Xa abantwana bakho beselula kakhulu, isisombululo seengxaki kunye neengxaki zabantwana abaphantse abazange babangele ubunzima. Xa ukhetha ifenitshala kunye nezinto zokuhlobisa, wawuzithembele ngokupheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, abafana bekhulile baze bafikelele kwiminyaka emininzi, eyiminyaka elivisayo eyenza ukuba baqikelele ngokweenqwenela zabo ngokweenkcukacha zangaphakathi kwigumbi labo.
Igalelo legumbi labantwana labafana abafana
Ukuze kulungiswe ikamelo elihle kubafana bezingane zesikolo, kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukuzalisekisa zonke iimeko zokuthuthuzela, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuba wonke umntu enze okulinganayo, ukuze kungabikho mntu uzive ehluthwe. Abazali abaninzi baphuma kule meko ngokusebenzisa ukuba amawele namawele athenge into efanayo - izinto, amathoyizi, iisandi, njl. Kwiminyaka emncinci inceda ukuphepha ingxabano. Ngoko ke, ukuba ubungakanani begumbi livumelekile, siyabelana ngamnye kumfana omfana omnye kwisithuba esifanayo kwaye sichaze kwiindawo kunye ngoncedo lwezinto zangaphakathi kunye neengxenye zezinto zokuhlobisa (iindidi zingahluka kakhulu). Ukuhamba okunjalo kuya kuvumela wonke umntu ukuba agcine indawo yakhe kwaye ngexesha elifanayo abe kufuphi kufuphi nomzalwana wabo.
Mhlawumbi kunzima kuba bazali abaxhobisa ikamelo labantwana kubafana ababini beeminyaka ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye, kunokwenzeka ukuba, ubunzima bezinto eziyinkimbinkimbi ngokulinganayo nolu hlobo. Kunzima ukukhetha umxholo wezinto zangaphakathi, oza kuba nomdla kumntwana osemtsha kunye nomfundi wokuqala. Kule meko, ukukhethwa kwezinto ezingathathi hlangothi kunokwenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba amagumbi okufundisa ahlala ekhangayo.
Ukuba kumalungiselelo egumbi lamakhwenkwe amabini anesibini kukho ubunzima kunye nommandla onqongophe, unako ukuhlala usebenzisa ifenitshala efakwe kwintsimbi kunye nefenitshala-yenguqu kwimo yangaphakathi.
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