Ukuqhathanisa akusenzi nabonwabileyo, ingakumbi ukuba ukuhlukana kubangelwa kukusweleka okanye ukungaqondi. Ndifuna ukubuyisa yonke into, kodwa awazi ukuba njani? Akukho nto inokwenzeka. Ukuba umntu wakho unguLeon, kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ufuna umfazi osebenzayo , owamkelwa ngabanye abantu, kodwa akaqinisekanga ukuba uphakeme ngaphezu kwakhe. Inkunzi yindoda ayithandi, kwaye ayiyazi indlela yokuxolisa, kunye naye kuyimfuneko yokwenza izinto ezithile. Ngoko ke, kuya kufuneka wenze imizamo eninzi ukuqonda indlela yokubuyisela ingonyama yendoda.
Indlela yokubuyisela inzala yeNkunzi yindoda?
Ingonyama ayithandi ukungquzulana, ngoko ke, ukuze ufunde indlela yokwenza ngayo, kuyafaneleka ukuba usebenze ngokwakho kwaye ufunde ukuphinda ufumane ubumnandi. Zama ukuvuma iimpazamo zakho uze umbize kwingxoxo engenangqiqo. Ukubuyisa indoda-ingonyama, kufuneka, okokuqala, sitshintshe ngokwayo. Kufuneka ukuba utshintshe indlela ebonakala ngayo kunye nokungahambi kakuhle. Mhlawumbi uya kuzifumana kwinkampani eqhelekileyo, kwaye ngoko kufuneka uziphatha ukuze amadoda ajikelezileyo ahlaziye ngawe. Kufuneka uhlale uphelele kwaye uhlalise, ukuze kungabikho mntu osolisayo. Zama ukwenza ukuncoma kancinci ku-Leo wakho wesilisa, ukuze abe neentlonelo zakho, ukuzimela kwakho kunye nokuzimela.
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Kubo bonke baphendulwa kumbuzo, indlela yokubuyisela ingonyama yendoda, iingcali zengqondo zicebise: kufuneka sidlale ngokuzithemba kwakhe. Iingonyama zizinqwenela kwaye ngoko-ke, ukunyaniseka, kunye nokudumisa okunzulu, kuya kunceda umntu okhethiweyo
Indlela yokubuyisela uthando lendoda yesintu?
Kulula ukuba ungalindelanga ukuba avume iimpazamo, uxolise, kwaye uncede aphume kwimeko kunye nentloko yakhe ephakamileyo. Kodwa ngelo xesha awuyi kuthobeka, uguquke okanye ucele ukuxolelwa. Ungakwazi ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ukuba imbambano yayingeyena inkohlakalo yakho. Kodwa usamthanda kwaye ufuna ukuthemba ukuba iimvakalelo zakhe azizange zikhuphe. Khumbula ukuba umele ukhathele okhethiweyo wakho ngaphandle nangaphakathi. Kwaye ke awuyi kuba nombuzo ukuba ubuyisele njani ingonyama yendoda emva kokuhlukana , kuba akayi kukushiya.