Ngaba umenyelwe kwidlanga lokuzalwa lomhlobo? Emva koko, ngaphambi kokuya esitolo ngesipho, cinga malunga nento afuna ukuyifumana. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi ukuthanda kwakhe kunye nezinto ezithandayo. Enyanisweni intombi isondelene nomntu oza kuhlala ephulaphule kwaye uya kunika inkxaso kumzuzu onzima. Iintombi zihlala zihlekisa kwaye kukho into yokuthetha ngayo. Ngoko ke, phatha ukhetho lwesipho somhlobo kakhulu ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye ke yakho ikhoyo iya kuba yinto efunwayo kwaye iluncedo. Ngoko isiphi isipho sokunika umngane wakho othandekayo?
Iingcamango zesipho somhlobo
Into ephambili ekufuneka uyiqwalasele xa ukhetha isipho somhlobo kukuba iyafana neminqweno yakhe. Emva koko, ukuba intombi iyakuthanda umzobo, kungenokuba kungathandeki ukufumana njengesipho, umzekelo, umdlalo webhodi.
Ukuba intombi yakho ihamba phambili, mnike umrhumo kwi-spa okanye echibini lokubhukuda, kwaye uya kuvuya ukuphumla emsebenzini kwaye uphumule kancane. Izinto eziyimfuneko kwimisebenzi yobungcali zinganikwa kuphela loo ntombi ethanda kwaye ixabise umsebenzi wayo.
Isipho simele silingane nobudala bentombi. Umzekelo, intombazana eneminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo ineminyaka engama-elinesibhozo inokuthi iboniswe ngekhethi lezilwanyana ezizithandayo okanye izinto zokugqoka. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba yinto yendlela. Ubungcwebi obufanelekileyo bekhwalithi yangaphambili.
Mhlawumbi umhlobo wakho uya kuvuya ukumnika itekiti ekonteni yebhendi yakho oyintandokazi okanye kwi-ballet. Isipho esihle sinokuba izixhobo zefowuni, ikhompyutheni, i-laptop okanye i-USB yangaphambili. Intombi yesipho esithandekayo ingaba yiT-shirt okanye umsila kunye nesimboli sakhe.
Unokunikela ngesakhelo sezithombe ezenziwe ngokwabo kunye nesithombe esilunxulumene esiza kukukhumbuza ubuhlobo bakho. Intombazana iya kuthanda i-vase enhle kunye neentyantyambo zezimbali.
Mhlawumbi intombi yakho ithanda izipho eziphathekayo, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuthanda iipilki okanye iilwimi ezintle, isikhwama sekhanda okanye isikhokhelo selayisenisi yokuqhuba okanye ipaspoti. Nika umfanekiso omhle kumthandi wepeyinti.
Mhlawumbi intombi yakho ifuna ukuya kwelinye leeklasi kwiklasi ekuphekeni okanye ekudwebeni, ukuthunga okanye ukusika. Emva koko uya kuvuya ukufumana isatifikethi sezo zifundo.
Ukuxhaswa yintombazana ekhuselekileyo kwaye ekhuselekileyo inokunika isitifiketi sokungena nge-bungee okanye iparachute, ithikithi ukuya kwi-skating rink, ipaki yamanzi, ukukhwela ihashe, isifundo kwi-moya okanye kwinqwelo yebhaluni. Kwimozulu efudumeleyo, unokulungiselela ukuba intombi ihambe ehlathini okanye kumlambo. Mhlawumbi intombi yakho iya kujonga i-yoga namhlanje, isatifikethi onokuyibonisa yona njengesipho. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba izipho ezinjalo zingenziwa kuphela xa uqinisekile ukuba uya kuthanda isipho, kwaye akukho zikhokelo zokungqubuzana kwezi zinto ezikhutheleyo.
Umhlobo othanda ukumnandi kunye namahlaya ahlukeneyo, unokunika, umzekelo, i-alarm clock-escaped and then will not delay in work or classes. Izindlu ezifudumalayo ezinomfanekiso okanye ubuso obuhle ziza kufudumala imilenze yakho intombazana ebusika.
Intombi engaphezu kweminyaka engama-25 ubudala ingaba isipho esihle, isethi esihle sebhedi yelitya, ikofi okanye inkonzo yeeti, ipeyinti ngokukhethekileyo kwintombazana yokuzalwa okanye indebe kunye neefoto zakho.
Ukuba umhlobo uyakuthanda ukudweba, mnike umfanekiso omhle. Okanye unokwenza umyalelo wakhe kumzobi. Okanye unike isitifiketi somtshini wesithombe.
Njengoko ubona, kukho ezininzi iindlela zokukhetha izipho kumhlobo. Into ephambili kukuba esi sipho sisenziwa entliziyweni.