Imigaqo yokuziphatha kwamantombazana

Xa kuthethwa igama elithi "i-label", abaninzi abantu bafika engqondweni ngeendlela ezinzima zokukhonza ietafile basebenzisa izixhobo ezininzi, amaqabane ahloniphekileyo ase-Victori kunye nokubanda kweziganeko ezisemthethweni zezindlu zobukhosi. Okwangoku, isisombululo sisisetyenziso semithetho esilawula ukuziphatha kwabantu kwindawo ethile. Kwaye nangona ucinga ukuba ungumvukeli, ulwa nayo yonke imimiselo nemithetho yoluntu, ukwazi ukuba imigaqo ephambili yomgaqo-nkqubo wabasetyhini akayi kubuhlungu. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ngexesha lokuhamba, kuba ngokuqhelekileyo imigaqo yokuziphatha kumazwe ahlukeneyo ahluke kakhulu, kwaye kwenzekani kwilizwe lakho lingamangaliswa okanye lisongela abantu basemzini.

Kule ngqaku, siza kuthetha ngeemithetho ye-Yurophu yamanqaku atshelekileyo kubafazi.

I-Etiquette ye ntombazana yanamhlanje

Umyalezo wemihla ngemihla yamantombazana uquka imithetho elandelayo:

1. Naluphina unxibelelwano luqala ngokubulisa. Injongo yalo kukubonakalisa uvuyo kunye nokuzonwabisa kwintlanganiso. Ngethuba lokubulisa, ubukhulu bentsebenziswano bobudlelwane kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo. Ukuba abahlobo abade nabo baya kubingelela ngokwamagama, umhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo esinokubanga esitsheni okanye ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, ibhalansi kufuneka igcinwe phakathi kwesibingelelo esinesiqhwala nesiphepho. Khumbula ukuba kufuneka uvezwe ngabo abo ubingelela nabo, kwaye kungekhona bonke abo bangaphakathi kwimitha embalwa. Gwema ukumemeza okukhulu, ukuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqha kunye nokumanga kwexesha elide.
2. Kwimvula yemvula, umfana uphethe i-ambulera ngaphezu kwentombazana (ukuba inkulu okanye iphakame efanayo naleyo). Ngomlinganiselo omkhulu ekukhuleni, nganye ithwala isambulela sayo. Ukungena egumbini, khumbula isidingo sokukhusela abanye ukusuka kumanzi okucoca kwi-ambulera yakho. Ukwenza oku, sebenzisa ikhava okanye ushiye isambulela kwindawo ekhethekileyo emnyango.
3. Kukho kwisitalato, ngokukodwa xa uhamba-ungcolileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho mntu uya kukunqabela ukuba udle i-ayisikrimu epakini kwibhentshi, kodwa ungangeni kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, kwivenkile okanye kumyuziyam ophethe i-hamburger eneentsimbi okanye isanti.
4. Ukuza kutyelela kufuneka kube kanye ngexesha elimiselweyo. Ngokuchasene nenkolelo eninzi, iindwendwe akufanele zifike emva kwexesha. Ukuba awukwazi ukufikelela kwixesha elimiselweyo, qi niseka ukuba unumkise abanini malunga nalo. Kwimeko apho kufuneka uhambe phambi kwezinye iindwendwe, ungakhange ukhange umdla. Yiye ngokuphumla, ngaphandle kokukrokraza, kwaye kunjalo, musa ukulibala ukuthetha umkhosi kwimikhosi kunye nokubonga ngokuwamkela kwabo.
5. Jonga uhambo lwakho. Ukunyameka kwe-gesticulation akuthinteli nje kuphela abanye, kodwa ayibukeka enhle.

I-Etiquette kwivenkile yokufumana intombazana

Ukuba uya kwindawo yokutyela kunye nendoda, ngoko, ngokwemigaqo, loo mfana ungena kwigumbi lokuqala. Ukuthatha imenyu, kufuneka ayidlulisele kwintombazana, imnike ukuba akhethe kuqala. Emva koko uthatha imenyu ngokwakhe, wenza ukhetho kunye nemiyalelo yesitya zombini.

Akufanele uqale ukutya ngaphambi kokuba umyalelo ulethwe kuwo wonke umntu okhoyo. Okukuphela kwexesha xa abanye abantu ngokwabo baya kunikezela ukuba uqale ukutya ngaphandle kokulinda.

Ekupheleni kwesidlo, izixhobo zifakwe kwisitya ngokufanayo. Ukuba unqumle xa udla - izixhobo kufuneka zifakwe kwi-crosswise.

Ngethuba lokutya, umntu akafanele akhiphe, akhiphe ukutya ngokukhawuleza okanye ukukhetha ngokufanelekileyo. Kukho ummese, okanye uhleli etafileni, uqoke iziqwenga zokutya ezinamathele kumazinyo akho - uninzi olubi kakhulu lokwephulwa kwe-etiquette.

Ukuba ulahlekile ngengozi, usasaze okanye uchithe into ethile - ungakhathazeki kwaye ungagqithisi ukulungiswa kwephutha lakho. Ukucoca amanzi kufuneka kususwe kuphela nge-napkin, kwaye iziqhekeza eziqhekekileyo akufanele zifakwe phantsi.

I-ishishini lokuziphatha kwabasetyhini

Izambatho ze-Etiquette zamashishini amabhinqa zilungiselela ukuthotyelwa kwesitayela esisemthethweni esisemthethweni. Uhlobo olukhethekileyo lweengubo luya kuba sisitifiketi sezoshishino (ijebhe kunye neebhulukhwe okanye i-skirt) yeetoni ezithintekayo. Kule meko, ukungahambi ngokuthe ngqo kwe "top" kunye "nezantsi" kwendoda ayiyimfuneko - unelungelo lokudibanisa, umzekelo, isanti yejatshi kunye neengubo eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.

Imfuno ebalulekileyo yiphina impahla ihlambulukile kunye nokuchaneka. Qinisekisa ukuba i-suit yakho isoloko ihlambulukileyo kwaye i-ironed, kwakungekho namacangca okanye imingxube kuyo. Ngokufanayo, i-hairstyle yakho kunye ne-makeup kufuneka ibe nefanelekileyo. Ukujonga ukubukeka kwakho kuthetha ukubonisa intlonelo kwabanye. Kodwa ungazibeki (ukukhupha izitokisi, izicathulo ezihlambulukileyo, ulungise iinwele zakho, uphephe impumlo yakho, uthinte umlomo wakho, okanye usule i-mascara yakho ephumayo) kuluntu. Kungcono ukuyenza ekhaya okanye kwi "gumbi lamagumbi".

Njengoko ubona, i-etiquette yabanamhlanje abafazi ayinikezeli imithetho ye-supercomplex okanye imisebenzi exhaqisayo. Kwanele kuphela ukuba nobubele, ukuziphatha ngokuzibamba, kodwa kungagcinwanga, kwaye uphathe abanye ngokuhlonela.