Ukuze uchaze ngamaphupha ngabantu abafileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ezinye iimeko. Nokuba iinkcukacha ezincinci zinokuchaphazela kakhulu ulwazi lokugqibela. Kubaluleke kakhulu nakwiziganeko ezenzeka ngobomi bokwenene. Xa uqwalasela ngokucophelile iphupha uze ucinge ngako konke oku ngasentla, ungaqala ukutolika.
Yintoni abafileyo abaphupha ngayo?
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaphupha apho umntu ofileyo ephuphayo ephilayo kuphela imemori kunye nokubonakalisa intlungu. Ukuba uthetha nomntu ofileyo, ibhuku lephupha licebisa ukuba uphulaphule amagama, kuba banokuba namacebiso kunye neengcebiso ezilungileyo. Iphupha, elalibonayo ngaphambili umntu owaziwayo, liyi-hibinger yenhlanhla enkulu. Kwixesha elizayo elizayo uza kuhamba kunye nenzuzo, kodwa kuphela kwinqanaba elilodwa, apho, kufike kuwe. Umtoliki weliphu, apho umntu ofileyo ephupha ebhokisini, uguqulela indlela umngcipheko weengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo, ezinokubangela ukongamela ubomi. Kwixesha elizayo elikude kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele kwaye uqaphele. Ukuba wenza iinzame zokuvuselela umntu oshonile-esi sisilumkiso sokuba kuya kufuneka ujongane neengxaki ezindala. Kufanelekile ukuba udibanise kunye kunye nokulungisa yonke into. Abantu abangaqhelekanga abafileyo baxhamla ukufumana uncedo oluvela kwicala elingalindelekanga.
Kuya kuba lunomdla ukwazi ukuba kutheni abantu abafileyo abajikelezwe ngamacala onke bephupha. Kule meko, ibhuku lephupha lithi ngokukhawuleza uza kuphazamiseka ezininzi iingxaki kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo. Kwenye yeencwadi zokuphupha, kukho ulwazi lokuba amaphupha abantu abafileyo abonisa iingxaki kwiimali nakwizabasebenzi.
Ukuba umntu ofileyo ephupha umntu ophilayo ngendlela enhle - lo ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, obonisa indlela yokuphila. Ukumbona ebuhlungu, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kulindela iingxaki ezininzi. Ukuba uhleli etafile kunye nabantu abafileyo kwaye uzame ukuwondla - lo ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo othembisa isimo sezimali esizinzile nolonwabo kwintsapho. Umtoliki wephupha, apho umntu ofileyo edla ngokubhekisa ubomi, aguqulela, njengokuba ubukho ebomini bakhe benomuzwa wecala malunga nezenzo ezenziwe ngaphambili. Ukuba ubona isithunzi kunye nabafileyo - oku luphawu lokulangazelela aba bantu. Umbono wobusuku apho umntu ofileyo ebiza ngokuba ngumqondiso ongathandekiyo othembisa isifo esibi okanye ukufa.