Ngaba ndiyakhulelwa ingxelo ephazamisekile?

Abasetyhini abasebenzisa indlela yokuphila njengendlela yokukhusela ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo banomdla kumbuzo wokuba kungenzeka yini ukuba ukhulelwe ukuphazamiseka ngokwesondo (PA). Eli gama libizwa ngokuba ngumnxeba, apho iqabane ngaphambi kokuba likhishwe, likhupha i-penis ukusuka kwisini.

Le ndlela enye yezona ziqhelekileyo; ayifuni ubukho naziphi na izixhobo zokukhusela ezongezelelweyo (i- spirals, iikhondom ).

Nangona kunjalo, naphezu kwayo yonke into elula kwaye, kubonakala ngathi, ukhuseleko, ukukhulelwa ngesenzo esiphazamisayo kwenzeka rhoqo. Kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zonyango, unokufumana malunga neenani-manani: kuma-paire angama-20 ukusuka kwi-100, rhoqo usebenzisa le ndlela yokukhusela njengowona mkhulu, iminyaka engama-1, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka. Masizame ukufumanisa nokufumanisa: njani unokukhulelwa ngesenzo esiphazamisayo kwaye yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba utyalo luya kwenzeka.

Yintoni ebangela ukuba ukhulelwe emva kwe-PA?

Ekuqaleni, le ngqungquthela ephanda olu hlobo lwengxaki, yacacisa ukuba ininzi ekhutshwa yindoda ekhutshwe yindoda ngexesha lonwabo kakhulu, kukho iiseli zesini. Nangona kunjalo, emva kokuvavanya kunye nezifundo ezininzi, i-spermatozoa ekuthiwa "i-lubrication" ayikho ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphandle koko, unokuchaza njani isizathu sokuba kutheni iindibano ezininzi ziye zahlala ziphazamise ukulala ngokwesondo.

Ngokweziphumo zophando, amathuba okukhulelwa kunye nokuziphatha okuphazanyiswayo kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo ekuziphatheni komntu. Ngexesha lesini, iqabane livakalelwa indlela yokuguqulwa kwe-orgasm-ejaculation, kwaye ngoko yonke into incike ekubeni uya kuba nexesha lokukhipha ipenisi kwizitho zomzimba zowesifazane ngexesha okanye, kungekhona. Njengoko uyazi, yonke into ihamba namava, ngoko ke akubona bonke abantu abanokuzithiba okwaneleyo.

Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba amathuba okukhulelwa ngesenzo esiphazamisekileyo kuxhomekeka kwezinye izinto ezininzi, oku:

• ukungabikho kococeko olusenyongweni kumadoda emva kwesondo. Le nyaniso ibaluleke kakhulu xa oonxibelelwano bezocwangciso ezininzi bebelandelana emva kwekhefu elifutshane. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, iintsholongwane zentsholongwane ezisuka kumgca we-seminal uhlala ehlwini lwesigqabi zingangena kwisondo;
• ukwenza uthando kwiintsuku ezandulela i-ovulation okanye ngexesha elenzekayo, ukusebenzisa ukulala ngesondo ngokuphazamisa kakhulu kwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa.

Zizinto ezi zimbini eziyimpendulo kumbuzo wendlela umntu angakhulelwa ngayo xa umntu ephazamisa ukulala ngesondo ngaphambi kokunyuka.

Ukuthetha ngale ndlela yokukhusela, awukwazi ukuchaza ngokuchanekileyo ithuba lokukhulelwa njengepesenti, kuba ngesenzo esithintekileyo, abanye abafazi banokukhulelwa masinyane emva kokuqala kokusebenzisa le ndlela. Yonke imbopheleleko ixhomekeke kumntu kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukuzithiba, okunzima ukuyilawula, ingakumbi ngexesha le-orgasm.

Ngaba i-PA iyingozi kwimpilo?

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba le ndlela yokukhulelwa komzimba inezinto ezininzi, ezibizwa ngokuba yimingcipheko, enokuthi ithinte kakubi impilo yabantu.

Okokuqala, ngohlobo loqhagamshelwano lwezesondo, zonke iingcinga zomntu zixhunyiwe nendlela yokuthintela umkhuhlane wamanzi okungena kwi-genitalia yabesifazane. Iingcinga ezifanayo zinokutyelelwa ngumfazi. Ngenxa yoko, abalingani bobulili abanakukwazi ukuphumla ngokupheleleyo, ekugqibeleni kuthintela kakubi isimo sengqondo sesi sibini. Ngenxa yoko, bayabacaphukisa kakhulu, bathabathe.

Okwesibini, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba impilo yempilo yendoda ngenxa yesigxina esasiphazamisa isondo nayo ingashukunyiswa. Inyani kukuba izenzo ezinjalo zikhokelela kwiinkqubo ezivuthayo kwinkqubo yokuzala. Ngenxa yoko, oogqirha bancoma ukuba bangasebenzisi le ndlela yokukhusela okanye bayenze kwiimeko ezinqabileyo kwaye zingavamile.