunye neendwendwe ezininzi zifakwe kwimemori. Kuthetha ntoni ukuba unomtshato waseArmenia?

1. Ukuba umphuphi ngobuzwe ngumArmenia, amaphupha afana nesimboli esihle kunye nesisombululo esilula kwiingxaki zangempela.
2. Xa imikhosi yesiganeko ithatyathwa kwi-lavash yendabuko, kuya kubakho abachasene ngokwenene.
3. Intombazana ibona ijikelezwe yiArmenia-idumela layo lisengozini.

Kutheni uphupha umtshato ngaphandle komyeni?

Ukumangalisa kunye nokwesabisa kunokubonakala kukuphupha ngomtshato, apho omnye wabenzi bokubhiyozelayo engekhoyo. Maxa wambi amava anjalo anengqiqo kwaye aqikeleleka, umzekelo, xa ephupha ngexesha lokubhiyozela ngokwenene. Umtshakazi ozayo uyaxhalabisa kangangokuthi ucinga iingcinga ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba akukho mtshato ochazwe, ukutolika kuyahluka:

1. Intombazana iyazibona kuloo mthendeleko, kodwa ngaphandle komyeni - uphawu lokuba izicwangciso zakhe aziyi kuzaliseka. Ulindele ukudideka, kodwa ubuhlungu buza kudlulayo kungekudala.
2. Enye ingcaciso ingalindelekanga kwaye ingathandeki utshintsho.
3. Mhlawumbi, ebomini kwintombazana kuya kuba nesiganeko esingalindelekanga, esiya kuyikhumbula ixesha elide.

Kutheni umtshato ungenziwanga?

Umfazi osindileyo okanye umfazi oshiyweyo, umyeni olahlekileyo, iingxaki zokubhiyozela - oku kunokwenzeka ngokwenene nasemaphupheni. Kule akhawunti, ukutolika kukudabukisayo. Umthendeleko ode ulindelwe kwaye ulindeleke ukuba awubekiyo-elophuphayo ngomtshato lithwala izibhengezo kweziganeko ezilandelayo ebomini bomphuphi:

• amaphupha ephuphayo ayenzeki;
• Utshintsho olulindelekileyo aluyi kwenzeka;
• ukuba umtshato wachithwa ngumyalelo womyeni okanye iingxaki zomtshakazi zivela emsebenzini;
• ukuba ngenxa yephutha labanye abantu-oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba umntu angakwazi ukuba lixhoba labadlali;
• ebomini kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuthanda kwakho, ukuba uqaphele ngamagama;
• xa abaphangi bembhiyozo bade bafikelelekile kweso siganeko, mhlawumbi balindele ukulahlekelwa yintengiso okanye iingxaki zempilo.

Njengoko incwadi yephupha ithi, umtshato ubulungile kungekhona nje kuphela, kodwa nakwimaphupha. Iphupha ngokuhlwa kwezinto ezibalulekileyo zokutshintsha ubomi, iingxaki, izisombululo kwiingxaki zokunyusa. Kukho ukutolika okungenangqiqo apho yonke into enxulumene nomtshato ithatha umbala ombi - ukufa, umngcwabo, ukugula. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uziqhubezele ekudakaleni, kufuneka uqaphele iimpawu zokulala kunye nesimo sakho sengqondo . Mhlawumbi, ngokwenene, umntu uxhalabele malunga nezihlobo eziseduze, ulindela isiganeko esibalulekileyo, nje ukhathele. Ukuba iphupha lilungile, lilungile, yonke into iya kuba yinto ebomini.