I-Iskra Lawrence yabelana nabalandeli indlela yokuthanda 'umzimba wabo ongekho mzimba.'

Enye yamanqaku athandwayo kakhulu okwangoku kwinqanaba elincinci, u-Iskra Lawrence uzame ukunciphisa ubunzima kwiimilinganiselo "eziqhelekileyo," kodwa akuzange. Emva kwexesha, le ntombazana yayima ukulwa neepounds, kwaye yathandana nomzimba wayo, ngaloo ndlela yenza into engenakwenzeka - yaba ngumnye wemifanekiso edumileyo yehlabathi.

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Udliwano-ndlebe kwi-American edition ye-Self

Namhlanje, u-Lawrence oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala uvela rhoqo ngokukhawuleza kwiphepha le-glosses, kwaye enye impumelelo yi-American Self. Abafundi belo phephancwadi abayi kufumana ukukhwabanisa kwesithombe esithandekayo, kodwa bafunde ngendlela intombazana enomfanekiso omangalisayo ophumelela ngayo. Ngoko, i-Spark ibonisa ntoni?

"Okokuqala, ndiza kukuxelela okufutshane malunga nendlela endandiba ngayo. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ndaqala ukuphupha ukuba ndiya kuba ngumzekelo, kwaye sele sele ndiba neminyaka eyi-13 ubudala ndaqala ukuya kwiindawo ezikhethiweyo kunye nokhetho olukhethiweyo. Enyanisweni, ngokunyanisekileyo, ndihlala ndiphikisiwe ngenxa yobunzima obukhulu. Ekuqaleni ndatshwenyeka, ndaza ndaqonda ukuba kufuneka ndilwe. Ndaqala ukuhlala kuzo zonke iintlobo zokutya kunye nokuya emsebenzini osebenzayo, kodwa konke kwakungekho nto. Ndandikhathazeke kakhulu. Kwaye ngoko omnye wabahlobo bam bendicebisa ukuba ndigcine idayari. Ndaqala ukubhala phantsi kwam amava am apho kwaye ndaqonda ukuba kuxhomekeke ekubeni uqonda njani le nto okanye loo meko. Ngokomzekelo, ndaqala ukuqonda ubunzima obunzima njengengxenye yam, ndihlala ndicinga ukuba iifom ezinjalo zenza ndibe ngowesifazana nesondo. Kwaye yonke into ekhanda yam yaqala ukuba yimithetho elula. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba uya kuba ngubani. Okwesibini, nguwe kuphela onokuzigxeka ngokubonakala, kunye nokugqiba nokuba ulungile okanye akunjalo. Okwesithathu, nayiphi na ukuhluleka kuyisifundo kuphela esiza kukuqinisa. Okwesine, awufuneki ukuthelekisa wena namanye amantombazana. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, kwesihlanu, sifunde ukuthanda, ukuhlonela kunye nomzimba wakho. Khumbula ukuba likhaya lakho lobomi. Ngokuqhelekileyo uye kwii-SPA-salons uze udibanise, ngaphandle kwalokhu, yidla ngokufanelekileyo. Ndikholelwe, umzimba wakho uya kuvuya kakhulu ngale nto. "
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Hlola malunga nokuhlelwa kwamanqaku

Abaninzi sele benethuba lokuqikelela ukuba i-Iskra - imodeli engekho emgangathweni, ngoko ke ebomini bayo kukho amabali amaninzi angathandekiyo achaphazelekayo kummandla wezakhono. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uhlalutyo olwenyisayo kwiintanethi zentlalo malunga nale nto okanye ukudubula kwesithombe. Emva kokuba uLawrence uthe la mazwi:

"Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuhlelwa kwamanqaku kungalunganga. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu, bengasaboni imifanekiso, kodwa, bebona ukubhala kunye nobukhulu, baqala ukukhupha. Abantu abaninzi kufuneka bafunde ukujonga ngeeleta kwaye baya kukwazi ukuyiqonda ngokupheleleyo imifanekiso yam. "
ISkra Lawrence kwiphepha le-Self magazine